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Is there anyone genuine on internet dating???

Q.   Is there anyone genuine on internet dating??? I have been online dating on and off for the last few years. Every time i do it it just seems to be a waste of time, I really get to know people chatting first by txt, email, msn etc. Dates seem to go ...

A.   12 February 2010: No it's not hte internet thing, it's you. You're expecting way too much from the first date. Take it slow - have HIM pursue you, not the other way around. You're making it clear to the guy that you're right there and all available - where's ... (read in full...)

What is up with my ex's behaviour?

Q.   My ex and I have been trying to be friends again. And the one day we went out to movies and coffee. And it really felt like a date because he insisted on paying for everything and taking me home. However the next day he was really distant towards ...

A.   2 February 2010: Well, I think he is just feeling the obligation to be nice to you because of the memories you shared at some point. I'd say let him go and move on. If he tries to contact you, be nice to him, however don't build your world around it or hope to hear ... (read in full...)

My ex got cheated on by a woman with her own ex. Now he has asked for contact, ..could it be he is missing me that bad?

Q.   My ex(he broke up with me,we lived together for 3yrs)We haven't talked in 9mths when the other day he asked my daughter to ask me to call him. He's always been painfully shy. He did date someone while we where apart that went horrible wrong. He ...

A.   1 February 2010: That's tricky. The only person who would know the answer to this question is him. If you still care about him, give it a shot. See what he's up to and what does he have in mind. However, be careful. Don't invest too many emotions in this. It might ... (read in full...)

Is true love and romance dead

Q.   is true love and romance dead ? is it just becoming a myth a dream that can only exist in ones head ? humans are so horrible to each other its truly disgusting.. this world has become so dark it truly makes you think why are you still here! then ...

A.   30 January 2010: The dark side of humans has always been there - since the beginning of this world , the creation (or whatever your beliefs are in regards to how the world began). True love and romance can still be found, however the expectations we have for those ... (read in full...)

He didn't respond to my texts! what went wrong?

Q.   I met a man online we had two very nice dates in the same weekend. I asked him if he liked me on our first outing he said yes a lot staright away I said I did too. We hugged and cuddeled a bit both times we saw each other, and I mean just hugged - ...

A.   26 January 2010: Okay - so here's what happened. He liked you - yes. However, he just decided he doesn't want to pursue is as he doesnt' want to settle for this yet. He decided not to call you or contact you at all after your second date. Thursday nigh... (read in full...)

Things were great and as soon as we had sex things changed!

Q.   I hope I'm not just avoiding what I already know, but I just want to make sure I'm not over reacting or letting my emotions get the best of me. Ive been dating this guy for about two months. Its a little wierd though because we met over the holidays ...

A.   26 January 2010: Oh dear - you've been played. I'm so sorry to break it to you - although I KNOW you know this. He was in it for one thing and only one thing, and he got it. In fact, if he's sick - that'll give him more free time to actually be in touch with you... (read in full...)

I agreed that my wife have sex with another man and now she is pregnant with his baby and won't give it up!

Q.   me and my wife made a mistake but my wife thinks different, don't know what to do I’ve been married to my beautiful wife Robin for almost 2 years, we dated for just over a year before we got happily got married, I would say maybe about 8 months...

A.   21 January 2010: This is the weirdest question I EVER read... This whole thing is messed up from the beginning ----- How can you agree on having your wife sleep with another man in your bed... Marriage is a sacred bond that involves a committment and love. Sacrifice ... (read in full...)

Despite our 14 year age difference she wants to take it to the next level

Q.   I guys I was trying to ask google for a answer to my heavy heart when I found this community. I met this girl on-line a while back. We became very good friends. And with time we got very close. When we met she was going through a crisis or ...

A.   14 January 2010: Why not date her? I fell in love (two years ago) with a 42 year old man. I was 24 then. He pushed me away violently because of the age difference. I've moved on. I got married and divorced and I'm still 26. I have always thought of him and always ... (read in full...)

Embarrassing wind problems...

Q.   this is not a relationship question, but i wondered if anyone would be able to help. usually my diet is very very poor, i work in mcdonalds, and on a typical work day but diet would be... cereal or toast for breakfast, say a big mac meal plus a ...

A.   13 January 2010: Very simple - it's the healthy snack bar - lots of fiber!! It's not uncommon for people to pass a lot of gas when eating Fiber One or Nature Valley bars. Not sure what you're having - but take it easy on those . Looks like your body is just one of ... (read in full...)

I think I'm too boring for him!

Q.   i have just completed hi school and i have fallen in love with someone. he isa ctually my first boyfriend.problem is he is too exeperienced and knows what exactly turns me on but i dont. is it possible for me to know what turns guys on .i feel too ...

A.   13 January 2010: Well, if he's experiences, and you aren't, that doesn't make you too boring. He probably likes that but won't tell you. Men like to feel the power and the need for them to "protect" you. Just go with the flow - if it's meant to continue, it will. ... (read in full...)

What can I do to love my husband again and at the same time not lose my dear friend?

Q.   Hi. It will be hard, but I will try to make it short: I am married for 4 years (total relationship 9 years), 7 months pregnant and for more then 1 year crazy in love with a 4 year younger guy from work. We never even kissed, but I know we had a sp...

A.   5 January 2010: I know you've posted this a long time ago. However, I just managed to come across it. I know how hard it has been and I'm very interested to know the turnout now. Could you please update me? Thanks... (read in full...)

What can I do to love my husband again and at the same time not lose my dear friend?

Q.   Hi. It will be hard, but I will try to make it short: I am married for 4 years (total relationship 9 years), 7 months pregnant and for more then 1 year crazy in love with a 4 year younger guy from work. We never even kissed, but I know we had a sp...

A.   5 January 2010: I know you've posted this a long time ago. However, I just managed to come across it. I know how hard it has been and I'm very interested to know the turnout now. Could you please update me? Thanks... (read in full...)

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