Is it possible that guys don't ask me out because they find me intimidating?
Q. This is merely a curiousity question. I'm not desparate for a boyfriend or anything. I've never thought much of it before, but people are always complimenting me on how pretty I am (nice hair, good figure, or whatever is what they say). I'm not ...
A. 15 October 2008: You need to show more cleavage.
Sorry for the short answer but the it's not complicated, guys like boobs.... (read in full...)
I seem to sweat alot for no reason. what is wrong with me!
Q. hi. i am a very clean person! i take a shower every day and clean myself up good. but i seem to sweat a lot. and its disgusting. but if im just sitting there i feel my underarms getting sweaty. and it makes b.o. i use deoderant. and ive changed it ...
A. 15 October 2008: It's all because you're at the age when your body is going thru many changes, otherwise known as puberty, and it won’t last much longer.
You don't need all that much deodorant either, because b.o. is caused by not bathing every day. Pers... (read in full...)
I'm a newlywed and I can't seem to get aroused by my wife! Advice?
Q. I am a newlywed and I can't seem to get aroused by my wife. I never had a problem with that before we were married. she is gorgeous, and sexy, and I truely love her and enjoy my time with her, and yet I cant seem to get hard, I can however, when i ...
A. 15 October 2008: You're one of many people that substitute porn for real life experience.
Just consider all good sex you're missing while looking at porn.
Set up your bedroom with a bottle of white wine, light the room with 4 or 5 candles, tie a big red bow on y... (read in full...)
Is what I'm feeling for her....love, or infatuation?
Q. Hello. I am so confused about the feelings I have for my friend. I have "liked" my friend for over a year now, with no signs of those feeling going away. I care about her a lot. I've never felt the same way about anyone else before. But since I've ...
A. 15 October 2008: Love frequently begins as infatuation.
There's no such thing as love at first sight. Love is feelings for another person that grows over a period of time.
Yeah, this could be real.... ... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of me! What can I do?
Q. what can i do? My friends are always being mean n making me feel bad about my self like the make fun about my wieght what should i do? ...
A. 15 October 2008: Next time one of your "friends" makes a comment about your weight, just say, "Like most people I'm not perfect but I would rather be a little heavy than rude."
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His texts are shorter and there are no more endearments! How can I get him interested again?
Q. I have met this really nice guy at work he and I have been chatting for along time now at work but because we work in different departments its been hard to talk for long periods. so one day he said we should meet up outside of work, so we did and ...
A. 15 October 2008: Your nice guy may have other problems in his life to deal with so just give it a little time and he'll come around.
When you have sex with a date it may be just for fun,
but twice in one night is a commitment.... ;=)... (read in full...)
I'm a attracted to a new guy but when I mention break up to my boyfriend he says he might commit suicide!
Q. Hi, This may sound weird. I am going around with this guy for past 3 years. I met him online. Everythign was fine till 1.5 years back i met a guy in my office. We were gud friends and fond of each other, but my bf thought we both were too close a...
A. 15 October 2008: "he says he might commit suicide!"
That also means that he might NOT commit suicide.
Tell him to get off the guilt trip routine. ... (read in full...)
Five years ago I got drunk, and naked, friends took pictures, and made me famous around town, I am humilated, should I get over it?
Q. I recently posted about a situation where 5 years ago i got drunk and naked and everyone took photos of me and passed it round my home town and they still haunt me today-everyone that i meet gets shown them and while i didn't want it to (i really ...
A. 15 October 2008: "I just want to be happy and have an easy carefree mind and life."
Well don't wo all ??
An easy carefree life would be no challenge at all. I don't even know anybody that lives like that.
Problems build character and how you manage your problem... (read in full...)
Why am I so dry down below when we make love?
Q. Why, when me and boyfriend have sex I'm horny but when it's time for him to penetrate me, my pussy is very dry, why is that???...
A. 13 October 2008: Not enough time spent on foreplay.
Pussy must be slowly and gently teased into the game.
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We've been fighting a lot recently and now she seems really distant...
Q. I need some advice please... 3 weeks ago me and my girlfriend it seemed like we hit a rough patch I dont knw what happened but over night it seemed like things changed abruptly like she stopped talking to me as much, we didn't flirt as much, hold ...
A. 13 October 2008: The guy that's in love with her is already making his move.
You need to tell her that it's really NOT alright with you for her to continue being close friends with her ex.... (read in full...)
He called me by MY FRIEND'S name when we were having sex!
Q. My boyfriend was drunk and called me my friends name during sex. They have only met twice, and I know they are not seeing each other. How should I take this?...
A. 13 October 2008: Nothing complicated here.
He has been dreaming about screwing your friend.
Subconscious thoughts fall out your mouth when you get drunk.
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Age difference - I need your advice please!
Q. I'm 13, And I'm in love with a 21 year old guy. I know it sounds really stupid, but please hold off the lecture until what I'm writing is comepletely read. I KNOW the guy, He's been my best friend (We're gamer geeks) For two years, and just ...
