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writes: I have been in a relationship for 7 months and I care a lot about this girl. She does a lot for me but I keep acting like a stupid crazy child. She has given me a number of chances to change and act like an adult. I want to save this relationship as I love her and she loves me, but I can't stop doing all crazy things. It's not how I am. I want to stop so much. I do well for a few days and then it all goes bad. I think she is starting to get bored and tired with me. please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (9 June 2005):
 If you love her, you will stop yourself. Don't wait until after she has left you to change. Because then, she will not care. The heart is ticking, baby...
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reader, rabbit +, writes (8 June 2005):
Well, are you acting all crazy whenever you go out, just the 2 of you or do you act crazy when you go out with her AND a group of other friends?Talk to her and try to find out what is the cause of the craziness, then work together to avoid things that trigger the inner child in you.Maybe you need to do things that are a little more adult?(by this I mean do things that OLDER people would do, like just go for a walk in a pretty park or garden, visit an art museum, take her for a short boat cruise, or if you're short on money, do something like a picnic, basically do things that can bring out your sense of responsibility, certainly doing activities together will bring you closer and hopefully suppress the crazy trait.Hope it helps!
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