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I broke up with him because his ex still calls him and he won't tell her not to, saying he has a "weak heart"!

Q.   I dated my boyfriend for a year. I find out one night by checking his voice mail and found his ex girlfriend left him friendly messages. I ask him if his ex has ever contacted him or ever met her, he denied it, getting mad at me for accusing him. ...

A.   11 March 2008: Good for you! I had suspicions about my very recent ex and his ex, and then I read one of their IM conversations in which he told her that he was lonely and no one to talk to about his daily life like a good roommate or lover. That hurt me so badly! ... (read in full...)

He wouldn't give us a second chance, he just said that getting back together for a bit won't change things... any views?

Q.   Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up nearly four months back after being together nearly two years. He is moving away and ended it saying he wasn't happy anymore, didn't feel the same as he didn't see a future. Anyway since then we have remained friends, ...

A.   4 February 2008: Hey, love. I know that when you ask these kinds of questions here, you want to hear that there's hope and that he'll come back to you. I know I've done it... but the truth is that, at least for now, he doesn't want this relationship. That isn't to ... (read in full...)

Should I abort or have this baby?

Q.   help i just found out that i am 2 months pregnant the thing is that it is a result of rape. my family is pushing me to abord it but i dont think i can. i dont know why but something is pushing me to have this baby. i dont know what to do i need some ...

A.   14 January 2008: Hey there dearie! I would say that you should be strong and stand up to your family. Even though this child has not come under circumstances that anyone would choose, children are often a great blessing. I (and this is my personal opinion) think ... (read in full...)

What's his problem? Wouldnt a boyfriend that loves you give you support in anything you do?

Q.   hi im 16 an me an my boyfriend have been together for a year now. we r happy. i am on a college course but not enjoying it and am decided to quit an start a new course which starts in april that im really keen to do! however when i told my boyfrien...

A.   8 January 2008: Unfortunately, I understand very well how that feels... Mine does the same thing. I think the best thing is just for you to be honest with him. He may not realize that he's being so negative. Make sure you make it clear just how important this is to ... (read in full...)

Already a mother at 21, pregnant again, do I keep it?

Q.   hi i have a 1 year old little girl with my parnter who i have been with for 3 years now im only 21 my self and i have fell pregnant again with the same man of couse im not sure what to do do i keep it or do i get rid of it my partner wants it...

A.   7 January 2008: I think you should keep it. Children are often more of a blessing than you can guess they will be. YOu have a supportive partner in your life and another child, so I don't think you have any reason not to have the child. Of course, it's your choice, ... (read in full...)

My husband wants me to sleep with a male prostitute to get pregnant!

Q.   I'm 24, my husband's 26, and we've been married for 3 years now. We have a good lifestyle and our sex life is good. My husband is a very nice person, well-liked and popular and doesn't get jealous when I'm with other guys or on girls' nights ou...

A.   7 January 2008: I think the others have answered this question well enough, but the thing that kept striking me was that your husband said that the other guy could do the pregnancy sex and then he would come in for the "passionate" sex. Perhaps the idea of sex for ... (read in full...)

How can you live with a bossy controlling man, the nice ones bore me

Q.   How do you stay in a relationship with a difficult man? And don't tell me they don't exist, I see them all the time. They're the guys who lose their temper over every little thing, think they have to tell a woman what to do all the time, are bossy ...

A.   7 January 2008: I'm going through the same type of situation. I'm not sure if I'm going to stay in the relationship. I really love him, but I'm not sure I can take a whole lot of it. I really love him and try to be accepting of who he is, but he'll just randomly ... (read in full...)

We have the makings of a wonderful relationship. How should I approach this with him without scaring him off?

Q.   My boyfriend of almost a year and a half broke up with me 9 months ago. We were long distance (the reason for the break up says he), and now he's moving back. We've stayed friends and get along extremely well, plus I am completely in love with him. ...

A.   23 July 2007: Thanks for your response. This technically isn't a true update since nothing has changed as of yet. he's still waiting on getting into college here before he can move out. I'm just not sure if it's best to let him make the first move and come back ... (read in full...)

We've been dating 7 months and he's pulling away! What do I do about this?

Q.   Hello, A question for guys please. I feel sick and feel like crying my eyes at the moment. I know I shouldn't let anyone make me feel like this. I know I don't deserve this, but I can't help it. I've got a lot going for me, I'm attractive, succ...

A.   20 July 2007: This has happened to me in the past as well. It's usually a sign of fear of commitment. Biologically men have this need to "spread their seed" if you will and be with as many women as possible before settling down. The best thing to do is give him ... (read in full...)

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