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He likes us both!

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Question - (11 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I finally plucked up the courage to tell the boy I liked the way I felt about him and he told me he felt the same way about me and has done for a while. The problem is, he didn't think I liked him in that way so he's met somebody else from another school and is off to meet up with her this Saturday. He's only ever met her once before and said he quite liked her. I told him to see how it goes with her but now he says he's having second thoughts about her as he knows I feel the same way about him.

I don't really tend to have much luck when it comes down to realtionships and I really want this to work out for once. I just don't know what to do as he obviously likes us both. Any advice would be really helpful please? x

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A female reader, Pinky XxX United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2008):

Pinky XxX agony auntI don't have much luck with relationships either and i no how you feel when you say you want this one to work.

The main advice i can give to you is to see how things progress keep talking to him and if he stays with this other girl then don't worry you will find someone else or he may change his mind and want you but don't fall into a love triangle as all it is is a lot of stress.

Hope that helps and good luck x

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2008):

peaches83 agony auntBest thing you could do is 1)dont pressure him into anything

2)dont make out that he would be better off with you

3) be paitent and act normal around him

4) and the biggest one dont wait forever, ie dont let him string both of you on.

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