We hardly ever have sex anymore. I'd like this other man on the side. What should I do?
Q. i'm 42 yrs old and my husband is 52. i'm happily married and do not want to leave or lose my husband, but we hardly ever have sex. well a month ago i went on a little vacation and i met another man and yes, we did it 1 time, and it felt sooo good ...
A. 11 April 2011: your a cheat! And should leave your husband he deserves a better woman as his wife.what goes around comes around you will suffer the consequences of your betray... (read in full...)
I am upset with my cousin for not telling me she was pregnant before we had unprotected sex!
Q. This is so wrong. i have been seeing my cousin for the past seventeen years, although we have both moved on and got married to our loved ones, ever chance we get like in family gatherings we still have sex. my wife is now not in town, i was with my ...
A. 11 April 2011: That is sick on so many levels, thats like sleeping with your sister! You need help, your sick in the head.thats your blood fool!... (read in full...)
She's decided she's not attracted any more and wants to be friends
Q. Hello all, So my girlfriend of 2 years decided that she isn't attracted to me anymore and just wants to be friends, but she says she still loves me. She says that she doesn't want to work on things because she feels burnt out. We have had our ...
A. 20 February 2011: Look man straight up tell her thanks but no thanks, find your self another woman she wants to keep you as a friend? Dude thats what your male friends are for. Tell her respectively no friendo el amigo sarcasim laugh haha. Plenty girls out there its ... (read in full...)
I just found out my wife had 2 "friends with benefits" around the time we were dating. How can I deal with this?
Q. I've been happily married for ten years. I thought I knew of all my wife's past sexual partners and some details, even the ones she cheated on me with, but I got past all that and have not had any problems. Recently, I found out about 2 friends ...
A. 17 February 2011: How come your still with her? Hahaha bra its like she settled for you after playing the field dont you have any dignity? Wow i bet she has cheated on you all through your ten yrz.... (read in full...)
For male : what do you think about a virgin girl..?
Q. For male : what do you think about a girl 23 years old and still virgin?? Well, that is me. This May i will 23 years old. And i am still virgin because i want to give my virginity to my husband in our first night.. Is that weird..? If you can choos...
A. 16 February 2011: Thats great girl, keep your virginity we need more ladies like you. Your husband will be very proud i would.... (read in full...)
I feel jealous and sad when no one comments when I make remarks on face book
Q. Hi There, I know I'm a good person both inside and out however, is it normal to feel rather jealous or sad that whenever I make a comment on my page on FB no one responses or comments on my comments or thoughts? It seems that these "friends" ...
A. 16 February 2011: Seriously you worried bout a bunch of people in a chat group, trust me make real friends not on the net.... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me anymore because of my sexual past!
Q. He says he doesn't love me anymore because of something sexual I've done before I even knew him! How can he blame me for this and break my heart like that? How is that fair? He didn't even know me by then. How can he judge me? The sad thing is, I ...
A. 13 November 2010: Well thats life, ever heard of consequences of your actions? Whether you didnt know him then, your past is affecting him now cant say hes wrong or jealous hes human. Move on lady and find some one who will accept your past. Its not like he didnt ... (read in full...)
Does having sexual encounters with multiple partners always have bad very long term affects on people?
Q. Does having sexual encounters with multiple partners always have bad very long term affects on people? As in 30 years later? Can you not remember the pleasure only the pain as you "hit the wall"? A sexual past (as a teenager) one incident with 5 ...
A. 23 September 2010: Regret is always there. most people brush it off as its the past but it haunts you forever.... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 27 July 2010: hahaha. Look being a virgin doesnt mean that person is good hearted or nice. A person can be very nice and good hearted but a non virgin. What we consider pure is justification of what the bible says. A virgin is pure untouched, sex is not dirty but ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 25 July 2010: what if the partner lies before marriage about sexual past? Why is it we always come up excuse that they must have had a good reason for lien to there partner. And what about a virgin doesnt the v deserve to marry another v? And why do many aunts ... (read in full...)
I cheated while my fiance was in a coma!
Q. I've been with my fiance for 4 years now. Things got a bit rocky and i cheated on him about 7 months back. It was wrong and I regret it. I decided that I truly loved my fiance and he was the one I wanted to be with and I broke it off with the other ...
A. 22 July 2010: it took sleeping with another man to know you love your fiance? Your liar and most likely selfish, if you love him tell him let him make the choice to stay with you. Regret does not mean you are forgiven nor matter how sweet you are to him now tell ... (read in full...)
I feel betrayed by what I thought was my good catholic wife!
Q. I recently went to my wifes 20th high school reunion. I was ok with the fact that some of my wife's ex-boyfriends were there and unfortunately I personally know them all. My problem began when i read the last wills and tenaments from their senior ...
A. 21 July 2010: your wife lied to you in some sense, she pretended to be the good girl for your liking. Now 20 years on she feels you cant do anythng about it. You deserve better... (read in full...)
Fiancee lied about being a virgin, how can I let her down gently so she can find someone of the same mindset?
Q. Hai, il go straight to the point. My fiancee lied to me that she was a virgin, am 27 years and i kept my virginity she told me she slept with 10 guys and i dont i can marry her. How do i let her go gently so that she can find some else with her same ...
A. 21 July 2010: thanks for all the replies, but most of you do not understand the situation i was in. Its very easy for you to say forget and move on and i dont love her and such. I did love her, but i cant marry her to be fair to her i dont want to mistreat her ... (read in full...)
Cheated and now confused
Q. "OP Own Title"I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years with my best friend who I've known for more than 9 years. It only happened once and alcohol was involved, but I still feel awful about it. Before this incident we had never slept together and while ...
A. 21 July 2010: tell him let him choose.... (read in full...)
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