Can she keep using the kids against him to make sure we stay apart or could we be together and him still see his kids???
Q. I am a 19 year old girl and I was seeing a man of 33. We have known each other for nearly 5 years but we were only seeing one another for about a year and a half 2 years. When we first got together he had a girlfriend which I knew about and two kids ...
A. 18 February 2009: You poor thing, what a terrible situation for you to be in the middle of... I know you love him with all your heart but there are so many warning signs in your story, the best advice any of us can give you is to stop seeing this man.
His e... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out and any tips for how to handle getting nervous?
Q. Prom is just around the corner and I don't really have anyone to go with planned. Well today me and my friend talked with a girl I have a little bit of a history with. I used to hang out with her cousin, and back then she showed interest in me as ...
A. 17 February 2009: If you like her, just go for it! :) It sounds like you more than have a chance. Girls, even beautiful girls, are often insecure too. She's most likely worrying that no one will ask her to prom. Good luck! ... (read in full...)
I've had a crush on him for the longest time. Should I give him a Valentine's day present? (I need an answer ASAP)
Q. I've just got into Secondary School(I think it's called High School) and I saw this guy who was really really hot and adorable. The just the other day, I was flipping through my old school yearbook and I saw his picture and I checked with the...
A. 11 February 2009: I'm a bit confused by your post... are you really 22-25 years old? and just starting at secondary school/high school?
Anyway, I don't know about everyone else, but if I were in that situation I definitely wouldn't get him a valentines gift. A... (read in full...)
Long term relationship fizzling out? Love him too much to leave.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over four years now. we have our ups and downs, but mainly its been ups. we only broke up once for like three days last summer and he realized how dumb he was a came back. Lately he has not been very affectionate ...
A. 11 February 2009: Talk to him about it! It sounds like he's stressed out, or busy and distracted and unintentionally taking it out on your relationship. I think he would be upset to find out how much he's hurting you. Good luck! ... (read in full...)
I'm doing all the legwork in the relationship!
Q. Hi, I'm 20 years old and have been with the love of my life for about 7 months now, we have a terrific past with each other before dating and now that were finally together its been the happiest times of my life. Before we were head over heels for ...
A. 11 February 2009: You don't know for sure that she's bored with you, that is just your interpretation. Sometimes people get complacent in relationships but that doesn't mean that the relationship no longer means anything to them. I think your best option is to ... (read in full...)
My b/f spends all his time gaming!
Q. My boyfriend is obsessed with gaming/computers, and will spend upwards of 12 hours a day at his computer. One weekend he spent all saturday on his computer, and promised me that the next day he wouldn't spend any time on it. The next day, he start...
A. 11 February 2009: I completely feel your pain. Gaming seems to be the plague of women everywhere I think, but your man seems to have a particularly bad case it. It sounds like you've made your point of view perfectly clear. But I can't believe his solution to ... (read in full...)
Confused and disgusted what should I do?
Q. Im so confused with this guy! Im so sick of men giving the run around.We had a great night together last week.We had sex for the first time after going on dates for a couple months,it was very nice and romantic.I mean super sweet,not like a slam bam ...
A. 11 February 2009: I think there are two possibilities here.... Firstly, as Finn said, for whatever reason sex may have been the turning point... But I'm inclined to think that instead it was a misunderstanding. It is so easy to misinterpret things said over in... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get through to him that I am leaving!
Q. I recently caught my boyfriend in the act of watching porn. And, confronted him about it, he denied it. Even though I do have proof, he asked what the proof was deleted it and said I was a liar. I just can't seem to get it through to him that I am ...
A. 11 February 2009: He hasn't got it into his head that you're leaving because you haven't left. Regardless of the porn issue, why do you want to be with someone who tries to trick you and calls you a liar? ... (read in full...)
My husband is a lazy sod!!!
Q. I am 38 years old and married to a man who refuses to work. We own our own construction company and we only had one more job to do on our list. My husband REFUSES to do this job although we have borrowed thousands off my parents and his. I am out of ...
A. 10 February 2009: I think that the others are right... from what you've told us your husband does seem to be suffering from depression. It sounds like you've tried everything in your power to get him help. But here is a website you might find useful: http://www.hel... (read in full...)
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