My family are pushing me to leave my bf of 2 years, should I just move out?!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years but we've been best friends ever since we were 2 years old. so i need help....i cant stand living here with my family anymore. it seems like they care about my brother more...i can never trust them ...
A. 17 December 2011: Hi,
Ok, i'm a parent of children 21 - 11 and I've not been on this site for a while but yours was first one I saw today and it struck a chord with me so I feel I have to try to answer...
Firstly, as hard as it is for you to understand y... (read in full...)
I don't want to be friends with her if I can't be her boyfriend!
Q. In short, I know a girl who I became friends with over the past year. But to be honest, being friends with her is not like being friends with one of my guy friends. We talk, or rather she does most of the talking. I find myself in a role of helping ...
A. 9 January 2011: Some girls just don't know what they have until they loose it (my own daughter 21 has an xx boyfriend who is always around they meet up for coffee every week, cinema etc and when people see them walking in the park they think they are an item again ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my BF added a girl he used to like on facebook?
Q. My boyfriend recently added a girl he used to like on facebook. They originally kept in touch back in 2005, before i met him, and i think originally, they were intouch on msn, although i dont know where they first found each other. She lives in ...
A. 6 January 2011: So long as he doesn't plan a trip to America or for her to visit, then i wouldn't worry too much. Having said that I can understand your concerns. Men can often be quite ignorant to how their girlfriends feel in situations like this. It is ... (read in full...)
Mother in law's gifts always make me feel extremely bad
Q. My mother-in-law keeps buying me gift vouchers for a certain shop which is known as an plus size shop and also as the old woman(granny)shop. She has been doing this now for 5 yrs, birthdays and xmas. I am overweight size 16-18 but i have had some ...
A. 1 January 2011: Hi, Happy New Year to you. I think you have picked the right time to make a change. You say 'still overweight' so i assume you are trying to loose so weight, so i hope you find the will power to stick with it as in the long term it will help you ... (read in full...)
If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?
Q. If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I ...
A. 31 December 2010: Hi, some of these answers are really harsh! - You are clearly a very genuine, deep and caring young man. I imagine in an ideal world you wanted it to be your girlfriends first time too with you and because of this short encounter of hers you are ... (read in full...)
He keeps inviting his ex to family functions!
Q. Although I continue telling my boyfriend he is being disrespectful inviting his ex-wife to family functions, he continues to do it anyway. His daughter is an adult and I do not feel the need to include his ex-wife if he know it makes me ...
A. 28 December 2010: I see your point. It seems to me in that case that he views her more as a friend or purely as the mother of his daughter and maybe she really is a nice person and because of that he feels guilty in some way that things between them didn't work out. ... (read in full...)
He keeps inviting his ex to family functions!
Q. Although I continue telling my boyfriend he is being disrespectful inviting his ex-wife to family functions, he continues to do it anyway. His daughter is an adult and I do not feel the need to include his ex-wife if he know it makes me ...
A. 28 December 2010: You say his xwife but are they actually divorced? He is only your boyfriend not yet your husband and it is not uncommon for a split couple to both attend family functions and that situation can continue for years. They will still have a bond and a ... (read in full...)
Daughter's boyfriend is bad news and I don't know what to do about it!
Q. I have a problem. I have a 15 year old. When she was younger she was told she could not date until she was 16. Well she has always been stubborn since birth. Anyhow she decided she didnt want to wait and started "going with" a boy in my mothers ...
A. 27 December 2010: Also recommend the book 'Relief for Hurting Parents by Buddy Scott' although I'm not a full on Christian I found this book really helpful, Buddy has a wonderful way of explaining things, it is a comforting read for parents especially when you find ... (read in full...)
Daughter's boyfriend is bad news and I don't know what to do about it!
Q. I have a problem. I have a 15 year old. When she was younger she was told she could not date until she was 16. Well she has always been stubborn since birth. Anyhow she decided she didnt want to wait and started "going with" a boy in my mothers ...
A. 27 December 2010: I have every sympathy for you. I agree with what Abella has said. You need to regain control.Though it may make her rebel further, she is already at a dangerous level and you are only doing it out of love for her own good. You are her mum and you ... (read in full...)
Help...i can't get a woman out of my head.
Q. On a chance meeting I briefly chatted with a woman younger than myself. I'm 15 years her senior. She's 30 and has a young child. Amazingly I was instantly attracted to her, and now I cannot get this woman out of my mind. I cannot become involved ...
A. 21 December 2010: Why can you not get involved? Are you already in a relationship? Is this woman? If you are both single then why not contact her more often, get to know her, if she won't get out of your head then maybe she feels the same way and you shared a moment ... (read in full...)
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