If your partner says they love you, yet you don't feel the same way yet, do you tell the truth?
Q. I'm just wondering. What if you're in a relationship and your partner tells you that they love you but you don't feel the same way at least not yet. Do you be honest with them about how you feel or do you lie and say I love you back so they won't ...
A. 25 February 2010: I don't think you should say it back, if you don't feel it! Every time he says it just say something like 'that's cute' or 'Awww' if he starts to question why your not saying it back, just explain, you don't feel the same quite yet,and your not ... (read in full...)
I had an emotional affair and my wife still won't get over it. Is there anything more I can do?
Q. I had an emotional affair with a work colleague. My wife just WON'T let it go. I have reassured her that I've never loved anyone but her but she won't believe me. I've booked for lunch tomorrow but I sense from her attitude tonight that it...
A. 18 February 2010: Well, its not going to be better over night! It's not nice when somebody cheats on you, would know if she did it to you! I would suggest, you find out from her, what she is feeling and how she wants it to be! It might be she's having doubts about ... (read in full...)
His sexual past makes me feel used. What should I do?
Q. Ok I'm upset because my 18 year old boyfriend isn't a virgin and he was my first. Just 4 months ago was when I lost my virginity to him and well....... He was 10 years old when he lost his...... And I'm the 6th girl he had sex with that I know ...
A. 18 February 2010: U seriously need to snap out of it, who cares what his past is, he was free at the time to do whatever he wanted! The fact you know about it, shows he being honest with you, and being respectful bout it! Also its fine to be friends with your ex's, ... (read in full...)
I'm scared my insecurities will ruin my relationship, how can I overcome this?
Q. hi, i am 19 years old and i have just found the most perfect guy for me, i have never felt like this before and i know he is the one for me. i have completely forgotten that other attractive guys exist because i only have eyes for him. howeve...
A. 17 February 2010: Ok I'm not going to put it as harshly as 'get a life' but seriously girl, you need to find other things to get your mind of this, also he is only part of your life, you should be more worrying bout other things in your life, this isnt important! It ... (read in full...)
I don't want any of these guys that are asking me out I want one that makes me excited!
Q. Hi, I'm a little bit worried because for the last few years all the guys that have asked me out or shown interest in me I haven't found attractive. I don't know if its beacuse I am obviously getting older and the dating pool is getting smaller ...
A. 17 February 2010: I would suggest don't go looking for it, you never find it when you look! That guy you want is out there somewhere! You should go out more, maybe go to social events or drinking once a month! I don't think your being choosy, I went through a stage ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he just end things with her right now if he wants to get back with me?
Q. My ex and i split 5 months ago. he had feelings for someone else so i left him. the thing is we never stopped keeping in touch, he tells me he loves me every day and recently said he wants us to get back together. however he's been in a relationship ...
A. 16 February 2010: He sounds like he's stringing you along, or that he doesn't want you to meet someone else! I seriously suggest you, get on with your life and tell him, when he's left her to let you know! Please please don't wait for him to split with his girl, ... (read in full...)
Should I write this relationship off soon or continue waiting, with the possibility he will never be ready?
Q. My boyfriend says he loves me a lot and is extremely happy, but does not want marriage very soon, encouraged me to move closer to my job, which is an hour away from the town we both live in right now, and talks about how he'd like his future home to ...
A. 16 February 2010: He seems very hard to work out your boyfriend, I think you should try a cure this with a chat, and just ask him how he feels, and also ask him if he sees a future with you! Marriage is a big thing so, it might be, he's happy how it is at the moment ... (read in full...)
Torn between boyfriend and ex...
Q. I'm currently with my boyf for the last year and a half and I do love him, he's kind and thoughtful and secure. My ex from a few years ago is now back on the scene, we kept in touch in dribs and drabs but hadn't seen each other in years, but are d...
A. 16 February 2010: I think you should go fro a drink with ur ex,and see how he is don't see it from one side tho, see it as a friendly drink! If something does come from it, then worry bout it then! Also be very honest with the bloke your with now, and tell him your ... (read in full...)
She had a one night stand before I asked her out and its really getting to me! Should I let it go?
Q. My new girlfriend broke up with her then boyfriend because she wanted to get with me, she told me she had liked me for 5 years and I had felt the same but neither of us had thought to say anything. The problem is the night before I asked her out she ...
A. 15 February 2010: Yes let it go, after all she wasn't with you at the time she did it, she was totally free to do what she wanted, if she was with you, then yer it would be different! Just enjoy being with her, otherwise, there's no point! ... (read in full...)
What should I do if I give my boyfriend his Valentines gift but he does not have one for me?
Q. i want to know if my boyfriend was sick and on valentines day and so he did not get me a gift but i have a gift for him if i give it out and he does not give me one what should i do....
A. 15 February 2010: Don't worry bout it, as long as he says Love you too, and give you a big kiss! I don't matter if he has got you a present or not!... (read in full...)
He makes me feel like a criminal because of my past. Help?
Q. Hello. I'm at my wits end. I'm hopelessly in love with my boyfriend. The problem is he is obsessed with my past. I have been completely faithful to him. In the beginning of the relationship he said he didn't want to know anything about my past, he ...
A. 15 February 2010: My best mate was in exactly same situation as this, and she let it go on for another year, it wasn't healthy for her at all and she lost who she was, and its not going to be healthy for you either so tell him what's for and get out of there, I know ... (read in full...)
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