After trying to get back the spark, I still feel something lacking in our marriage. What should I do?
Q. Is it possible to fall out of love with someone after 20 years of marriage? My husband and I married quite young (19 yrs.old) we have no children, though I've always wanted a family -- he did not. I think I knew after within the first 5 years of...
A. 23 January 2007: Hi there!
I can relate to you, because I am practically in the same situation, married for the same number of years. I have tried the various things that we did while we were still younger and thought that this would "bridge" the gap, but unfo... (read in full...)
I'm married but my male friend confessed he had feelings for me. I haven't heard from him for a while. Do you think its over with he and I?
Q. Hi there, I've been happily married for 10 years. I recently met a really nice guy who i thought would make a good friend. We have been chatting a bit; he calls to my place of work to see me (i work in a public building). He doesn't text or ...
A. 17 January 2007: I had a similiar experience, but I did not have the strength to stop at friendship. I know that I really enjoyed the attention I was given, and I felt on top of the world. I waited for this "friend" to call me, and when he didn't I missed it.I ... (read in full...)
Am I being petty? Tell me what you think.
Q. Hi. Am i being petty? I went with my partner to his works do on saturday night. We went last year and it was fantastic, he was so attentive to me. We have been together now 20months and engaged. Well, a woman who he gets on well at work sat on our ...
A. 17 January 2007: Hi there!
I really wish I could be like the other two people and say it was nothing, but I know from experience that your intuition and instinct will let you pick up, when something is wrong. It may just be a gut feeling that you have, and it w... (read in full...)
We are both married but cheating but I can't stand he is cheating on me with yet another woman!
Q. I am married for 18 years, my husband is a cruel man. He hits me. There is nothing but kids between us. I fell in love with my cousin's husband. He is married and has had lots of affairs. I loved him so much and I got very jealous when he spoke to a ...
A. 7 December 2006: It's true you know, if he cheats with you, then it will not stop him cheating on you. It's difficult to give up on someone you love, but for the sake of your sanity, you have to do it. I found it extremely difficult to give up on my affair cos I ... (read in full...)
My husband left me for a girl 15 years younger!
Q. dear cupid my husband left me 3 months ago we were married 21 years. he has told me he does not love me any moor and now he has strong feelings for a girl 15 years younger than him he is 39. When i asked him to give it another try he said no that ...
A. 22 November 2006: Frankly, I would say "Get out" and don't come back. Why are you settling for "second hand" goods. If he has decided to make this choice, and you agreed so readily, then I think the "going" is definately not so good between you and your husband. ... (read in full...)
He left me for a life 'on the road' and I need help moving on (long post)
Q. My name is Paula and I have just been left by my lover and partner, Joe. I am a 40 year old woman. Joe is 45 and divorced this past January. this is long, sorry but pls read it. i want your input. Joe and I met online in May. We fell hard...
A. 22 November 2006: Feeling the way you do, I know how difficult it is to break away from him. At this stage, he is the only "thing" on your mind, and its virtually impossible to forget him. So you need to take this slowly, its going to kill you, but when you pick that ... (read in full...)
Is my feeling for him really love or just sympathy? Any advice?
Q. hi. me n my cosin were childhood friends and gradually this friendship converted into one sided love from his side. but i refused to accept this fact and i tried to avoid him because i didn't want to fall in love but now few days back he finally ...
A. 16 November 2006: Hi there,
I really don't think that you are feeling love for your childhood friend. Love is a feeling that you cannot suppress, and had this been love you would have known ages ago. You most probably have a soft spot for him, since the both of ... (read in full...)
Started an affair with my husband's brother...
Q. I got married 2 months ago to a man I had been living with for 2 years previously. My husband is a wonderful man who I truly love but unfortunately our sex life has never been fantastic. However I thought this was not important as we get on so ...
A. 31 October 2006: This is one of the most difficult things that you have to do, but you have to do it for peace of mind.
It's going to kill you, it will tear you apart and it will feel as if your heart is going to be ripped apart, but you have to do it. Break away... (read in full...)
How do I make this married guy leave his wife and kids for me?
Q. i am currently "dating" a married man that i work with. i too am married. he told me that he loved me almost 6weeks into the relationship and i returned with i love you too. he has 3 kids and i have 1. we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week and ...
A. 25 October 2006: I sincerely feel that you are in for a lot of hurt and pain. Try to break away.Its probably the most hardest thing for you to do.It's going to kill you, but you have to. Just remember my angel, that if he can do this to his wife, he will marry you ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, he's 29.. we get along well, should I end it?
Q. As of late, around a month ago I began going out with this guy. Now everything is fine, we get along well, or as well as I've ever gotten on with anyone at the beginning of a relationship. We love each others company and being around each other is ...
A. 25 October 2006: I personally feel that age is only a number. It's so important to get along well, considering the age gap. I think you are mature enough to bring up the age gap with him. As long as you don't mind the age difference, I really think it doesn't ... (read in full...)
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