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writes: I'm friends with this girl. Recently I have told her that I fancy her and that I would like to go out with her. The thing is she is still trying to get over a break up with her boyfriend but he treated her so badly. When I told her how I felt she was suprised. I'm a open minded person; she said she wouldn`t go out with me because of the break up. Also she says I'm too much of a best mate. It's doing my head in because I think of her every second! Also I can't really speak to her properly on msn. So please give some advice!!
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reader, Peasle  +, writes (2 August 2005):
I don't think you're going to like what I have to say...
In my experience if a guy or a girl says they don't want a relationship because 'you are too much of a mate', it usually means they don't have romantic feelings for you.
I could be wrong - there is always the exception to the rule.
She's having a tough time getting over her last relationship - so she needs to work through that before getting involved with anybody else. She knows how you feel, you've laid your cards on the table. Let her come to you when and if she's ready.
I hope it works out well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2005): The prevoius realitionship that this girl was in was Obviously a vey horible realitionship indeed...girls take a very long time to get over bad breake ups. She probably doesn't want to get involved with you at the moment becoz she thinks that it will turn out the same way
Give her time and who knows maybe in a few weeks she will b ready for a ralitionship with you.
BEST OF LUCK xxx
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