Why do I stay even after he's been guilty so many times?
Q. I am an attractive, young hearted, full of life woman. I've never had any problems with finding a man, but for the last 3 years, I have been in a very disfunctional relationship. We've both made huge mistakes that have damaged the relationship, ...
A. 5 January 2012: Tellulah, thank you so much for your post. I really needed to read that. I know I deserve to be with a man who's going to love and respect me. I'm tired of the tears, the dissapointments, the lies, and the disrespect. I don't want to waste an... (read in full...)
Is it right to date your good friend's ex?
Q. Would you ever date the ex boyfriend of a very good friend of yours, even if you never got to meet the ex boyfriend? I'm really torn about how to feel about this. My best friend is dating the exboyfriend of one of our good friends and I'm having a ...
A. 14 November 2011: Strongfp, thank you so much for your input. my best friend did speak to our friend about it (although she didn't tell her all the truth), and our friend said she was cool with it. Not sure if she really meant it or she just doesn't want to lose ... (read in full...)
I'm married but struggling with the sexual tension between me and a colleague....
Q. A few months ago I started working at a school as a Teaching Assistant and I have found myself becoming really attracted to one of the Teachers I work with. The problem is Im married with a child, only recently married. When I first started wo...
A. 10 October 2011: Sexual chemistry is something you will feel with other people even if you're married. The thing is that you cannot give in to that temptation/sexual chemistry. It really isn't worth it. A kiss will most likely lead to something more and you will ... (read in full...)
Am I too old to find love again? Should I stay or go?
Q. I've divorced my husband. He is a selfish person and his stinginess has bothered me for years. He never wanted to spend money even if needed. Finally I've decided to end it after 20 years together. While I was going through my divorce I've met ...
A. 10 October 2011: Fear of being alone for the rest of your life should never be a reason to stay with someone, especially when you're not happy. I much rather be by myself and happy, then unhappy and miserable in a relationship. Age is not a factor when it comes to ... (read in full...)
How can I ask to stay over without being rude?
Q. I've been invited to a night out in November for my friend's birthday.She recently moved in with her boyfriend in a city that i havent been to that much so i'm not used to the area and its about 40 minutes away from where i live.i might have to ...
A. 10 October 2011: It all depends on the level of relationship you have with your friend. If you have a close friendship, there's nothing wrong with being honest with her and telling her exactly what you just wrote. If she's a close friend, she will be more than ... (read in full...)
2 men and don't know what to do.
Q. NEED HELP on what to do. So, I have been seeing this guy on and off for over 2 years now. We recently broke up because he can be very abrasive. He means well, but he can be an ass sometimes. But most of the time, we have this amazing connection that ...
A. 10 October 2011: LOL...yes you may!! :) Girl, it's the lessons in life that make us stronger and wiser. And yes, as women, we OVER analyze and OVER think EVERYTHING!!! that's just our nature, but at the same time, if you want to make the right decision, you got to ... (read in full...)
Why does he care if I have found his replacement?
Q. I was dating a guy for almost a year when he out of no where decided he wanted to date someone new. I was very hurt, angry, and confused. We talked and of course he said he still wanted to be friends. I told him he needed to give me some time. I ...
A. 10 October 2011: Honestly, some men will do that just to see if you've on to another man. I wouldn't put too much thought into that, since if he really wanted to be with you, he would be with YOU and not with someone else. You don't owe him any ... (read in full...)
2 men and don't know what to do.
Q. NEED HELP on what to do. So, I have been seeing this guy on and off for over 2 years now. We recently broke up because he can be very abrasive. He means well, but he can be an ass sometimes. But most of the time, we have this amazing connection that ...
A. 10 October 2011: wow...you just described my boo...lol. I feel you on being torn. Sometimes we go with the familiar because at least we know what we're dealing with and because they've been around for a long time and know us. You just have to think of your ... (read in full...)
When I ask b/f where our relationship is going he says he can't guarantee anything!
Q. Hi Eveyone! My boyfriend and I of 11/2 year decided to move in together in his house. He seems really committed to me. He even get me a car to drive (since I dnt have one) he pays for my phone bill and he said he really loves having me around...
