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My husband loves bj's but I don't like the taste

Q.   My husband loves bjs. What guy doesn't right? Well, I hate the taste of sperm, I mean I really hate it, but I adore my husband. I went online to find spermicide free condoms to see if maybe giving him a bj with out tasting it would leave us both ...

A.   24 May 2010: Should get this lube that taste like strawberry! I hated the way my ex tasted too but this lube took the taste away plus made it tastier!! ... (read in full...)

I love him, but will this ever work if I'm not attracted to him?

Q.   I am falling completely head-over-heels for my best friend/boyfriend (we don't really have a title for our relationship). He's funny, he's charming, he's sweet, he's caring, he's loyal and protective and everything I've ever looked for in a man. We ...

A.   13 April 2010: This is where I believe the line is drawn between best friend and lover. I had this same problem, I love this guy for who he is but wasn't attracted to him on the outside and that is just where the boundary lies. I'm glad I didn't try to fo... (read in full...)

Our sex life is amazing and he's still looking at porn!

Q.   Why does he have to look at porn? Our sex life is amazing. But why does he still have to look at that trash? I NEVER once looked at any of that crap because I know that will only make us get into an argument. We've discussed about this so many times ...

A.   2 April 2010: I find porn only becomes a problem if he prefers it over sex. There is nothing wrong with him wanting to look at porn, it's the guy's way to jerk off. Amazing sex or not I still think it's acceptable for guys to look at porn in their alone time. ... (read in full...)

Could there be any consequences with my job for marrying one of my students father?

Q.   I'm a first grade teacher who found myself attracted to the father of one of my students. He has shared custody of his son and is quite involved in his son's life. However, he maintains almosts zero communication with his ex. I maintained a ...

A.   1 April 2010: I would just get married in the summer, people do get married after knowing each other just few weeks/months so sure that would work. ... (read in full...)

He never invites me out, and then expects me to pick him up drunk at 6 am!

Q.   Why does my husband do this?? He goes out with the guys about once a month. Most of them are the guys he works with. He never invites me and I know that there are other women there because when he calls me I can hear the laughing in the backgrou...

A.   1 April 2010: Simply say, "No." Tell him to get a cab or get home earlier if the ride was ready then. Don't drop everything, wake up your poor kid to pick up his drunk daddy. He'll get the hint next time to either not stay out so late or do whatever he is doing.... (read in full...)

What do women like done to their breasts?

Q.   Ok random question i know but.......what feels good for girls breastwise. You see all these hyped up examples and now im not sure what to think. My girlfriend says that rubbing her breasts is slightly arousing but i dont know how much or what wil...

A.   1 April 2010: Licking and lightly nibbling on the nipples are quite arousing too! Also lightly pinching the nipples too, NOT too often or else it'll get tender and sore.... (read in full...)

I feel like I married a pimp!

Q.   Before my husband and i were married we were out one evening drinking and i picked up a woman mostly to please my husband. We ended going back to her hotel and even as drunk as I was I was very uncomfortable when I saw him touching her and I ran ...

A.   1 April 2010: Talk to him about it. Explain to him that was just a one time thing and you weren't even comfortable about it then. Also NO, just because you love somebody does not mean you should do whatever they want you to do! Relationship is about being equal, ... (read in full...)

Husband left and now he wants me back, but I"m pregnant with another man baby.

Q.   *OP's own title* I have been married for about five years now. My husband left me eight months ago. We have a daughter together. My husband states that he needed to get his life together. Meanwhile got rid of his wedding band and ask for mine. The ...

A.   1 April 2010: I would divorce your husband and stick with the other guy. How dare he leave you and his child to 'get his life together' without any concern about you both. You and your child are part of his life and the fact he left to 'get it together' is crap. ... (read in full...)

I'm feeling lonely , empty, and unloved. How do I get over it?

Q.   I think i am dieing , i am sick of my life , i am 28 years old guy , single , got fired from my work last month ,i live away from my home , and i have to stay in this country for 6 month more , the good luck left my alone , it seems to be that my ...

A.   1 April 2010: I feel you! I'm 20, jobless for nearly a year (no luck either and everyone on my case that I'm not looking hard enough), no friends (my best friend moved across the country), I DO have a boyfriend that I am living with but we got in a huge figh... (read in full...)

I'm pretty, smart, outgoing, confident, ...so why wont anyone ask me out?

Q.   Well I'm 16 years old and I've never been asked out or in a relationship or anything. I know some say that's still super young, but I don't care. I think I'm really pretty and I'm actually really smart- in our class ranking based on GPA, I'm only 5 ...

A.   1 April 2010: Yes, I WILL say it that you're still young! Be happy, I had my first boyfriend at 18 and when he broke up with me four months later I was crushed. I understand that whole I want to be loved and be held by somebody. If you like this boy, TALK to him! ... (read in full...)

Should I try some marijuana just for the experience?

Q.   i am 21 years old and i have never smoked,drank or any other stuff! but all my friends do it..and since i hang out with them all the time i felt an urge to do it too and i tried smoking and i liked it but i am not addicted to it or anything but i d...

A.   1 April 2010: I have been wondering the same lately.. basically I'm so stressed out and freak out about EVERYTHING in the past year. My bf smokes weed and so does his friend that's staying with us. I always said I'd never smoke because I think it's a waste of ... (read in full...)

He didn't rape me - but it sort of feels that way to me.

Q.   ok here's what happened. I was making out with my guy friend who really likes me I like him too but he is kinda a ladys man so I don't want to be in a relationship with him cause I think it would just end bad I told him i'd rather just be friends ...

A.   1 April 2010: Kissing does NOT mean sex at all. It's NOT your fault at all! Do tell your parents and report him, it will happen again for sure and most likely all the way too. Don't see him again!!... (read in full...)

My first anal, will it hurt much?

Q.   *OP's own title* Hi. I got this fantastic boyfriend and we have been together for a little more than a year. He is very cute and is just perfect. But the problem I have is that we are talking about having sex for the first time. He is two years ...

A.   1 April 2010: Yes it will be painful. Best way is to take it slowly, a finger, two fingers and so on. Use TONS of lube, it will hurt without it!! ... (read in full...)

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