Is it wrong for me to ask my new husband for a new bed?
Q. Is it wrong for me to ask my new husband for a new bed because I do not want to sleep in our current bed because his live in girlfriend slept there? Every time I think about it makes me angry and would like a new start even with our things. I'm ...
A. 3 February 2010: I agree with you...tell him how you feel. He should understand...and if he's not willing to consider your feelings you've got a problem I'm afraid. ... (read in full...)
I can't bear my boyfriend's silent treatment...
Q. Whenever we have a fight, he goes and locks himself away in our bedroom and doesn't speak to me. At first I thought this was just his "cooling off period", but he remains angry at me even after he has had his time alone. Once it lasted for 2 days - ...
A. 21 January 2010: I am sad to tell you I've been there. I think it is a form of emotional abuse. The person is trying to teach you to keep your feelings to yourself...is that the kind of thing you can stand? It doesn't get any better. I wish I could say otherwise. ... (read in full...)
He said he loves me but has left me to go abroad with his ex. What do I do?
Q. I have been with my partner on and off for six years. I am now 37 and he is 48. It has at times been the most fantastic caring loving fun relationship with amazing connection and intensity, yet at other times he has treated me with no respect. ...
A. 20 January 2010: cut him off and get what you need...realize he isn't it after all. he sounds like a con artist eating cake with both hands to me...you're better than that!! ... (read in full...)
I'm quite daunted by the idea of first time sex.
Q. I'm quite daunted by the idea of first time sex. I'm almost 22 and still a virgin. Not to mention I hear that women prefer men with experience and are quite turned off of having to 'teach' someone at all. I know there may be 'some' that don't mind, ...
A. 20 January 2010: I've never heard a woman complain about meeting a man who's a virgin...matter of fact..I think most women would appreciate that. You can't mess this up unless you over think it so relax and enjoy your first time...quit worrying. ... (read in full...)
Where do you go to meet nice guys?
Q. I've been single for a while now and so I'm curious about where you would go to meet nice guys? I'm not interested in anyone I work with and I've been going to a few language and dance night classes lately but I haven't met anyone I click with. I've ...
A. 20 January 2010: Maybe you already know a special guy...the one who is always there for you...that you overlook. I had a special guy friend...I didn't see him as a boyfriend..but he was always doing things, hanging around...never told me he liked me, never even ... (read in full...)
Any hope for our marriage?
Q. I love this man more then I can tell you. We have been together for almost 20 years. We have had are ups and downs but lately its just bad. He blames me for all the bad going on in our marriage. He recently told me that I was fat and dicussing and ...
A. 20 January 2010: I went through a similar relationship...leaving was so hard...but guess what? I never regretted it..now I live in peace. Don't ever let anyone tell you you're not enough. That man doesn't deserve you...reach out to your family and friends, get some ... (read in full...)
Any hope for our marriage?
Q. I love this man more then I can tell you. We have been together for almost 20 years. We have had are ups and downs but lately its just bad. He blames me for all the bad going on in our marriage. He recently told me that I was fat and dicussing and ...
A. 20 January 2010: Hey!!! Don't you see he's abusive? I can speak with some authority...having walked in your shoes...you need to get yourself out of that relationship and learn to love YOURSELF a little ok? It's not love if you have to give and give, forgive, ... (read in full...)
Could this guy from my past be the real thing?
Q. I had a friend 20 years ago while serving in the Army. He was working with me and my husband too at the time. I am now divorced from that husband and seperated from my current husband. When we were in the service together, we often hung out at my ...
A. 17 January 2010: well we're seven months into this and things are going as well as could be expected. My husband filed for divorce and I'm hoping we can settle this matter soon in a manner fair to both of us. He hasn't made any requests for reconciliation and pretty ... (read in full...)
11 year age gap plus baggage, can this work?
Q. Me and this guy met on a dating site,started chatting and exchanged numbers.We decided to meet.Im 20 and he is 31.When he saw me he said I was perfect and I liked his very genuine sweet personality and he was quite good looking,after meeting up a ...
A. 23 December 2009: Sometimes we miss red flags when they're waving in our faces...I'm concerned that he may be a controlling type as he's pushing you for a serious step this soon..there's no harm in waiting awhile if he likes you as much as he says...does he respect ... (read in full...)
