Ever since my girlfriend's night out she's been receiving text messages from another guy.
Q. My girlfriend (age 34) went out to a nightclub with her girlfriend the other night. Since she returned she has not stopped receiving text messages. I finally did the unthinkable and pinched her cellphone and took a look. Sure enough, there is...
A. 13 March 2008: Thanks so much for the replies...! I did nothing and it's paying off. I am certain that the texts have slowed down. Before even reading the replies, I had decided the only way forward was to show her what she would miss out on if she put our r... (read in full...)
She's becoming more distant
Q. My better half has been separated for a couple of years and is now at the point where the divorce will finally be settled (within the next few weeks). This has been taking a bit of a toll on our relationship and although I have been doing ...
A. 24 February 2008: I would like to avoid snooping at all costs as I think this leads down an ugly path. Still, today I have heard nothing from her... she is due back this evening and I know that she picked up a message of mine asking when she would be coming home.
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White stuff in sexual activities... help, is it normal?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend over a year and he's only the 2nd person I've slept with. We have a great sex life but my self confidence drops as sometimes when he fingers me there is white stuff on his fingers. It doesn't smell and it's not cum, ...
A. 24 February 2008: My gf takes great care of herself and still she gets this discharge from time to time. I think it's quite normal and certainly doesn't bother me at all. I tend to discretely remove it and wipe it on my boxers - which are normally lying on the ... (read in full...)
I love this girl more than anything but feel my love is wasted...
Q. Hello, Anyone out there who can help? Recently my ex broke up with me, we had been together for 2.5 years had a great relationship. At the start she was absolutely besotted with me, and I took my time, let the relationship develop and fell in ...
A. 21 August 2007: My friend, I really feel for you. Where I am a little stumped is that after 2.5 years, you have a fight and break up. My thought is that this initial break-up was not wanted by either of you, but in doing so, a lot of the trust that had been built ... (read in full...)
We are in a long-distance relationship but since I saw her last week all I want to do is see/call her! Help!
Q. My g/f, who lives in france, came to visit me in the UK for the week (last week). We had a wonderful time together but since she has gone, I have hit something of a depression. Our recent history is that, with her encouragement, I moved back to ...
A. 3 May 2007: And she is a star... rather than going out to lunch with her colleagues, she stayed in the office and called me. Now, that's how to make a bloke feel like he's not fighting an uphill battle.
How little faith I have!... (read in full...)
We are in a long-distance relationship but since I saw her last week all I want to do is see/call her! Help!
Q. My g/f, who lives in france, came to visit me in the UK for the week (last week). We had a wonderful time together but since she has gone, I have hit something of a depression. Our recent history is that, with her encouragement, I moved back to ...
A. 3 May 2007: Thanks for your replies.
Today she starts back at work as she was absent due to sickness for a couple of months. I've gotten very used to her not going to work but today I'm perturbed.
I know that she gets a lot of attention from other men (... (read in full...)
How do people really get over someone they have loved in the past?
Q. I'm 24 and dating my bf for almost 2 yrs now. We get along really well and I know we are a good match. He is also my first boyfriend ever. On the other hand, my boyfriend (25) has been through a divorce but had only slept with his ex-wife. My ...
A. 1 March 2007: That is a sweet and heartfelt question. Dealing with each others pasts is a big part of a relationship and indicates that the relationship is maturing. It is important to realise that his past is real and unchangeable. Only through talking... (read in full...)
I love her and she keeps tellin me she does too, but I refuse to belive it. Any advice?.
Q. me and my best friend who's a girl we've been EXTREMELY close for years and ive been in love with her for bout 2-3 years im sure she's the one I spend loads of time with her i see her daily most in college and after the holidays we are together most ...
A. 1 March 2007: You only live once. You risk losing a friend but may gain your soulmate and partner for the rest of your life. It seems fairly cut and dry to me.... go tell her!... (read in full...)
i have been asked on a date only twice but both times were joking..why would they do that?
Q. ok so i am 16 yrs old and i haven't had a bf yet! where i come from it's not bad not to have had a bf..and i have never been asked out on a date before as i have been really fat but now managed to be 180lb is that really fat..i mean my mom says i am ...
A. 1 March 2007: I'm not gonna lie. People who are overweight find it a lot harder to get into relationships. I think the reason for this is less obvious than it seems: Being overweight affects your self-esteem and low self-esteem is a turn off for most men... (read in full...)
He slept with someone when we broke up, we're together again but I don't know if I can handle this. Should I stay with him?
Q. I got back together with my boyfriend of four months recently after two weeks apart. I broke up the relationship but realised I wanted to try again and he was very willing to give it another go. The problem is while we were apart he slept with some ...
A. 1 March 2007: I have been "him" in the same situation. I would tell you not to read too much into the fact that he slept with someone else. I know that's hard for you, but if you broke up with him, he may have been hurting and decided to "get even".
Whate... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 1 March 2007: Of course you're not too young to be broody and thinking of childbirth. Of course, being physically capable of having a baby and wanting a baby are two different things.
Don't be fooled into thinking that having children kills your career a... (read in full...)
She told her husband she had IVF but the kid is mine!!
Q. Last year I was seeing a married woman who I very deeply fell in love with. At the time she was planning to leave her husband and had taken an apartment. We were deeply in love and all was going well and then I got her pregnant. Her husband ...
A. 1 March 2007: Thanks for your replies.
To clarify a couple of points:
There is no question that the child is mine. It is as clear as day and that has never hidden the fact from me.
She did not want the child to be her husbands. She had to because she ... (read in full...)
I would absolutely love to have a 3-some but how do I approach the wife about it?
Q. so...i kinda wanna have a threesome but how do i ask my wife if she wants to get involved? this could be a touchy area. i think it would be so hot to be with two girls but yeah asking the wife.......
A. 1 March 2007: You could share it with your wife as a fantasy (and only that). If your relationship is strong enough, during intimate moments you could both participate in this fantasy.... (read in full...)
I have been with my girlfriend a year now and although we have sex I have never made her cum. Any advice?
Q. hey there:) well... this is like my 1st message so it feels kinda weird. Right then... Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about a year and a bit and we have sex alot.. alot alot lol. but yeah i have never made her cum... she says she love...
A. 1 March 2007: It's all in the foreplay. If you do that right, the orgasm is much more likely to follow.
Some foreplay tips then...
1. Girls like to be teased in foreplay. Do everything except the thing that they want. Take your finger for example and run ... (read in full...)
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