A. 10 October 2011: I think the fact that he's making future plans to move you guys to Vegas shows that he's thinking longterm. I can understand the fact that he say's there are no guarantees because truly, no relationship is guaranteed to succeed. You just have to ... (read in full...)
2 men and don't know what to do.
Q. NEED HELP on what to do. So, I have been seeing this guy on and off for over 2 years now. We recently broke up because he can be very abrasive. He means well, but he can be an ass sometimes. But most of the time, we have this amazing connection that ...
A. 10 October 2011: First of all, I think you're doing the right thing by stepping back until you figure out what you need and want. My only advice would be to not have sex with these guys until you figure out what you need/want. As women, we get our emotions ... (read in full...)
Not happy with our open relationship anymore, but then again I would rather him not cheat on me if we went exclusive! What should I do?
Q. Hi, I'm 17 f in a 9 month open relationship. To start with I was completely fine with this- wasn't anything serious just getting to know eachother more etc. But 9 months later I am serious about being with this guy and it hurts to see him texting ...
A. 10 October 2011: You're ONLY 17 and you're in an open relationship? Sweetie, this boy is no good for you. Of course he's just fine with how the relationship is right now..he's got the best of both worlds. i think you need to give yourself more value. You deserve ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait to have sex with him? I don't want to end up hurt again...
Q. Dear Readers, I would like some advice please in regards to a guy I met. I come from a background of Domestic Violence and have not had much luck in the past with men. I have had a lot of counselling to avoid getting involved with toxic men, how...
A. 10 October 2011: First of all, I'm very sorry about your past experience with your ex's. There's absolutely NO excuse for any man to put a finger on a woman! I commend you for not giving in to sex yet. I think it's wise to take things very slow and allow the true ... (read in full...)
I think I screwed up by getting drunk on our date! He has updated his online dating profile but is 'too busy' to contact me, is that is it for us now?
Q. I met a guy on match.com about two months ago. We talked for about three weeks and then finally met. We really hit it off and for the next month saw each other three to five times a week with texting in between. I think there were only one or two ...
A. 10 October 2011: Was he also drunk the night you guys went out? Perhaps it was a turn off to him to see you drunk that night. I don't buy the he's too busy story. He had the time to see you and text you before, so the fact that it's all stopped probably means ... (read in full...)
Insane jealousy driving me crazy, please help!
Q. Hi. Does anyone have any help for me in how to deal with jealousy/insecurity? I have been with my bf for almost 2 years and we are about to move in togther. I know he is my one, I have never felt like this about anyone, I love him deeply. The thing ...
A. 26 September 2011: hello there...I have to admit that I saw so much of myself in your email. I see someone who is deeply in love and afraid of getting hurt. I don't think your boyfriend loves you less because you really can't gage love only by his lack of works of ... (read in full...)
Having sex with the ex after breaking up?
Q. My bf and I just ended our relationship after a yr and 1/2. We love eachother and want to stay close. Last night we were talking about sex. And if we could still do that. I am not sure I can handle that. Anyone who has experience getti...
A. 7 July 2011: I have been in this situation where I've had sex with an ex thinking we could keep it at just sex with no strings attached. Unfortunately, it did not work for me because my emotions were still involved. I couldn't disconnect my feelings and ... (read in full...)
To threesome or not to threesome...mature answers only please!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years now. Recently, we've hit a few rough patches and I'm trying to spice up and revive our relationship. One of his fantasies is to have a threesome with a woman that neither one of us ...
A. 30 June 2011: Thank you so much for your honest replies ladies. I really appreciate your input. @ So Very Confused, we have discussed going out to a bar or some place where we can meet a woman that might be interested. we also discussed being "safe" (using ... (read in full...)
Questions regarding a threesome...
Q. My boyfriend really wants a threesome. It will be me and him (obviously) and one of his friends, who is male. I have told him i wasnt interested but he is kinda talking me into it. however i do need some questions asking. Is it a good idea to be ha...
A. 30 June 2011: If you feel that strongly about not doing it, then don't do it. A threesome should involve 3 willing participants. Although your boyfriend wants it, you have some hestiation. I don't think you should go through with it if it makes you ... (read in full...)
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