Being married to someone who is never happy is very draining!
Q. I've been married to my husband for roughly three years now and I'm starting to reach the conclusion that I probably never should have gotten married. I had small doubts from the get-go when I told him yes, but I managed to convince myself that I ...
A. 25 November 2009: I can identify with you on being with an unhappy mate. My ex was constantly depressed too. It does become draining. The answer probably isn't this crush. You indicated you were more excited by the "new" factor than the guy. Would it be fair to ... (read in full...)
Being married to someone who is never happy is very draining!
Q. I've been married to my husband for roughly three years now and I'm starting to reach the conclusion that I probably never should have gotten married. I had small doubts from the get-go when I told him yes, but I managed to convince myself that I ...
A. 25 November 2009: I can identify with you on being with an unhappy mate. My ex was constantly depressed too. It does become draining. The answer probably isn't this crush. You indicated you were more excited by the "new" factor than the guy. Would it be fair to ... (read in full...)
A little blood..too much sex? Sex too hard?
Q. Okay so here's the issue, today is November 24th. On the 22nd (2 days ago) When I went to the restroom I noticed a little blood on the toilet paper [sorry TMI], it was a bright red I believe, but it never came out enough to make me need pad, all ...
A. 25 November 2009: If you want to be certain you're ok, you should see a doctor or go to Planned Parenthood at least. Unprotected sex leaves you vulnerable to some really bad situations...HPV, (which can cause cervical cancer...which you DO NOT want), syphillis, HIV, ... (read in full...)
It can't possibly be mine as I didn't cum inside her!!!
Q. I'm a 25 year old guy. A couple of months back i was seeing this girl. We had sex twice. One time we used a condom the other time we didnt but I didnt orgasm (i pretended that I did) just to get it over and done with. Now she is claiming she is ...
A. 28 October 2009: I agree....there's a possibility you're the father. Hope you man up...being a dad is a precious responsibility.... (read in full...)
I feel like he can't stand me at times, but why?
Q. I am experiencing difficulties in my relationship and quite frankly I am having a difficult time wrapping my head around some things and I am hoping that someone can give me a clearer sense of direction because I am lost somewhere amongst the ...
A. 12 October 2009: It sounds like your needs aren't important to him. You have every right to expect to have your emotional needs met. It isn't unreasonable. I suggest you read the book "He's just not that into you." I just read it and it opened my eyes. I'm sure you ... (read in full...)
Could this guy from my past be the real thing?
Q. I had a friend 20 years ago while serving in the Army. He was working with me and my husband too at the time. I am now divorced from that husband and seperated from my current husband. When we were in the service together, we often hung out at my ...
A. 6 October 2009: Thank you again for your insight. I appreciate it. It's nice to have a place to say what's really on one's mind. ... (read in full...)
I am too scared to leave him for fear of what he might do!
Q. I have so many troubles about my current boyfriend.For 2 years,I was taking good care of him.He didn't have work and no proper place to live.I was paying his rent and buying his groceries,giving him money for his fare everyday to look for job.I end ...
A. 5 October 2009: You need to go to the police, or the nearest court house, and obtain a restraining order. I've been there and done this. It won't change. He will not stop, he will not change. Please get some help, find a help line or a friend and go to the police. ... (read in full...)
Could this guy from my past be the real thing?
Q. I had a friend 20 years ago while serving in the Army. He was working with me and my husband too at the time. I am now divorced from that husband and seperated from my current husband. When we were in the service together, we often hung out at my ...
A. 4 October 2009: Thank you to all for your advice.
Lazy guy, you're harsh! Ok but having said that, I think you had several points and valid observatins. So I will try to respond.
The explanation I've recieved regarding the delay with the divorce is twofold.... (read in full...)
Could this guy from my past be the real thing?
Q. I had a friend 20 years ago while serving in the Army. He was working with me and my husband too at the time. I am now divorced from that husband and seperated from my current husband. When we were in the service together, we often hung out at my ...
A. 4 October 2009: In answer, he told me over a year ago that things were not happy with his marriage. I was speaking to him daily then, just as a close friend, as we've always been. He told me he suspected she cheated, and he's planned on divorcing her for at least a ... (read in full...)
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