A. 13 October 2008: I realize that you're not old enough to know this but you are well on your way to getting your "gamer geek" friend put into prison.
Send him a message and tell him your real age before it's too late to be sorry. ... (read in full...)
What is the age limit to be able to legally date a 15 year old? No sex involved.
Q. There a girl who 14 who going to be 15 in 4 months what is the highest age a guy should be, to be able to go out with her of course nothing sexual, just maybe a kiss on the lips and hugs...
A. 13 October 2008: "Going out' can and often does lead to a sexual relationship. Not all States age of consent laws are the same, but if you post where you live, I will tell you what the legal age is for your location. Otherwise, if you are 21 or older, only "go ... (read in full...)
Five years ago I got drunk, and naked, friends took pictures, and made me famous around town, I am humilated, should I get over it?
Q. I recently posted about a situation where 5 years ago i got drunk and naked and everyone took photos of me and passed it round my home town and they still haunt me today-everyone that i meet gets shown them and while i didn't want it to (i really ...
A. 12 October 2008: You can only "get over it" by seperating yourself from those so called "friends".
About 100 miles should do it.... (read in full...)
I have just found my daughters diary while sorting out her clothes for washing.
Q. I have just found my daughters diary while sorting out her clothes for washing. I know I should not have done but I read the last few pages that she had wrote on and I am worried she is going to do something stupid. The last entry says that ...
A. 12 October 2008: Think back mom, you were once 15 and had the same curiosity about sex that your daughter is now experiencing.
Don't blow your cover on the diary reading thing by telling her all the reasons to not have sex because in the back of her mind, she know... (read in full...)
Why in the world won't he have sex with me? It's been a month!
Q. Warning, this is a sexual problem with a little bit of graphic detail, hope it does not offend! I've been seeing this guy for over a month just now, and since we live 30 miles apart, every time we've got together we have also spent the night ...
A. 12 October 2008: Ease up a little bit. Most men like to be the aggressors in a relationship. It's a macho thing.... (read in full...)
Is my penis an average size?
Q. hey im 15 and i have a 7.5 inch dick ... is that an average size?...
A. 12 October 2008: You must be very thin, perhaps even underweight.
Fact is, as your body weight increases, the exposed length of your penis gets shorter.
The fatty layer on your lower abdomen greatly determines the length of your dick.... (read in full...)
How to be secure in love...
Q. How to be secure in love... When you enter a relationship, it opens up hundreds, thousands of uncertain feelings. Little potholes in our sanity and they can easily make their ways into becoming tunnels. I was the most confident person in the wo...
A. 12 October 2008: Life is not that complicated.
Rule of thumb, "Do it so long as it's fun. When a relationship is no longer fun, end it."
I'm thinking you've been watching too many Dr. Phil Shows.... (read in full...)
I know to some people, virginity is a really precious thing, But why?
Q. what is the big deal about sex? i know someones virginity is a really precious thing, but why? i mean.. whats so big about sex? why's it illegal under 16? i dont get it?! i lost my virginity 2 years ago, i was 14 and to be honest i dont regret it, i ...
A. 12 October 2008: The proper time to have sex is when TWO people want to.
Sex is a very private relationship an should be kept that way and your reputation will suffer no harm.
Just remember to use TWO methods of birth control.
You - the pill
Him - a condom
Life... (read in full...)
How do I tell him subtly that Iwant to have sex with him?
Q. im a female, and i want to send out signals to this guy ive been seeein that i wanna have sex with him without actually saying 'hey lets have sex!' maybe i could touch him a certain way or say something in a text message, i dont know! this question ...
A. 12 October 2008: TEXT MESSAGE:
Him - Lets get together Friday night.
You - OK but you have to promise not to screw me.
(Like a farmer, you have planted a seed while not an open invitation, it is definitely going to stick in his mind.)
AFTER A MOVIE WITH A ... (read in full...)
How can I pretend to be a virgin when I marry?
Q. i have done sex before marrige with my boyfriend and now i am getting married to some one else and scared of that he will come to know that i am not a virgin so how can i make him belive that i never had sex before can my vagina b as tight before?...
A. 12 October 2008: Until you marry, you belong to no one and it is only your business to know if you have had sex before.
Don't tell him, there are some things that men just can't get out of their mind, so don't put it in his mind and if asked, say that it didn... (read in full...)
How do you go again after cumming once with no help from the girl?
Q. My girlfriend and I just had sex for the first time, we both lost it to eachother and after the first time I cum'd which was really quick as in a couple of minutes, I tried to get hard again but she didn't want to give me a blow job or anything so I ...
A. 11 October 2008: Just take a little break and continue the foreplay and petting (by hand) untill your erection returns. Sometimes this can take about 20 minutes.
Next time, go a little slower and try not to get off so soon because it will always take much long... (read in full...)
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