My BF has asked me to use a strap-on for him. I don't want to!
Q. For background, my entire romantic life has been full of men who did not make me feel womanly. I happen to be a more forward/blunt person and that has resulted in me being the one who "wears the pants" in every relationship except my current one. I...
A. 22 August 2011: Thanks for all the input. I've talked to him more about it and he just did not seem to care about it very much. He said he wasn't even sure he'd like it and wouldn't make me do it besides. I told him that I'd be willing to do other things but he s... (read in full...)
My BF has asked me to use a strap-on for him. I don't want to!
Q. For background, my entire romantic life has been full of men who did not make me feel womanly. I happen to be a more forward/blunt person and that has resulted in me being the one who "wears the pants" in every relationship except my current one. I...
A. 21 August 2011: I wasn't really planning on a break I was just wondering what exactly do I do in this situation. Thanks for the input :)
Also, that title really exaggerates the situation wtf.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have sex with my first cousin once removed?
Q. I have been thinking of having sex with my first cousin once removed is this wrong? and should I do it? thanks...
A. 7 August 2011: I would recommend not doing it. You'll probably have to see them at other family functions and that could be awkward, especially if/when you bring a significant other around to those functions. Worse case scenario: a ton of family drama.... (read in full...)
When are men going to STOP being so selfish about porn and START realizing they are destroying the woman that loves them?
Q. Some women like porn and don't mind if their bf's look at it. This does not apply to those women. This is for the rest of us, the majority. Those of us that HATE PORN and HATE HOW IT MAKES US FEEL ABOUT OURSELVES. Seriously, after all the ex...
A. 6 August 2011: Clearly you've got a lot of anger. Have you tried discussing this with him? If so, try again, but without focusing on what he's doing precisely...use phrasing like "When I see you excited about porn, it makes me feel (etc)" or "I feel really ... (read in full...)
He cheats on her with me and he enjoys it. I feel so bad because I am a terrible person.
Q. I met this guy my senior year in H.S. He is one year younger than me. Our relationship started bad because he wanted to keep us on the 10th floor. On any other floor of the school we were just friends. I got mad when he asked this of me but in the ...
A. 15 May 2011: Do you find you like that he cheats on his girlfriend for you? Do you think he genuinely loves you, but then turns around to have sex with his current girlfriend? Do you believe his girlfriend or you deserve to be put into this situation?
T... (read in full...)
How do you respond to someone telling you they no longer find you attractive?
Q. So I'm a gay male that has been in a LTR with another man for over 10 years. We are both in our early 30's and are monogamous. At various points in our relationship, my partner has emotionally and mentally been exploring the idea of being with ...
A. 15 May 2011: It sounds like your own self confidence has a lot to do with your issues...so maybe you should work on that? Hit a gym, change your diet (nothing too drastic), tell yourself you're awesome in the mirror a couple times a day. It sounds silly, but ... (read in full...)
I ache and saw blood. Please advise.
Q. I forgot my last period but I think its in mid 20's. We had sex last night, it wasn't my first time because we had done it 3 times or 2 before, but this time we had sex it was really painful and long, so it was really painful. My problem is after ...
A. 12 May 2011: Depending on how much blood, you may want to either see a doctor or just call one for actual advice.
Sometime if there's not enough lubrication, there will be enough friction to cause some bleeding and probably pain, in which case all you do is just... (read in full...)
I have to beg for sex. Am I being selfish for feeling hurt and sexually frustrated by his waning sexual desire?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. He has been very stressed out with work and our finances. We are business partners so we are constantly together. We have an amazing relationship but unfortunately, our sex life has gone do...
A. 12 May 2011: Last I heard, relationships require a lot of work and compromise. So while you may not be compatible or deal with stress the same way, you should tell him that you need sex more than he's giving you and that you would like to have it more.
If you'... (read in full...)
I came home and found my hubby had been going on porn sites, now he says I'm over reacting! Am I??
Q. I came home from vacation and found out my husband was going to porn sites. That didn't bother me as much as him going on live camera sites and was able to chat with these woman. He thinks I am over reacting. I feel so cheated on. I know porn is ...
A. 12 May 2011: You may want to ask him how he'd feel if you exchanged sexy photos with a man over the internet and chatted on and off. It isn't an identical situation to camming, but it may ring a bell with him.
Explain that you feel this is not appropriate in a... (read in full...)
Why didn't someone tell me that the guy I was making out had a girlfriend!
Q. I'll make this as short as possible. But pleaaaaase read, i want advice as i can't figure this out!!? About over a week ago on a night out, i saw this guy who i haven't seen in a while. We've both liked each other so it was just a bit of fun. Inst...
A. 8 May 2011: Doesn't seem like you overreacted to me. I'd feel pretty betrayed by my friends too, and used by the guy, ESPECIALLY if he had the balls to say I was overreacting. That would make me want to ACTUALLY overreact. Seems pretty condescending to me. A... (read in full...)
I like him, he ignores me. I ignore him, he likes me. What the hell?
Q. I have a question about the male psyche. Why is it, when I seem to pay him attention, he sometimes is really nice then other times he's cold and ignores me? Like this year, he has been staring at me, but upclose he acknowledges everyone and ignores ...
A. 4 May 2011: I was given advice by my dad on how to get a guy's attention. He told me to play HTG - Hard To Get.
Within an hour I'd received 6 phone calls from him.
They want what they can't have is the short and amusing answer.... (read in full...)
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