Is he only using me, or what is going on here?
Q. Hiya, I met a lad a few weeks ago and we txt each other and talk on the phone quite alot. The week after we met we went to the cinema and the weekend after (last weekend) we met up again and had sex. This week when I asked if he wanted to meet up he ...
A. 23 November 2008: Sometimes when you are in a new relationship and sex occurs it can cause difficulties. Maybe you should have held of a bit longer, he sounds like he has shyed off. Take it a bit more slowly next time, you will get more respect. Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Is the "bum" considered a sexual organ?
Q. My husband and I had an argument this morning about anal sex. He doesn't want to do it because he says the bum isn't a sexual organ. Is that true?...
A. 23 November 2008: it is a sexual organ, but its a matter of taste really, like marmite, you love it or hate it. By the way it is still against the law between a man and a woman, did you know this?... (read in full...)
Why doesn's she like giving me head and swallowing?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a pretty healthy sex life, we have sex at least once a day or ever couple of days and enjoy it. I go down on her every day at least, or whenever she wants it, and make her orgasm by licking her, she says she loves it. But ...
A. 23 November 2008: It's just one of those things, like Marmite, you either love it or hate it. A lot more women than you think, hate doing this, so be grateful for what you do get or you could lose her. No one should be made to do anything they dont feel comfortable ... (read in full...)
Does he love me or her...? I'm lost.
Q. I was dating a guy for 2 years and 2 months. We were having the usual relationship spatting nothing major. He decides we need a break. We broke up for 2 months. I found out he liked another girl who is married so they can't totally be with one ...
A. 23 November 2008: sounds like he does want her but she doesnt want to leave her husband for him, so there fore he is a a bit on the side for her. Send him away to sort his feelings out and ask him to come back when he has finally got the married woman out of his ... (read in full...)
Should I or shouldnt I call him?
Q. I really like this guy and I want him to like me back. A friend of his told me that I wasn't really his type. He gave me his mobile number and I gave him mine but I'm so afraid to text him because when we're both on bebo he never really talks to me ...
A. 23 November 2008: You could call him on the basis of friendship, you never know, most friendships can lead to much more, and if it doesnt at least you have gained another friend. hope this helps... (read in full...)
I told her something in jest and now I'm in the spare room!!!!
Q. My wife and me were texting each other. Well she asked me (rather not talked about it) my reply was nothing else better came alone (as a joke), Now she thinks I'm using her (which isn't true). She makes me sleep alone in the guest room. How can I ...
A. 23 November 2008: Wait until the night time and you are both settled in your own beds, then text her some nice things, just be persistent for a little while. If you do this every night, she may cave in. She sounds sensitive, so what you text be very sensitive and ... (read in full...)
I feel it's too soon for his kids to be introduced to her. Am I being unreasonable here?
Q. My husband moved out 4 days ago with no warning.. he asks to see our sons and be part of their lives so far no problem. Thing is when he left he told me that although he had slept with someone else it was just a once in a while over the past ye...
A. 23 November 2008: It sounds a bit too soon to introduce his new partner to your child. He needs to get your son used to him not living in your house first because that could be traumatic in its self when daddy just suddenly isnt there doing normal things., then ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should end it?
Q. Please read all!!!! I need help With this. Well i'm in my last year in school and I'm under a lot of stress with school and in my relationship. I haven't been perfectly happy in a long time in my relationship. I constantly switch between happiness ...
A. 23 November 2008: I'm sorry to say this but if you were the real love of her life she wouldn't treat you this way. You sound as if you know deep down inside that this is not going to be a long term relationship. She seems to be looking around for something else, ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get the rhythm going when I have sex...
Q. Hey. I'm just getting to the point now with my boyfriend where we're probably gonna have sex. I've done it before but am nowhere near as experienced as he is. The first time I had sex, and another time since, whenever I've gone on top, it's bee...
A. 23 November 2008: Try to make it fun. Take your time and ask him to take the lead. If this is the real thing he will be sensitive to your needs and take care of you. If you are in pain in certain positions, then move to a place where you feel more comfortable. Your ... (read in full...)
Why are we always arguing?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we argue a lot, we have finished like 3-4 times for like a week or two but we finished today well this morning and like when we finish he always says horrible stuff like he doesn't want to get ...
A. 23 November 2008: It is quite natural to have arguments early on in relationships. I'ts all part of getting to know each other and learning from it. You could try talking out your differences in a calm setting and agree to both try not to let it get out of hand no ... (read in full...)
Is marriage worth feeling this crap???
Q. I'm so miserable and lonely in my marriage and don't know what to do. Sometimes things are fine and we get on ok, other times things are just shocking and we don't even remotely get each other. We've been together 12 years and despite my wish ...
A. 23 November 2008: You need to try a bit harder. Complacency has allowed another man to come between you. If you both work at the relationship then there would be no room for anyone else. You need to remember the reasons why you fell in love with your husband all ... (read in full...)
Should I move back and be with the woman I love despite her drug addiction?
Q. Me and my girlfriend had been dating for about a year and things were great except for a drug problem that popped up about half way through the relationship. I tried really hard to get her to stop but to no success. We broke up because she started ...
A. 23 November 2008: I should take the advice of the experts. Don't move in with her and see how she goes on. You may easily fall into the trap of funding her habit if you live with her and she's not ready to make the break. There's nothing to stop you keeping in ... (read in full...)
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