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I was still erect AFTER intercourse... is this normal?

Q.   I need help, i had intercourse for the first time, we both enjoyed it the other day and i was wondering is it normal to ejaculate when ur popping her cherry i did! if so how come i kept an erection after until we stopped and was still erect for ...

A.   9 May 2011: Why is that scary? KEEP GOING!... (read in full...)

How can my best friend who is extremely beautiful, be so insecure?

Q.   I've never really used this website, but i have a majour confusion with my best friend. I don't see her in the way other males do, she is more like a sister. But many, many! guys are always telling me that they are very jealous that i know her or ...

A.   9 May 2011: I have this too, not to toot my own horn, but I'm the most attractive out of my friends. But since I am I feel as though I must stay attractive and if I don't I fail...... (read in full...)

I finish too quickly and can't go again. What's going on?

Q.   So my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and left me for another man.. It was all very unexpected and has really been a huge blow, losing your best friend and lover is the pits. Anyways since then I've been depressed but have been trying to get ...

A.   9 May 2011: Well, here are my instructions, the reason I can last up to 40 mins is because you need to A. Start taking deep deep breathes and relax, even meditate for a while each day B. When you have sex just think that you're the tits of the operatio... (read in full...)

Guys, do you only go down on a woman you are really into?

Q.   Guys, do you only go down on a woman youre really into-- your gf or someone you care about/love? or do you do it just for fun or for reciprocity?...

A.   3 April 2011: Well, umm. We do it only if we think it's "hot" and we really want to, or if you girls ask in a way. But some of us think it's gross and smells/tastes like an "armpit".... (read in full...)

My best friend has fallen for a gay guy

Q.   I need someone to help me to understand if I gave alright advise about something. My best friend in the entire world just told me that she has fallen for our gay best friend. He is outwardly gay and has dated many men. Not to mention myself a...

A.   27 February 2011: Get it through her head that he's gay? and don't tell your gay friend it'll make your situation alot worse.... (read in full...)

If I told girls I was a virgin would it help or hinder me with girls?

Q.   Im 22 years old without a girlfriend atm and I'm wondering if girls would see me differently if I told them I was a virgin....

A.   27 February 2011: Either girls will think it's cute and will be willing to take it, Or they will want an experienced man to sweep them off their feet. You really can't tell. ... (read in full...)

My online friend told me he's not ready to meet me. That's fine, but why is he ignoring my messages and phone calls now?

Q.   I've known a guy now for many years over the internet, constantly talking and everything. We arranged to meet, but he pulled out at the last miniute, as he said, "he can't do this; he's not ready." In return, I sent numerous messages telling him not ...

A.   26 February 2011: He's just shy, he's insecure about himself and doesn't think he's good enough for you. I've been in his situation before.... (read in full...)

Do you think I should add him as a friend on Facebook?

Q.   I developed a crush on this guy at school. He's a year older than me and I'm not sure if it would be alright that I add him as a friend on Facebook. The problem is, approximately a year ago, he added a few of my own friends because he thought they ...

A.   24 February 2011: add him as a friend, its facebook, your not asking him on a date or anything... (read in full...)

Am I in love? How can I know for sure??

Q.   Theres this guy who I recently met in June of 2011. He is two years older than me, and we started talking and got to know each other and even started hanging out a lot. He is so amazing, and I really think I love him and I tell him I do, and he says ...

A.   24 February 2011: Ok, this can be one of 3 things, he can be a total douche and be using you to get in your pants (highly unlikely in your situation but you never know), He could be absolutley nuts over you and is shy to ask you to be with him, or he could be a big ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be gay!!

Q.   I am a Baptist Christian guy. I know the Bible prohibits homosexuality, or bisexuality etc. But I feel attracted to mens bodies. It's not like I love men. It's lust. And with girls I'm not attracted to their bodies as much but I love them for who ...

A.   24 February 2011: You are homosexual, there is no denying it, and this isn't something that you can just go along and just forget about, you shouldn't want to be not gay, it's your body's desire, you can't resist, just go to a friend and openly admit that you are ... (read in full...)

I'm 27 and he's 41...Should I go for it?

Q.   I know age is "just a number." But I met this guy through a mututal friend and he's 14-years older than me. I told my friend that I found him attractive but that I thought he might be a little too old for me. Anyway, we've started seeing each ...

A.   24 February 2011: I think you should stick to dating kind of secretely for now until things become more clear... (read in full...)

Is it okay that he's going swimming with other girls?

Q.   Just a general question Is it okay for me to feel a bit insecure about my boyfriend going swimming with other girls? Say 5 girls, 3 boys. Im not too sure why im bothered about it seeing as i dont believe anything would happen at all. Just make...

A.   23 February 2011: It's ok to feel insecure about this situation if you don't know who the girls are, but if they're girls who aren't really attractive or just trusted friends, then don't sweat it.... (read in full...)

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