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writes: I just have something bothering me, and I'm not sure if I am over-reacting or not. I always catch my fiance checking out other girls. Is this something I need to just accept or should I be upset about it. I'm sure he wouldn't like it if I was checking out other guys - especialy in his presence. Thanks, I'm just trying not to over-react.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (9 June 2005):
 Its natural for men to look at other woman, they all do it. The thing you need to remember is that he is with you, he can look as much as he likes so longs he doesnt touch. It doesn mean he doesnt love you or fancy you, its just men being men and seeing what else is around. he may not even notice that he does it, most men are flirts without realising, and they sometimes just look for the sake of it. If it makes you that uncormfortable, maybe mention it to him, or simply start looking at men yourself. I know that i tend to check out both sexes should they walk into a bar or anything, just more of a curiosty thing than anything, its just human nature to look at people, it may a brief oh she he looks nice, but then we move on. He is with you because he wants to be, there is no harm done by just looking, its just a natural instinct that we all have.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (9 June 2005):
 That's part of your problem, friend...you are not over reacting enough. His behavior is total disrespect to your relationship. It shows that he feels you will not control him or his appetite for other women. Put him in check or he will checkmate you. Tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him now before you marry this twit. See if he'll change for you.
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reader, rabbit +, writes (8 June 2005):
When I was with my girlfriend, I'd make a point to point out the really attractive girls that went by and say stuff like "ooh, she's cute", "that's a cute outfit" or other similar remarks.Every time I did it, I would receive a friendly slap on my arm, but because we both knew that nothing would ever come of my remarks, because we both knew that we were both 100% loyal and devoted to each other.If you have trust in your partner, then he can do all the looking he wants, because at the end of the day you know not to worry and that he's 100% devoted to you.Hope my comments help somewhat.
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