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He comes in with a girl on his arm but I thought he liked me?

Q.   Ok, i like this one guy and we were planning on going to this dance our school was having if we could. He ended up not being able to. But the dance thing happened last weekend. But this week he comes to school with a girlfriend on his arm. While a ...

A.   4 February 2009: If he liked you then I don't think that he'd be coming in with a girlfriend on his arm. Are you sure it's a girlfriend and not just a friend of his he was walking with? And are you sure that he really likes you in any way except for just as a ... (read in full...)

Was she a virgin? or did my ex b/f take it from her?

Q.   I need to know if my girlfriend is a virgin. She claims she is, my friends say she is not, i don't know what to think. Before we started dating, her ex bf (my best friend) and her were in her basement drunk and naked making out. He was on top of ...

A.   4 February 2009: I really hate to tell you this but by technicality your Girlfriend was not a virgin. She would technically have lost it the moment he penetrated her with his penis. Im not sure why they are telling you there was no penetration if it was 'half way ... (read in full...)

My brother's girlfriend plays "Dr. Jeckell/Mr. Hyde"

Q.   My brother's girlfriend make teases me a lot when he isn't around. She calls me names and makes me feel bad about myself all because I'm overweight (but I'm dieting) but when my brother is around she puts this "innocent act" on. I did nothing to her ...

A.   4 February 2009:  I can't imagine how painful those remarks must be to you, but I'm sure the fact your own brother won't even listen is much more painful. Sometimes, when people are involved they only want to see the good in the people they are with. This is be... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if I'm attracted to him

Q.   I started hanging out with these two girls and they introduced me to their guy friend. We all started to hang out a lot and I think he started to like me because of the way he looks at me and talks to me. He is funny and nice but physically not my ...

A.   4 February 2009:  It's always nice to have people that make you smile, but remember that can just be a sign of being good friends with someone. Don't feel bad if you aren't attracted to him and he isn't your type, that's life! Just don't do anything that would le... (read in full...)

What's with the itching?

Q.   hi i really need some help im a 15 year old girl and i keep itching down bellow around my vagina its really iriatating me and when i piss its really saw i have no vagina hair down there but im just a bit concerned wat it could be?i am quite sexually ...

A.   3 February 2009: Well vaginal itching could be one of many things. You could have a vaginal yeast infection, which is going to keep getting worse until you go to the doctor. You could be chapped if you haven't been cleaning yourself properly, or you could be ... (read in full...)

Should I be annoyed my wife is discussing our marital problems with her friends.

Q.   Should I be annoyed my wife is discussing our marital problems with her friends. Because I am! I know we have problems but I haven't talked to my friends about it, I feel it's private information. What do you think?...

A.   3 February 2009:  It goes without saying that Men, and Women have a very different way of handling things. Women will seek out advice from the people they trust in order to try and gain the most perspective on an issue so that they can better figure out a way to... (read in full...)

Why do I keep thinking of cheating on my boyfriend?

Q.   Dear cupid. I'm thinking about cheating on my boyfriend. I do love him and we have a baby together and there is a guy totally hot for me and we kissed today, and the thoughts I have about him are wild. And I can't get this feeling out my head that ...

A.   3 February 2009:  First thing I can say is, slow down! Take a step back from both your relationship with your boyfriend, and the man at work and really truly evaluate how you are feeling. How long have you been with your Significant Other? How old is your chil... (read in full...)

Help I'm in love with my cousin!!!!!!!!!!

Q.   A few months ago I went out with my cousin but after 2 months we broke up. Later a friend and i talked about him and expressed how i still loved him. She went on to tell him and he was so angry we had an agument and we really hated each other...

A.   3 February 2009:  Relationships are difficult, but I'm really having a hard time gauging the nature of yours. Is this a blood cousin, or a cousin by marriage? Is this someone you've known your entire life, or is it someone who's just recently been brought into... (read in full...)

Should I voice out to my mum???

Q.   I am turning 20 this year. i have not been in a relationship before. My family is quite conservative about this matter, especially my mum. I started to hang out with a guy recently. And she started to giving some advice... hint me not to hang out ...

A.   3 February 2009:  I think that it is a good sign that you are open and honest with your mother, and it is wonderful that she is at least TRYING to be open minded to your needs and your feelings. I think one thing you should do is try and remain as honest as possib... (read in full...)

My three daughters are treating my girlfriend like crap!

Q.   My three daughters (they'll 5, 4, and 8 but mainly my oldest) treat my girlfriend (of a year) like crap. She (my oldest) tells my gf or me to f*** off or to drop died (her sisters are starting to copy her). She have been acting like this since she ...

A.   3 February 2009:  I honestly want to say that from the bottom of my heart I feel for you. I am so sorry at the loss of your wife, and that your children are putting you through this. However, you need to pull in the reins immediately. Your immediate actio... (read in full...)

Is shaving anal hair a turn on?

Q.   I've heard about people who shave their anus... It would be something I would consider because I think anus hair is really gross but its not exactly an easy area to reach and I don't want to cut myself. I've also heard of people who have their p...

A.   3 February 2009:  Grooming someone is often a turn on to many people, however it just depends on the person and the area. A lot of women fancy the opportunity to help shave a man's face, or even go as far as shaving or waxing his chest. So if you have a signific... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has become violent with me, and I no longer feel I can trust him. Can our relationship ever recover?

Q.   Two days ago in what should have been a simple albeit heartfelt discussion about the way our relationship was going, my boyfriend and I started arguing. He swore at me before I had time to finish a sentence or really even start upon what I wanted ...

A.   3 February 2009: Hello, I was with a man for three years, from a different country and he and I had to wait a long time to be together, and mostly it was my own insecurity that kept us apart. It took many trips, and many miles crossed to finally bring us together... (read in full...)

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