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| | *ilence and Sorrow's profile:I usually go by silence and while i don't always have the right advice i try to be helpful. I am a submissive in a D/s relationship and am marrying my Dominant. This affects some of my advice because i tend to think like a sub when it comes to most relationships, not just my own. One thing i ask is that no one take offense because of how i sound. Usually people take offense without me giving it and when they do, most tend to attack me and i really don't like that so please don't. That's really all i have to say. Taudl. |
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How can I spice things up in the bedroom?
Q. I been marrid 4 3yrs. And I really wanna spice up the bed room,I need sum suggestion,how can I turn him and want me BADLY besides oral,I always wantd to dance 4 him but I am horrible. He is not in to langurie. Please help me.open to new things...
A. 27 January 2010: You could always try something small like a nice romantic bath to turn him on. Candles lit, lights off, soft music, no phones around to upset the mood. When you present yourself to him wear some nice rope or something else that you don't mind ... (read in full...)
Wondering if my periods are normal
Q. I'm 13 and I've been a woman for a little over a year now, but my periods aren't regular and sometimes I miss 3 or 4 at a time and then a heavy one in the middle of the month that lasted bout a week for the flow to finally stop, and then last month ...
A. 24 January 2010: I'm irregular. I started when I was 11 and have had 3 or 4 a year for the last nine year... Wow that's been a while.... It's weird at first. I'd not have one for 3 months and then have a heavy one and then nothing for the next few months. Or, as ... (read in full...)
Can someone please call 911..lol..any help anyone??????????? major help is needed..
Q. Im baaaaaaaaack.. well it's been a minute since i've been on cupid and just to update everyone on whats going on with my life.. im still with my fiancee, he's been laid off for a year and two months. I've gotten my GED and now I am enrolling into S...
A. 24 January 2010: I am inclined to agree with miss anonymous.... (read in full...)
I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I've never been kissed by a girl... Help!
Q. Hey I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. I have never kissed a girl nor have I had a girlfriend. I have no self confidence in myself even though girls tell me I'm cute. I am puerto rican and have guido spiky hair and am 5' 8''. Most of ...
A. 22 January 2010: It's never a fact until you have asked her and been rejected to your face.... (read in full...)
I want to self induce, & I don't care if its not scientifically proven
Q. Hello all. My question is simple really. How do you self - induce labor? I am 39 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My doctor told me that if I have not begun labor within a week and half they will have to induce me. I really prefer not to have to ...
A. 16 January 2010: My mum mowed the lawn with a push mower a lot when she was pregnant with one of my siblings. Walking is good... Belly dancing helps too. ... (read in full...)
Do you still think it's safe for me to meet him?
Q. PLease help me figure if this is safe??? I met a man online and we have been communicating for two weeks. We are bothi n our mid forties. There is total chemistry between us. We are meeting in a week or so. He emailed me last night that he had a ...
A. 14 January 2010: If it helps, ma'am, not all things involved in BDSM require hurting the submissive. It is a thing of trust and growing. He's offering you his gift of submission and trusting you not to hurt him either.
If you decide you want him to be yours make... (read in full...)
How long does it take for the "honeymoon phase" of a new relationship to wear off?
Q. Just wondering...how long (on average) does it take for the honeymoon phase of a relationship to be over (or) start to wear off? Im not looking for people who say they've had the honeymoon stage for 2 years or that it all depends on the person, i...
A. 14 January 2010: Why do i get the feeling that all you want to do is steal your ex back when the fires cool a bit with the girl he has?... (read in full...)
Do you still think it's safe for me to meet him?
Q. PLease help me figure if this is safe??? I met a man online and we have been communicating for two weeks. We are bothi n our mid forties. There is total chemistry between us. We are meeting in a week or so. He emailed me last night that he had a ...
A. 13 January 2010: I don't think it's all fantasy. It sounds like he's into BDSM and is interested in you being his Domme. I agree about meeting him and staying in public, but he doesn't sound dangerous to me. Of course, I have a leash and my Dom had used it and had ... (read in full...)
Am I repulsive?
Q. dear agony aunts, well i guess im kind of embarrassed to ask this but here i go. im not fat, as in, reallllly big, im about a size 14. i have small boobs and a bigger belly, and i know they say that the guy you love (and who loves you) will ...
A. 13 January 2010: Yes it is very possible for someone to truly love you. My belly outdoes my boobs quite a bit, but my Dom loves me. Truth is, lots of girls think they look terrible. Convincing them otherwise is almost impossible even if you're completely serious ... (read in full...)
She pissed me off and broke my heart at new year.
Q. I'm currently not home, employed by the military outside the US, I was speaking to my girlfriend earlier today (well practically yesterday) and she told me simply that this fu**** did her, I argued why the hell she let him etc... she gave me reaso...
A. 1 January 2010: A warm blanket, a good book, and your favorite hard candy.
It's kind of girly, but those things help when I go into subdrop and you're not much better off right now.... (read in full...)
It breaks my heart to see my parents apart!
Q. im 14 my parents are in a fight how do i help get them back together? My dad has a a does not think before he says and regrets it. My mom and dad have been together for 17 years now i i cant live without my mom and dad being together it just breaks ...
A. 31 December 2009: I know this doesn't help, but my parents were at the same point when I was a bit older than you. They had been together for 18 years before it got too bad. When/if they get to the point where they don't speak to each other and use any of you to hurt ... (read in full...)
Confused sub, please help.
Q. I'm a submissive in a D/s relationship and my Dom actually asked me to marry him yesterday. I love him and naturally said yes, but I'm not sure how it will affect our dynamic. I really enjoy being his sub and don't want to lose the feeling of being ...
A. 29 December 2009: If I may, we have only just started living together, but have been in both vanilla and D/s relationship for almost a year. Our relationship isn't confined to the bedroom, MarieClaire, it is our lifestyle. I do appreciate your concern though. ... (read in full...)
I think I have a split personality
Q. Hi, I think there is something wrong with me. I have split personality's. It sound's strange but true. One day I can be the most happiest person alive. I talk a lot sing loads, I buY lot's of nice expensive things for myself and I become very sel...
A. 29 December 2009: Based on everything I was taught, I would say you don't have split personality. Technically speaking, you don't have Dissociate Identity Disorder or Schizophrenia which are the classifications you seem to be thinking. You do fulfill the criteria for ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me to be so afraid of his penis?
Q. So I've been seeing this boy for while now, and thing are starting to get intense, sexually. He rub me and makes me orgasm, but I'm too scared to do anything to him. I don't know what's wrong with me but every time I touch his penis I get jumpy and ...
A. 29 December 2009: I agree with caring guy. I was afraid of my Dom's at first so we took things slow and gradually I got used to it. Also, I don't think you're being selfish because, if I'm reading it right, he's got no problems with pleasuring you. Take your time, ... (read in full...)
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