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writes:I think i am dieing , i am sick of my life , i am 28 years old guy , single , got fired from my work last month ,i live away from my home , and i have to stay in this country for 6 month more , the good luck left my alone , it seems to be that my 28 years of making friends were useless , there is no real one ,or i could say i have zero friend , sick of fake friends who calls me only when they need things , can i have your...this, can u make me this... or that , can i borrow your... just that ? otherwise no one call ,even in my Birthday , no one seems to be care , i don't really care ,, i live with 2 couples , both of them left 4 a holiday this morning , i am jealous, empty , lonely , i saw the last night preparing things , packing ,finding a job became harder than finding a partner i need both of them but both of them not for me and i cannot find any i spend my day walking around searching for a job and waiting for tomorrow , might bring new things its been too long for me why the people are fake what are the tips to get out of this mode i quit smoking , i ran 1 hour everyday , i try to do things make me feel better but there is no enhancement i am at home now 10 20 am , bored as shit , i don't want to search for job today , tomorrow is Easter , everyone is happy ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): I am the one who wrote the question
thanks everyone )
these were nice answers
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): I think if you scratch the surface of most people's lives you will find misery beyond belief. I wear a bright smile but sometimes everything seems so broken and I don't even know how to get it together. Life is not easy and its not fair, this we all have to accept. I think that you should just take each day as it comes and try to be as positive as you can. Be friendly and open and maybe life will cut you some slack. I really wish you all the best. Just remember you are not the only one going through this...DOn't give up hope for happiness. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): Hey OP and Rainstorm (Only 20, never woulda figured that one out) life is all about pulling through and not losing hope because you can only lose hope when your are dead. OP, you are doing fine. You are looking for a job. Keep your priorities straight, do what needs to be done first and after you have found your new normal seek out what you need to complement your life. Keep exercising and don't fall back on smoking or it may really kill you. You are in a beautiful country. Why not explore it. There is so much to see there and as you explore it you can befriend some of the people to take away the emptiness that you are feeling so close to the bone. Do you swim? If not, take swimming lessons and meet new people there. Just remember to seek people who remind you of you and what you yearn for and that complement how you see the world being true to your self and ideals. And as an acquaintance never failed to remind me, "Never lose heart." The sun will rise again tomorrow.
p.s. You remind me of Cameron in the movie, Ferris Bueler's Day Off. You are not dying, you just don't know how to enjoy what you have.
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reader, RainStorm  +, writes (1 April 2010):
I feel you!
I'm 20, jobless for nearly a year (no luck either and everyone on my case that I'm not looking hard enough), no friends (my best friend moved across the country), I DO have a boyfriend that I am living with but we got in a huge fight last night and nearly broke up this morning so dunno how things are going now, probably going to be single soon. My parents are nagging me every single day for not having a job and saying how it's my fault I lost my job and that everything else is my fault bla bla.
I am completely down and hate my life.
Anywho, I would suggest going out and joining some clubs. It'd be a nice way to meet new people and make some friends that have the same interest as you. I don't have ANY $$ to do this so that's just more crap. Hang in there though.. it's not the end, it will get better! You can get any lower than the bottom, only up from there!
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