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writes: hi. me n my cosin were childhood friends and gradually this friendship converted into one sided love from his side. but i refused to accept this fact and i tried to avoid him because i didn't want to fall in love but now few days back he finally spoke his heart and blamed me that i am selfish n mean. after this reaction i am feeling that i have a soft corner for him in my heart is this feeling a love or sympathy or sense of doing wrong to him?? Reply to this Question
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reader, SERENE  +, writes (16 November 2006):
Hi there,
I really don't think that you are feeling love for your childhood friend. Love is a feeling that you cannot suppress, and had this been love you would have known ages ago. You most probably have a soft spot for him, since the both of you shared many childhood experiences as well as memories together. Please appreciate the way he feels about you, and be sensitive to his feelings without hurting him. If you are not going to start anything with him, then I suggest you, must be honest upfront and tell him you do not feel the same.
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