His 'jokes' keep striking a nerve - what do I say?
Q. Last night, my boyfriend and I were talking on the phone. I said hold on, and when I came back, I made my voice deeper to sound like a guy on purpose. We laughed it off, and he said, "Oh yea, like I'll fall for that." I kept going along, "Yes, can't ...
A. 7 October 2009: Talk to him about it, he will understand and if he loves you then he will avoid saying stuff along those lines again. If he does keep saying it then talk again. if this still doesn't work then you need to think about if him insulting you (which it ... (read in full...)
We aren't together, but I still feel let down. What should I do?
Q. Im really attahcd to a guy that lives about 2 hours away. Im going to university next year and il be living about 20 minutes away from him. Im so attached to him, i think about him all the time. I met him at a festival and we got on so well, inst...
A. 6 October 2009: I have been in a similar situation myself and it is hard to make a decision. What i did was carry on talking to him like nothing is wrong but at the same time keeping an eye open for any other potential guys. If he does get into a relationship with ... (read in full...)
Should I move on or email him? It's an online, LDR.
Q. I have been talking to a 45 year old man (I'm 23) over the internet for about 5 months now. He lives about 13 hours away from me and I plan on moving to the state he lives in, in about 3 months (for college). Hes not married (is divorced). So we ...
A. 6 October 2009: It sounds a bit dodgy to me. I personally think that he isn't the man you think he is. But if you really like him and still want things to happen then just wait a little longer, see what happens. If you still don't hear from him then move on. You ... (read in full...)
Why for sex but not a relationship
Q. I go to a big university but cant get a decent boyfriend. I would say I'm attractive and have a good personality but all the guys who are interested in me and vice versa only want to hook up and have sex with me. Even my male "friends" try to hook ...
A. 26 December 2008: I know im probz not the best person to answer this as i am only 16 but i am in the same kind of problem myself. Personally from what i have seen and guys i have spoke to, most guys nowadays are actually scared to settle down to one girl, they tend ... (read in full...)
I want to try alcohol! Will I become an alcoholic?
Q. I've never really drank alcohol before, but for some reason now I want to try it. In the past, I've only had a few sips. I never want to become an alcoholic, so I'm put off drinking it incase I like it a bit too much! Am I being stupid? How to you ...
A. 17 March 2008: I've been drinking for a few years now but when i wanted to try it i was nervous of liking it too much but there is no need to worry you will like it, well depending on what you drink, and you'll be fine and will not become an alcoholic unless you ... (read in full...)
Which is the best way to tell my mother of this age gap between me and my date and when would it be the right time?
Q. Well i got asked out by this guy only thing is though that he 22 and am 16, i don't see the problem with age though i know my mum does as my ex was 21 though it was long distance which also didn't help but this guy only lives in my next town and she ...
A. 12 March 2008: i think you should patch things up with your mum before getting into a relationship if you feel everything between you and your mum are going alright at 16 the best person to have around you for support is your mum so don't ruin that... Good L... (read in full...)
Abused by my friend's father
Q. i have been sexually abused by my friends father, and i found out that he did it to many other young girls, should i tell somebody about this as he is already going to court over the other abuses, my friend wont see his father and i feel really ...
A. 12 March 2008: I think the best person to get advice on wether you should tell someone or not is your friend if she is ok with you telling then do so, if she doesn't want you to tell then just try and get on with life as normal if he does anything else then tell ... (read in full...)
He likes us both!
Q. I finally plucked up the courage to tell the boy I liked the way I felt about him and he told me he felt the same way about me and has done for a while. The problem is, he didn't think I liked him in that way so he's met somebody else from another ...
A. 11 March 2008: I don't have much luck with relationships either and i no how you feel when you say you want this one to work.
The main advice i can give to you is to see how things progress keep talking to him and if he stays with this other girl then don't worr... (read in full...)
Is infidelity genetic?
Q. My boyfriend has confided in me that his dad cheated on his mom while they were married and that was the cause of their divorce. My question is, is my boyfriend more likely to cheat on me in the future because he has been exposed to and influence ...
A. 11 March 2008: It is quite likely that he won't cheat on anyone if he has experienced it through his parents splitting up but like 'danielepaw' said it's beyond your control and if he is faithful then he will not cheat. Also, the fact that he told you this in the ... (read in full...)
Does it sound as if my boyfriend's going off me?
Q. Hi, not sure how stupid it sounds or I'm being, but I'm really scared my new boyfriend is going off me, since yesterday everything was going fine, going round his house all the time until sometimes 2.00 in the morning, anyway yesterday after seeing ...
A. 11 March 2008: He may be feeling guilty about being with someone else when he has a child and just needs time to think things through it doesn't sound like he has gone off you it sounds a bit like he just wants to spend some time with his child. However, if it ... (read in full...)
We both cheated and now we're on a break. Should I leave altogether?
Q. What do i do? Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and she cheated early in the relationship. A few weeks ago i cheated. We are currently taking a break for a month so do i stick it out or do i move on?...
A. 11 March 2008: i agree with the last post if you do like her then stay with her as long as you trust her not to cheat and you don't cheat again but if you both cheat on each other then there really is no point and you might as well just be really close friends.... (read in full...)
She's always studying and never seems to have time for me.
Q. Hey everyone, My girlfriend and I have been dating for only a few weeks now, but we have been friends for 3 years. Well anyways, I like her a lot but often feel she doesn't have the time for me. She is in all honors courses and is always doing ...
A. 11 March 2008: The thing is she wants to pass her exams thats obvious if she is studying, If you want to spend time with her but she wants to study then why don't you help her study she'll relax a bit more with people helping her and she'll be happy that you are ... (read in full...)
Is he attracted to her?
Q. My husband has been secretly flirting with coworker, hugging, texting, posing for pics, late night phone calls, and even a secret handshake only the two of them know. He has never hidden being friends with someone before now, but he said he hid it ...
A. 11 March 2008: Talk to him tell him upstraight how you feel and what you are thinking if he is loyal to you he will keep his distance from this girl, if however he still sees her behind your back then you need to tell him its over, it is wrong for anyone to treat ... (read in full...)
How can I stop them bullying me???
Q. At school I used to get along great with everyone until seventh grade. My cousin and another girl were new students and they seemed nice, but when they started hanging out together they started being mean to me and a couple other people. I couldn't ...
A. 10 March 2008: When being bullied the best thing to do is not to pay attention they'll soon get bored and move onto someone else if they don't stop before high school then tell them that you don't care what they say and that they are just being childish smile and ... (read in full...)
My BF always hugs his girl friends and this makes me utterly jealous!
Q. I Love My Boyfriend Sooo Much. But It Just Kills Me When He Hugs All His Other friends!! We are soooo close, we were always best friends before we went out. Everyone Thought he was Gay before we started going out, and all his other friends ar...
A. 10 March 2008: Talk to him, ask him if he's seeing anyone else you'll know if he's lying if he can't look in your eye and tell you he's not or any of the classic signs. Or, It's a case of wether you trust him enough to believe he is only staying over as a fri... (read in full...)
Which is the best way to tell my mother of this age gap between me and my date and when would it be the right time?
Q. Well i got asked out by this guy only thing is though that he 22 and am 16, i don't see the problem with age though i know my mum does as my ex was 21 though it was long distance which also didn't help but this guy only lives in my next town and she ...
A. 10 March 2008: Your mum is just being protective over you they always are when it comes to boyfriends but this shouldn't stop you from being with this person if you like him. Your mum just doesn't want you to get hurt and all you have to do is prove to her that ... (read in full...)
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