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writes:Im really attahcd to a guy that lives about 2 hours away. Im going to university next year and il be living about 20 minutes away from him.Im so attached to him, i think about him all the time. I met him at a festival and we got on so well, instant chemistry and we swapped msn's and we talk alot now. I feel so naive though obvisley hes with other girls, theres a picture of him tounging another girl on his facebook :(I know hes single and free to do what he wants, but he'l talk to me like 'i cant wait for you to move here' 'i think your really cool' etc and makes little jokes about us cuddling and stuff.when he could be seeing this girl he was tounging?i regonise her name becuase she was tlaking to him on facebook before he went to uni this yearI feel like he wants one thing at times though, but he always is really nice and wants to know how i am, i can also sense jealously when i've been out and he thinks i might have done something... i want to get to knwo him ona emotinal level first before i sleep with him.Its ages til i move but how can i still talk to him without getting attched?Seeing that picture has just about killed me, and i dont know if to carry on tlaking to him, he could suddenly out the blue get in a reltionship and il be left upset.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 I agree with Lola1, he is not interested in a relationship right now. He will simply use you if you sleep with him.
Move on and find someone who is looking for a relationship.
Good Luck!
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reader, Pinky XxX  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 I have been in a similar situation myself and it is hard to make a decision. What i did was carry on talking to him like nothing is wrong but at the same time keeping an eye open for any other potential guys. If he does get into a relationship with someone else yes it will hurt for a bit but if ur out looking for other guys as well the pain isn't as bad. Also, remember that when you do go to university you will meet a lot more guys so keep an open mind, but dont push him away if you like him that much because you never know it could lead into something good :)
I hope this advice helps,
Good Luck
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (6 October 2009):
 You have two choices.
1) Continue to engage with this guy as a potential love-interest. This path will lead to hurt, or;
2) Slot him in the "Will never happen" category and start investing in dating someone for real. This path leads to happiness and fulfilment.
He is not looking for anything serious. You are too emotionally invested right now for you own good.
Good luck.
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