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Should I become a total jerk for my own advantage ?

Q.   My ex-girlfriend dumped me three times and it's been one year since she dumped for the third time for small reason. I have heard that girls always find nice guys easy target to be dumped and retaken , is it true? If it's true, than why not should I ...

A.   2 May 2011: I agree with Chigirl completely - would add, though, that learn from this relationship - I don't think you can ever go back to a relationship - I have tried in the past and it has never worked. Whatever has gone wrong, remains wrong - start afresh, ... (read in full...)

Should a guy really forgive a girl for being rude because she is on her period?

Q.   Is a woman's cycle really a reason to forgive her sudden bitchiness? ...

A.   2 May 2011: Er, yes! I was a sufferer of PMS and could be charming one moment, a monster the next - then realise what I had said and why and be so apologetic! It's awful - you can't help yourself sometimes. I always found Vitamitim B6 helped but quite often, ... (read in full...)

Is this the kind of person I should try to stay with?

Q.   Need some advice how to move on.. my bf of 2 yrs broke up with me today after not speakn with him for a month.. I had givn him time to try to get over my past of me cheating on my ex....and he now decided it wuz something he couldn't deal with..cuz ...

A.   29 April 2011: We all have a past, present and future. If your boyfriend can't get over your past, then the present will hurt but the future will be better. But like another aunty here - I am not really too sure who you cheated on - your current (now ex)... (read in full...)

Does his defensiveness mean something?

Q.   What would you make of this?...My husband and I are driving in the car, he says: "I'm going out of town on Monday I have a meeting and I put in for two nights so I can do this other thing while I'm there and kill two birds with one stone." ...

A.   29 April 2011: I'd be suspicious ... sorry!... (read in full...)

How can you marry someone when they can't be a team?

Q.   i've been with my girlfriend for a couple of years now. she moved to a different state to be with me. to me, i see us as a family now. she has a son that i've taken on as my own. so to me, when things happen, we should look to each other for ...

A.   29 April 2011: You don't say how old your girlfriend is, but I am guessing she is still in her early twenties if her grandparents are around? I would hazard a guess that she is missing her family and that is why she goes to see them when she is upset or something ... (read in full...)

1st time pregnancy questions

Q.   Hi. Hadnt been here in a while so it kind of feels odd to be doing this after so long. Well i got married last year and i'm now pregnant for the first time ever. I wanna ask all the moms out there a few questions. First how do i deal with the ...

A.   29 April 2011: Hi - firstly congratulations on your marriage and your baby news. Its funny how you can be nauseous and hungry at the same time isn't it? Keep some ginger nut biscuits by the bed and have one before you get up. The ginger is supposed to quel... (read in full...)

Suspicious about boyfriend cheating

Q.   so i've been a little suspicious about my boyfriend latley. he gets on myspace alot more aften now like 4 times everyday he didnt use too. when he is with me he puts his phone on silent but he dont hide his phone like he keeps it out were if i wa...

A.   22 April 2011: My gut feeling is that he is NOT cheating. Under your fake myspace account you asked him a direct question and he didn't reply, he texted YOU. I would stop questioning him being on myspace, you have no proof of him cheating and I think what you ... (read in full...)

Is my clumpy period a miscarriage?

Q.   My fiancée and i have been trying have been trying to get pregnant for 3 weeks now, i was due my period last friday and a week from then i started to bleed. i know that you can start bleeding but there was a clump of blood that i saw? did i miscar...

A.   22 April 2011: I don't agree that if you were pregnant you would already be feeling nauseous and tired. My first pregnancy I didn't find out I was pregnant until four months, due to seven day a week training and no bump/no symptoms. I found out when I went for a ... (read in full...)

Was his friend right? is it off-putting to guys that I'm articulate? Or am I OK as I am?

Q.   When talking to these two guys the whole night at a pub, who were 22 and 23. Near the end when i said my age i first received a nice comment from one guy and then straight after, his friend hit back with a comment that made me think is he right? ...

A.   22 April 2011: Well, all I can say is that the nice guy is right, the other guy take with a pinch of salt. You will attract a better quality of man with how you are now, and that, surely, is a good thing. Good luck - I think you are going to be just fine!... (read in full...)

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