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Bf wants to do some strange things. Not sure I approve. Any advice?

Q.   I have a very physical relationship with my boyfriend which I love. He is highly sexed and masturbates usually a couple of times a day as well. I don't mind this, as sometimes I do it for him. Recently, however, he's asked me if he can ejaculate all ...

A.   12 April 2007: I say try everything once, if you don't like it tell him that was the first and last time.... (read in full...)

Bf disrespects me but I am afraid of losing him, if I leave! Help!

Q.   hi, my bf and i have been together for 3 years, he is 26 and i am 21, the problem is about 1 week ago i noticed he started going on to a chat website,this website is used for making friends, penpals, general chat or dating, and also allows u to use ...

A.   12 April 2007: You have to leave him. If you don't he'll keep disrespecting you and cheating on you. You'll only be brought into self depression, you need to figure out a place to go to get away from him. I'm soo sorry about this, my greatest fear is that my ... (read in full...)

Is she frigid? Should I dump her?

Q.   I've been going out with this girl for about a month now, and all we've done so far is hugging. She talks about kissing and snogging over MSN, but when I'm in front of her she always finds an excuse not to. I don't want to grab her and snog her in ...

A.   11 April 2007: She is just shy. She obviously wants to, but is maybe embarressed. You should take the initiative, but no don't just grab her and snog her. Take it slow, but be reassuring and understanding.... (read in full...)

When is the best time to perform oral on my new g/f? Before or after pentrative sex?

Q.   When is the best time to perform oral on my new g/f? Before or after pentrative sex? If this makes her come will she then want sex? If I do this before sex then shouldn't climaxing for her happen at the end of our love making, not the beginning? ...

A.   11 April 2007: I suggest you give her oral sex before you have intercourse. Just turning her on like that will make sex ten times better. But be warned, if she does orgasm while you are giving her oral then she might not be as excited about having sex right ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and my friends freaked when they found out my bf was 19! Does age matter?

Q.   I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 19 years old. We really like each other. I told my friends and they freaked out and they had tons of things to say. I know that the age difference is pretty big but does age really matter if you really like the ...

A.   10 April 2007: I'm 19 and last year I dated a 28 year old. I too didn't think that age mattered. But with such a large gap between us we eventually discovered that we were going different places in our lives and we weren't willing to sacrifice for the other. In ... (read in full...)

What should I do? Act like I dont care? Break up with her?

Q.   Ok well it starts off me being with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. During this time we had to attend different schools. I found out that one night when she was drunk she messed around with another guy. After a period apart we got back ...

A.   10 April 2007: Once a cheater always a cheater. Sounds like she is playing with you, and I suggest you find someone more mature. I think she keeps saying sorry is because she likes knowing she has someone to fall back on. I'm not saying she is cheating on you, ... (read in full...)

I am liking sex with my gf way too much...am I becoming addicted to it?

Q.   My girlfriend and I are having sex. I fear that I am becoming addicted to sex, and not caring about other things about her. I love my girlfriend very much. I also love to please her, and really don't want to stop having sex with her. What do I ...

A.   10 April 2007: Ha, sounds like you guys have a great sex life. Maybe just tone it down though, take a break. If you both agree to it, take a week off of sex. Take her on some dinner dates and do some romantic excursions. Remember why you fell in love with her.... (read in full...)

Been reading books on dating, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty... but being a virgin at 20 is still eating me up!

Q.   I am a 20 year old male virgin. For the past seven months the fact that I am still a virgin has been eating away at me. During the duration of this time, I have been reading non-stop books on dateing, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty ...

A.   10 April 2007: Well pal, you just need to take the pussy off the pedestal. Seriously, sex is great but it isn't everything, if you want to attract a woman then confidence is key. Do what you got to do to get confident, join a club a sport, take dance classes (I ... (read in full...)

When are you not a virgin?

Q.   do you have to orgasm to say that you've had sex or do you just have to have been in and out...

A.   10 April 2007: Hi, yes if you've penetrated you are officially not a virgin. Doesn't sound like you had too much fun though.... ... (read in full...)

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