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writes: My wife and me were texting each other. Well she asked me (rather not talked about it) my reply was nothing else better came alone (as a joke), Now she thinks I'm using her (which isn't true). She makes me sleep alone in the guest room. How can I make this up to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): In my opinion your wife is not playing by the rules at all.Its kind of emotional bullying by denying you sex to prove her point.Seems very childish if you ask me.
I think from your post I have understood the conversation.Teasing and Pulling each other's legs is a very important part of a relationship.Where is the fun with out that?.Try and explain that it was said for fun.Tell it with so much love that she believes you.Tell her that you are going to joke in the future too.But you love her too much and she never needs to feel insecure by anything that you say.No one is too old for good old love letters.Start writing....and leave it with a red rose on top.All the Best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): To vague, more info needed. What type of messages etc?
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reader, Petina  +, writes (23 November 2008):
 Wait until the night time and you are both settled in your own beds, then text her some nice things, just be persistent for a little while. If you do this every night, she may cave in. She sounds sensitive, so what you text be very sensitive and loving. Buy her some flowers as well if you are struggling with the texts. If this all works, dont text each other again with these issues, try talking things out instead.Hope this helps.
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