Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age?
Q. Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age? My girlfriend asked her mum if she could get the pill a month before she was sixteen and her mum said 'Okay' and was not shocked. My gf claims her mu...
A. 28 February 2007: Hi there,
I think the fact that your girlfriend could broach the subject openly with her mum is a good thing. (Some girls are able to talk quite freely with their mums - remember, they've gone through starting their periods etc).
I also think ... (read in full...)
How can I forget about my wife's past?
Q. My wife has had vaginal intercourse (about 48 times with three guys, 6+12+30), anal intercourse (one time each with two guys), and/or oral sex (about twenty five times from four guys) with six men other than me. She has given manual and/or oral sex ...
A. 20 December 2005: I'm sorry - but I have to say that I find it really bizarre that you listed each sexual act along with the number of times your wife had done them. Have you actually made her sit down and catalogue them for you? If so - why?
There is no reason f... (read in full...)
He's going to jail for a long time. Do I wait?
Q. Dear agony aunt, I am in a relationship with a man who has gone to jail and is expecting a really long sentence. The thing is, I was only with him for 2 months before he got arrested. Should I wait for him? I don't feel as strong for him as I did...
A. 3 August 2005: I think you gave the answer in your question. You were only with him for two months before he got arrested and you now don't feel as strongly for him. You don't get to know a man in 2 months - 2 years maybe, but not two months. He's going to be ... (read in full...)
We've been seeing each other for 4 years but I still don't know where I stand with him
Q. 2nd/aug/2005. I'm confused about my lover's feelings. He told me he loves me, but blanks my phone calls and texts every time we get too close. We have been seeing each other for 4 years but still don't know where I stand and I can't get any straight...
A. 3 August 2005: Well - it depends how you feel about him. Sounds like you want a firmer commitment, some acknowledgement that your relationship means something and is going somewhere. I'll bet you've got to the stage where you're having to tip toe around him, ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling taken for granted. Is this grounds for a break up?
Q. I'm 19 years old and I've been dating a guy for about 7 months. We've been having some trouble lately & things have become beyond complicated. The relationship started out perfect. After dating for about 2 months he told me he loved me, he's nev...
A. 3 August 2005: The relationship sounds unbalanced. You're doing the giving and he's doing the taking. Actions speaks louder than words - what a man says should be matched by what he does.
When you say he doesn't follow through on promises - what are these pr... (read in full...)
Not sure where my ex and I stand. Should I wait around or go with someone else?
Q. hey, Me and my boyfriend split up, yet we maintained 'everything' you get in a relationship. This has been kinda painful. He hints that he likes me but I dont know if we would ever get back together. The person who I have been confiding in recen...
A. 2 August 2005: At the moment, your ex is having his cake and eating it. He has fun times with you - but is free to do as he pleases.
You could lay your cards on the table and ask your ex exactly what is going on. Don't be too surprised if he's vague, and 'doe... (read in full...)
I told the girl how I feel, but she said she wouldn't go out with me 'cause I'm too much of a mate!
Q. I'm friends with this girl. Recently I have told her that I fancy her and that I would like to go out with her. The thing is she is still trying to get over a break up with her boyfriend but he treated her so badly. When I told her how I felt she...
A. 2 August 2005: I don't think you're going to like what I have to say...
In my experience if a guy or a girl says they don't want a relationship because 'you are too much of a mate', it usually means they don't have romantic feelings for you.
I could be wr... (read in full...)
Love meeting guys, but I get so nervous before dates that I sometimes even cancel!
Q. I would love Bev to answer this please, and of course anyone else willing to help. I am a 17 year old girl and I need some advice. I have no trouble meeting guys and getting asked out on dates; however when it actually comes to these dates I ...
A. 2 August 2005: All dates are nerve wracking. Even for the most confident person. I used to suffer terribly from nerves on dates - just as you do. Couldn't eat, felt physically sick.
It's OK to tell the person that you're nervous. He'll be feeling exactly ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to try oral sex, but I can't get past my revulsion...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and only in the last week or so, he's voiced his desire to attempt oral sex. The act has no appeal to me whatsoever and I am highly reluctant to attempt it. He says that whatever I decide w...
A. 2 August 2005: It sounds like you and your boyfriend have a good relationship. I don't get the sense he is emotionally blackmailing you - as he has made it clear that it won't change his feelings for you if you don't try oral sex.
When I was younger, I too felt... (read in full...)
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