Still hanging on to a thread of hope the my ex-girlfriend will come back to me...
Q. I've asked questions on here before. The answers have been very helpful, but I'm sure you are all aware, things change. I told my ex girlfriend (who dumped me for someone else) that we couldn't be friends. At the time I said that to her, we were ...
A. 21 September 2005: I'm not sure if my answer is a real answer, but given I'm in a similar situation, I thought I would share my experiences.
It hurts like hell to know that she's with someone else.
But I spoke with a mutual friend and found out that my ex is "quite... (read in full...)
My boyfriend swears he loves me, but I just don't feel secure!
Q. I have been in a relationship for about a year. We are in our 40's, but for whatever reason I dont feel secure in this relationship and I really cannot see a reason why I wouldn't. He swears up and down he loves me, and tries harder than anyone I ...
A. 8 June 2005: I'm not sure what to say to this, instead I will offer my thoughts if I was in the situation. I think if I was truly trying to make it work out and being 100% devoted and loyal for about a year, I would be quite upset (to say the least) if you di... (read in full...)
Caught him making out with my friend and ditched him, but now he wants another chance...
Q. I am 25 years old and I live in England had a wonderful relationship with a guy but I caught him making out with a friend of mine so I ditched him. He keeps saying he wants me back and I don't know what to do. Please help!!!...
A. 8 June 2005: That's a tricky one, if it was a simple kiss, then it may have been a spur of the moment thing and you just walked in at the wrong time. If you've already ditched him, then think carefully about taking him back. Remembering a wonderfu... (read in full...)
How do I stop acting like a crazy kid and doing stupid things?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 7 months and I care a lot about this girl. She does a lot for me but I keep acting like a stupid crazy child. She has given me a number of chances to change and act like an adult. I want to save this relationship as ...
A. 8 June 2005: Well, are you acting all crazy whenever you go out, just the 2 of you or do you act crazy when you go out with her AND a group of other friends? Talk to her and try to find out what is the cause of the craziness, then work together to avoi... (read in full...)
She offered me a threesome, but I'd rather sleep with her one-on-one...
Q. Hi, I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. I'm a male guy who has a female friend who is going out with my mate, however tonight I was talking to her online and she asked me to have a threesome with her (she is bisexual) so I said to her I prefer ...
A. 8 June 2005: I said this before, but it deserves another mention. Partners come and go, but a mate is forever. Don't lose a mate over a girl. Then again, it would depend entirely on your level of friendship. Most definately, it would be best if she broke... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be "best friends" after a breakup? How?
Q. My girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me and she still wants to keep me as her best friend. She is dating someone else and I still love her. What should I do?...
A. 8 June 2005: Basically, just be supportive of her decisions, wish her all the best and just let her know that you will be there for her if she needs it. She must have thought it through and came up with the decision based on your time together. For good or fo... (read in full...)
My job was so exhausting that I pushed my g/f away. Now I just want her back!
Q. I started going out with a girl from uni in 2004, everything was great, we were the best of friends, we went out and spent time with each other and just things a normal couple would do. Then one day, while I was at uni, I received a call from an o...
A. 8 June 2005: I'm sorry for making extra posts, but I felt that I need to clarify some points. In the paragraph: "I have since learned that she is beginning a new relationship, I wished her well and hoped that we could remain good friends, which she agree... (read in full...)
Is it just me, or is he out of line checking out other girls?
Q. I just have something bothering me, and I'm not sure if I am over-reacting or not. I always catch my fiance checking out other girls. Is this something I need to just accept or should I be upset about it. I'm sure he wouldn't like it if I was ...
A. 8 June 2005: When I was with my girlfriend, I'd make a point to point out the really attractive girls that went by and say stuff like "ooh, she's cute", "that's a cute outfit" or other similar remarks. Every time I did it, I would receive a friendly slap on ... (read in full...)
Attracted to my best friend's wife, though we both know better than to do anything about it...
Q. A passionate embrace ignited feelings for my best friend's wife ( his sister is my partner!). I am also good friends with their parents. Only a brief phone call to this lady has occured since. We have agreed not to pursue a relationship as the ...
A. 8 June 2005: My friend said to me once, partners come and go, but a real friends' friendship is forever. Don't lose a best friend over a girl.... (read in full...)
I make him happy in ways his wife can't... Now what do I do?
Q. I have somehow gotten myself into a relationship with a married man. He set boundaries at the beginning stating what he was comfortable with happening between the two of us, but he has slowly broken all of his own rules. He is definitely starting to ...
A. 8 June 2005: I'm a 24 year old male with only 1 past relationship, and even I can see this doomed to failure. Sorry for being so pessimistic, but let's just say he does break up with his wife, marries you and leads a happy life. What's to say that he ... (read in full...)
Would I be better off taking back my ex?
Q. My boyfriend wants me back. We were together 3 years, unhappy for one. I met someone else who makes me laugh and can give me support, but I'm always asking What If? What if I took my ex back? Please help, I'm very confused, and the stress is making ...
A. 8 June 2005: I am probably the worst person to reply to this, ( I just posted a VERY VERY similar situation about 2minutes before) My perspective as a guy: It would depend on the reason why there was a breakup in the first place, was it a trust issue, broken... (read in full...)
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