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writes:im 16 turnin 17 nd i reeally like my english teacher, honestly hez not very goodlooking but for sum weird reason i cannot get him out of my head nd i try rlly hard to impress him :P whic is pretty embarssn but w/ iv rlly nevr felt this way b4 abt any guy, since last year iv been sayn no to other guyz who are askin me out coz of my teacher, i mean he is so smart, funny (sumtimes goes a lil 2 far but still funny), and when he wants to be, reeally nice...im okay at english but its not my fav sub. but now becuz of him im takin this english exam tht sum ppl arent so tht i could hv sumthn to talk abt w/him...it ddnt work out 2 well :P nyway, i reeally wanna b close to him, last year i was way worse coz everytime i closed my eyes i would imagine those small conv. we had or sum things he said to me durin class. Pretty much every1 in my class hv guessed tht mayb i have a crush on him but dont take it srsly, those close to me know i RLLY like him...nw i dont wanna get him fired (nd he is married, his wife seemz nice) but i still wanna be close to him, hez just so intresting plz i need some1 to help me out here nd give me sum tips to just..i dunno...get closer..i am desperate
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reader, catsmeow  +, writes (2 September 2010):
Yeah I can describe the crush on this teacher the same way he's not the most gourgess man, but he's very attractive, has that carisma and smart..funny..
The negitive same he's married. that just breaks my heart... but i hav'nt told anyone never will not even graduation day and thats three more years for me. I never felt this way about anyone I cant even look into his eyes without doing something stupid, or turning red, I hate it.
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reader, solovley  +, writes (19 December 2008):
I am a young Teacher and I really hate it when pupils in my class put me in this kind of position. I know you have strong feelings for him now, for so many reasons, because he is in control when you see him and thats a turn on, also you dont know what he's like in the real world, you'd probably be dissapointed because your view of him is so high. I would really steer clear, I'm sure you are an amazing person but if anything came of this, this is the only memory your class mates will have of you when you leave school, "the girl who tried it on with Mr X" Also if anything did happen between you in a few years time you would look back and hate him beacause he seriously took advantage of you, its a sure fire recipie for you having problems with men when you get a bit older. You deserve a gentleman your own age
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): I can relate. Last year in 9th grade I also fell in love with my English teacher. (He's 22 years older than me) He would ALWAYS flirt with me, and I would flirt back. He raised my grade and would favor me over the other students. He would look at me with so much passion in his eyes, and I would do the same. I wanted him to know how much I liked him so for Valentines Day I got him something...omg big mistake. The whole damn school found out and all the teachers were looking at me really weird. Well, that was last year, now this year we don't talk at all =[. It sucks cuz I really love him alot and he still gives me butterflies but he's keeping his distance from me. I don't want him to lose his job so I can understand if he wants to avoid me. Seeing him everyday doesn't help. It's like last year never even happened=[ I have his phone number and his email, but I'm not sure if I should contact him.
I think everyone goes through this at some point in their lives, it sucks, but it will only make us stronger.
I wish you luck hun and whatever you do please be careful. Follow your heart and you'll be okay. You are not alone, there are crushes going on in every high school.
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reader, pretty-sweety  +, writes (11 June 2008):
Oh godd... i do not know what Is going on with girls and teachers! I'm in the same situation like many of you's are, and I feel sick now! I can't get my teacher out of mind! Always ask questions such as.. how was your weekend or how are you, or something else... I have a horrible BIG crush since the start of the year and I love seeing him.. Just talk to him and try to make conversations. Joke around with him and may be flirt.. Smile! Though sometimes it;s also good to play it cool! Otherwise you might be ssen as a bit weird smoling and talking all the time and even desperate! Just be friendly! Hople, I don't know anymore Im confused myself!
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reader, XxKrystalxX +, writes (9 April 2008):
 I've got exactly the same problem except he's my form tutor and I have to see him every day so it's hard to forget him. I've been going through a pretty rough patch lately so i've been really upset and he's the only teacher I would open up to but the more we talked the more I liked him. If you want to get him to notice you then I would suggest that you be the opposite of what you normally are, so if your normally always talking in his lesson then just stare into space and if he asks you something just ignore him until he comes over and just apologise and say you were miles away, he might ask you to stay behind at the end to talk about it. Hope this helps.
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reader, Tevote  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 well lets seee, you can always talk to him about a story that you're writing or something. Or if you write some lyrics ask him if he would read them and tell you if they're any good, say you might be entering a competition but you need help.
If he ever needs something done always volunteer :).
And i know this is manipulative, but you could make a plan where you're in class or something and you run out crying or you ask can you go outside-because then he will be concernd about you and you can think of a problem to tell him, or yell at him and have an angry outburst then after class apologize and tell him why you were in a bad mood or something...I dunno but crying always works if you cant make urself cry just dont blink for ages and it works.
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Hiya, if it's any consolation i've got the same problem! However i don't have any classes with my teacher so its harder to get close to him, more so because he's aware of my feelings for him... and literally all the other teachers know (Okay, i'm going a bit off track there - sorry!) Just stay behind after his lessons and ask how things are going nd stuff. But if you've never really talked to him before, that might seem a bit strange to him so just relate what you say to the lesson then drag it on a bit... and just ask him casually 'so are you okay then? You seemed a bit stressed in the lesson' or 'Up to anything this weekend?' and Tell him what you're doing. Hope thts a bit of help for ya! Mail me if ya wanna chat xx
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