When we have sex, it's agony!
Q. Heyy.. Okay; Well; ive been with my boyrfirend for 7months. I love him with all of my heart. Butt; when we have sex; its agony!! I have been in tears over this before during sex. I feel really bad; because he then feels bad for putting me thru the ...
A. 15 May 2011: Hey dear, As uncle dave said, you must try using lube. But you might be also suffering from Vaginismus. Read about it. If its your first time, then you might still have unbroken hymen. However, if its not, then you have to read about vaginism... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity before my next birthday, but there's still no one special in my life.
Q. This is rare nowadays, I know, but I am still a virgin at 31 years old. I've had opportunities to have sex before, but I didn't act on them because I promised I wouldn't have sex with just anyone. I don't regret that promise, but here I am, at 31 ...
A. 6 April 2011: Hmm .... search your memories for your guy best friends especially from School and college and talk to them about it .... You might find someone special ... not all of them would be married and not all those married folks would be happy .... Gi... (read in full...)
If I leave, I will bring shame to my family, and they will break all ties with me! What should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I am a 24-year old girl from Bordeaux. My family comes from Pakistan and we are quite a traditional family with close family ties. They do not allow me to meet my friends and my only occupation is staying at home and doing my house...
A. 12 February 2011: First of all ... congrats ... you have taken your first step ... I know what this means in the islamic culture. My take is that you SHOULD leave. You have education on your side. I can bet that you can find yourself money to support if you go ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is having a hard time with the fact that I've been with another man before him. Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have recently talked about having sex for the first time, he would normally wait until marriage but because we love each other and are both willing, he said we wouldn't have to wait(plus we are planning to get married in the next ...
A. 2 February 2011: Stay away from this guy ... I know it would hurt ... but it would save you from future issues. Its a big thing for a man like him ... but what surprises me is that he said OK for sex before marriage to you. So if you persist, you are sure to get ... (read in full...)
Whenever I'm home, I want to go back to uni, but when I'm at uni, I want to come home!
Q. Dear all, I don't really have a relationship question but if anyone could give me some advice I'd really grateful. Basically, I'm struggling to cope with my emotions. I've gone through a lot of changes over the last year and I've also been under ...
A. 26 January 2011: Hey .... you are not alone .... I was exactly like you when i was in University not long ago. I always felt anxious. It was hard for me to cope up with things. Now I am definitely better. I dont want to spurt out my personal details here. But ... (read in full...)
Co-worker has become distant, but claims nothing is wrong. What should I say to him?
Q. Hey guys, I need some advice. I know I'm not being paranoid, but I had a friend who I was good friends with and I helped him with a hell of a lot. He's still working in my company but, now he has distanced himself. Something doesn't seem right. H...
A. 26 January 2011: I agree with dirtball.... I think he has feelings for you and many a times men try to conceal their feelings for the girl - especially if they [men] are scared of losing the relationship and try to be away. Ask him out for a dinner casually and ... (read in full...)
My ex-wife and fiancee cannot both be at my father's funeral...what do I do?
Q. I have a dilemma that I doubt I will get much sympathy from here. I recently divorced after a year long separation following an affair. I live with my mistress and we are in love and planning to get married in a year or so. She has met all of m...
A. 22 January 2011: I disagree with the previous post. You should invite your fiance for sure and let her know that she is important. That said, you have a solemn duty to inform your ex - but leave it open ended saying that she may or may not come depending on how ... (read in full...)
I'm out of his league...Should I care what others think?
Q. I just need to make sure I'm thinking clearly. I'm engaged to a wonderful man who treats me like a princess. He loves me and I love him. Our sex life is good. He's financially stable, (6 figure job, house in the right neighborhood, car, he has no ...
A. 22 January 2011: You would be clearly crazy if you end up walking out from this man .... Looks usually dont count. Life is not what others think ... its about how you think of your self and how you enjoy it. When its pain you suffer it alone ... so dont let other ... (read in full...)
I'm married and have a strong emotional attachment to a co-worker. How do I get out of this mess?
Q. I apologize in advance for the length and breadth of this posting, as it's going to be quite a novel. I've been going through a self-inflicted emotional turmoil for about two years or so now and I've not shared it with anyone close to me because I'm ...
A. 19 January 2011: I strongly believe that he has feelings for you as welll ... just that he hasnt spoken about it to you & being the Mr.Nice guy here.... You need to decide what you want for yourself. Obviously, if you like him so much, tell him that and try to ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I cheated on her with over 30 prostitutes?
Q. I'm 35, my wife 36, we have 2 kids, married for 7 years. Before our kids born we have really great relationship and have sex every day. Sine she got pregnant the first kid her interest for sex declined sharply. No matter what I tried the most we can ...
A. 19 January 2011: other question is why did she accept to a STD test in the first place ? Did you talk her into it ? or is she hiding something herself ? ... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself from feeling like I want to punch my partner in the face?
Q. So here is my story..... I have been with my partner for 5 years, the first few were rocky as we were both young and didn't know what we wanted, but after all that we moved in together and got on great. He would still often act like a young boy...
A. 19 January 2011: You are an emotional person. I think he is a player as well.... but for your health sake, you need to have a counsellor. Reduce your emotional imbalance... Dont drive him to hate you by being emotional always .... also get your message accross ... (read in full...)
I love my husband, but I have always been in love with my ex.
Q. I have been married for eight years with a wonderful man sixteen years older than me. Before my husband, I dated one guy who was my first love. I met my current husband when I was with him. Our relationship became quite intense and I felt he was ...
A. 18 January 2011: Hey ... No ... sex is only a part of life. Dont leave your husband. This is basing on your own words: the amount of security you get is way higher than no security. To me its nothing wrong to be with other man. Unless you are sure of what the ... (read in full...)
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