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writes:Why does he have to look at porn? Our sex life is amazing. But why does he still have to look at that trash? I NEVER once looked at any of that crap because I know that will only make us get into an argument. We've discussed about this so many times but it's like he doesn't hear me. Please help!!! Hurt in Guam....
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reader, RainStorm  +, writes (2 April 2010):
I find porn only becomes a problem if he prefers it over sex. There is nothing wrong with him wanting to look at porn, it's the guy's way to jerk off. Amazing sex or not I still think it's acceptable for guys to look at porn in their alone time.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (2 April 2010):
 The porn has nothing to do with you and your the first person really complaining about it when you have a great sex life. Its just his way of masturbating since guys tend to rely more heavily on the visual aspect of sex. Saying he can't watch porn is like saying he's not allowed to masturbate. Now don't get me wrong if the porn was affecting your sex life I would say it has to stop but if the situation stays with a great sex life its better to just let him do it. The porn doesn't change his opinion with you or replace sex at all, its just not the same and I don't see how the two could ever be compared.
Have a really good discussion and listen to his side of the story without your hatred to porn coming up and see if it really is a problem or not.
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