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*amiallalone
writes: i feel so alone and helpless i feel like im in a world full of aliens and im the only human... how can i stop this i just want someone to love and hold onto someone who can make me happy when im sad and someone i can comfort when they are down. how can i fix this please tell me. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (30 July 2009):
You have to get comfortable with you , You can't expect to meet someone and they fix all your problems because honey no one can do that at all, you will have to find happyness within yourself because if you go around looking for people to make you happy you maybe looking for along time and end up in the wrong crowds that can turn your life in a direction you don't want to go. I will encourage you to do things you like and find people that like those same hobbies and with that you will gain confidence and with that you will find someone that will complete you. See the bottom line is people are drawn to others with confidence and security within themselves I promise you will find what you are looking for. I am sorry if I rambled but I think you will get my drift good luck baby girl.
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reader, solovley +, writes (30 July 2009):
Hey sweetheart dont worry about it I felt the exact same at your age, not to sound patronizing! I decided not to try and hang out with people that werent suited to me and concentrated on making a small amount of good friends, and with that came a boyfriend and another and another... You will be surprised how things fall into place in the next few years and you will have someone to love and they'll love you back even more xxx
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reader, Deisy.. +, writes (30 July 2009):
Helping people always makes us feel better. Look at the poor people,the people who don't have anything to eat,who lost their parents..you'll see that helping them will make you forget about your troubles!
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reader, hockeyluvr5 +, writes (29 July 2009):
Just go out and meet new people.
You will eventaully meet somebody and fall in love :)
Maybe even work on your appearance if need be.
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