Why is he so hostile? And why do I allow him to keep hurting me?
Q. My fiance ended it with me 6 months ago. After 4 months of messing with my emotions, I changed my number and we had no contact for 2 months. Then last week he emailed and left his number and asked to see me. I called and ended up going to see him...
A. 9 December 2009: Thank you. I knew going to see him was a bad idea. My parents said it was a bad idea. They saw the wreak that I was.
I'm so naive, I believed him, but then again I always do. I guess because I would never treat him that way, I didn't think he'd do t... (read in full...)
Why is he so hostile? And why do I allow him to keep hurting me?
Q. My fiance ended it with me 6 months ago. After 4 months of messing with my emotions, I changed my number and we had no contact for 2 months. Then last week he emailed and left his number and asked to see me. I called and ended up going to see him...
A. 9 December 2009: I can't believe I fell for it again. I asked him why he asked to see me and he said "I wanted to see if you would."
He tells me things that he's done playing games with me, I'm playing any. I've been honest, civil and cordial and no matter how hurt... (read in full...)
He's moved on. Why can't I?
Q. My fiance of 3 yrs broke up with me in June. He moved on a month later. We were together for eight years and there was cheating on both sides. His cheating resulted in a child. I forgave him, but what hurt me was all the lying. I was blamed for ...
A. 14 November 2009: Thank you, but I wasn't a perfect angel. I took off a couple of times and didn't come home. When we fought I threw that he had a child when he cheated on me in his face. I didn't quit smoking like he asked and he said I made it my priority... (read in full...)
Why do we watch our loved ones sleep?
Q. What do you think is the reason why people will watch their loved one sleep? I think it's sweet, but I was wondering why they do that?...
A. 13 November 2009: I used to watch my ex fiance sleep. He looked peaceful, and beautiful and there was a sweet innocence about him. Then I'd kiss him awake.... (read in full...)
Why it is Important for him to earn your Love
Q. The other day I had a thought and decided to write it down. I had several women write to me regarding this thought and so I decided maybe I should post it here for those of you women who wonder what it takes to make a man stay with you forever. T...
A. 13 November 2009: Well said. But it does go both ways, women need to put in as much effort as men. There should be a level of respect and trust on both sides or the relationship will die.... (read in full...)
My husband and I are on different ends of the spectrum!
Q. I have been with my hubby for 17 years (married ten years and have children. In the last 6 months things have just got worse. I admit that I no longer want to be intimate with my hubby and he has got more annoyed saying I need to see a sex therap...
A. 13 November 2009: Women have intimacy issues for many reasons, health, stress, kids etc. You aren't alone.
This isn't just your problem, you and your husband need to work together or things will only get worse. Pushing you and telling you he'll find it elsewhere isn'... (read in full...)
Is being friends with an ex that still loves you cruel?
Q. Is being friends with my ex too cruel if she's still in love with me after 5 months broken up?...
A. 13 November 2009: You need to let her go. It's easier to friends with an ex, when both parties have completely let go. If she's still in love with you, she's always going to hold out hope that you'll get back together. It's easier for you as you've already let all of ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to rekindle old flames? How should I try to do this?
Q. Is it possible to rekindle old flames and old loves? My boyfriend and I broke up after 14 months of dating. We were a great couple until I pushed for the relationship to go to the next level. I pressured so much that I caused so much tension tha...
A. 12 November 2009: Good luck let me know how that turns out. I miss my ex terribly and it's been 6 months and I've tried getting over him. If you can rekindle whats there great but make sure all your old issues are resolved.... (read in full...)
I feel so much guilt... what should I do?
Q. I would really appreciate some help . I am going through a divorce. My husband left me after 18 years of marriage. We married young as students . Six months ago I started a friendship with a married man I have known for years. We slept together...
A. 12 November 2009: Ask yourself this? If you were still married and it was your husband, wouldn't you want it to end. He's married, unhappy or not he has a wife and she isn't you. If you can stay friends with this man, stay friends but check your sexual needs at ... (read in full...)
My husband has no morals
Q. I recently found out that my husband of 3 years has basically been cheating on me with several different ladies since we met (6 years ago) he has not had affairs as such but flings and emotional affairs, I found out a year ago he did this in his ...
A. 12 November 2009: Wow, I understand about making it work for the sake of your child, but what about your self worth? What are you teaching your daughter by staying with him, that it's ok to be treated this way? What about the other child? It's not the child'... (read in full...)
Guy friend crossing the line - how do I tell him no?
Q. So, I have a close guy friend, let's call him D, who also happens to be an ex. We broke up over three year ago. After about a year of not talking we decided to be friends, which worked out because we both had significant others, so our new ...
A. 12 November 2009: I was in a simliar situation. My best friend of 15 years told me he was in love with me, and I didn't feel the same. I told him the truth, which he didn't respond well to and although we are still friends, we aren't as close as we used to be. I'd ... (read in full...)
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