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Being in separate schools I'm afraid she will get feelings for someone else. What can I do to stop us getting too distant from each other?

Q.   I am a freshmen in college and my girlfriend is a freshmen in highschool. . my question is with me going away to school what can I do to help lower the risk of us breaking up or becoming too distant. I have already made up my mind that I don't want ...

A.   19 August 2008: I hate to say this but I think it is inevitable that you will grow apart. There is a huge gap between a high school freshman and a college freshman, not just age wise, but lifestyle wise. You are going to meet so many new people and do so many new ... (read in full...)

I don't regularly have washes and I'm worried about how I would smell to a boyfriend.

Q.   hi. this is embarrasing. but i dont regually have washes. once every two months if im lucky. and im worried if i get a boyfriend my area down below wont smell too good. if i start washing now everyday will it smell good if he was ever to go down ...

A.   25 July 2008: why don't you regularly shower? i think if you begin showering daily, or atleast every other day, you will be okay. Though when you start having sex I would think about showering daily.... (read in full...)

No matter how we start... it always ends up "doggie style"! Is he losing interest in me?

Q.   Hi! Any input here will be appreciated. I've been happily married for 5 years and thought we had a pretty good sex life. The problem is....lately my husband seems overly interested in doggy style sex. No matter how we start, it always ends up with ...

A.   24 July 2008: i think you are way over thinking things. Its just a position, and its new so its exciting. dont worry... (read in full...)

We talked, and it sounded like he didn't really care about me. Why are guys like this?

Q.   ive just been at my bfs place and i brought up 'the talk' as he calls it which is just bringing up things about me and him like just things that are on my mind that are worrying me and things. but this time it was just how he always seems to dismiss ...

A.   24 July 2008: I agree with the poster before me, not all guys are like this. Girls wonder why all guys are insensitive and distant, its because they are not the one for you. A man who truly loves you will never make you feel needy or make you feel bad for things ... (read in full...)

Can I win back my boyfriend after he cheated and get things back the way they used to be?

Q.   So..hello. Recently, My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 year and about 6 months and before that on and off for about 6 months..we've been though alot for that amount of time. Cheating on his part. and I lost my virginity to him. But now,...

A.   22 July 2008: HE cheated on YOU and you have to win back his love and trust? why waste your time with someone disrespectful and rude, you're so young you will meet dozens of guys better than him as you get older. I don't see the problem here, move on.... (read in full...)

He doesn't think I love him like he loves me...What should I do?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend 2 months. We said I love you last weekend. We live 3 hours apart, and see each other about every other weekend. I went out with friends last night, so said i would call him today. He got mad and said he was hurt i ...

A.   19 May 2008: maybe you don't love him. You have only been together for 2 months and its been long distance. Maybe what youre feeling is the POTENTIAL for love. Maybe it just hasnt developed yet. You may need to spend more real time together, seeing ... (read in full...)

Could I still be pregnant, even though he was only in there 30 seconds?

Q.   last weekend my boyfriend put his penis in me and then i got off him (as i was on top) as soon as he got in maybe 30 seconds after. could i be pregnant?...

A.   18 May 2008: It is highly doubtful, if he did not ejaculate inside you then no. However if there was any precum it is possible to get pregnant from that. you are way too young for this anyway, wait a few years when youre old enough and responsible enough to ... (read in full...)

Do these things mean he likes me or not?

Q.   I asked him out a year ago. He’s shy and is in the popular group but is really focused on his studies. He said 2 days later that it was too close to exams but maybe after them thanx for asking. After summer he was showing loads of signs that he was ...

A.   16 May 2008: I hate to say this but I don't think so. If a guy likes you he is gonna date you whether he has exams or not. And if he truly, truly is that dedicated to his studies you would have hung out when they were over. I think his friends are just teasing ... (read in full...)

We are ready for sex. Recommendations?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about different methods of contraception and are thinking about a condom since they're easy to get. I'm just wondering though if intercourse feels better without one-especially semen pouring ...

A.   16 May 2008: If youre not on the pill, which you should be for back up, you HAVE got to use a condom.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend blames me for everything. Are all men like that?

Q.   My boyfriend blamed me when things went wrong for him and wouldn't consider that there were MANY factors well beyond his (or anyone's) control! Is it traditional for men to blame women, and if so is it an indication that he actaully feels very ...

A.   16 May 2008: Him blaming you for everything is not him being close to you. It is him be immature and unwilling to own up to his own choices.... (read in full...)

What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said or done?

Q.   Hey everyone! I have asked before and I got some really nice responses, but I know that there is more romance out there, so I want to know, What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said to you? Or how about, what's the sweetest thing thet've ever ...

A.   13 May 2008: My boyfriend tells me often that he thanks god everyday for sending him an angel. (my name is angela so its funny.) Also just when we are laying in bed falling asleep, hell reach over and tuck the hair behind my ear, rub the side of my face. ... (read in full...)

Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?

Q.   Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...

A.   13 May 2008: I highly highly doubt it. Then again, you exist and so maybe there is another person who shares your point of view... (read in full...)

He's a cheating liar, do I talk to her?

Q.   I need advice my boyfriend has cheated many times. The last time he said he was ready to be all about me. So part of the deal was for him not to talk to any females and I see that he has texed a girl who he just meet before he got caught. They known ...

A.   9 October 2007: stop wasting your time with him. you deserve a boyfriend who wont put you through this hurtful behavior... (read in full...)

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