Should I just end it and focus on my career, or will I be giving up a nice guy?
Q. So I did something I thought I'd never do. I've met someone on an online gay dating site, I never thought I would but I did. I spoke to him online for a good month and a bit before i got the confidence to actually meet him, as ive never really don...
A. 5 October 2009: I think it does sound like you weren't quite ready for him! :-) I think what you need to do is find someone (like me) who is happy to chat with you and talk through your feelings. Not all gay guys are like this and some are happy to just go for a... (read in full...)
What can I do to solve my depression?
Q. i think im really depressed, my parents are divorced, i have no friends who live any were near me, im anti social, and feel down all the time. can you recomend anything i can do?...
A. 5 October 2009: You sound like I used to be.
I agree with caring guy here. I know you're Anti - Social and you don't FEEL like talking with someone but that's the key to you feeling better.
Might be also worth talking to your GP
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Should I have sex with her or not?
Q. Hi iv been out with my girlfriend for 3 years now and she is a little bit older tgan me and she wants to have sex but im not fully comfident with my body i have muscle but iv got a bit of fat on my belly only a little and it knocks my confidence ...
A. 4 October 2009: Hey buddy
You're not the first to ask this sort of question (and won't be the last). Ok, I think you should lay down some ground rules here.
No one should force you to have sex, or even put pressure on till you are ready.
If you feel emb... (read in full...)
Are there stereotypes about cowboy boots I am unaware of?
Q. I am a 26-year old young professional and I have been dating a 30-year old man for almost two years. I recently mentioned that I wanted a pair of cowboy boots to wear over jeans just to go around the town with him because I liked the look. He pr...
A. 4 October 2009: Well I think you should be free to wear whatever you like!
I don't think there are any sterotypes with cowboy boots. Perhaps he has had a bad experience with someone who wore them?
Also it might not be such a big issue to him and he could hav... (read in full...)
Is it weird to love the taste of a guy's cum?
Q. is it weird to love the taste of a mans cum? i have been giving oral sex since i was 14 and i have always loved the feeling and taste of when a guy would "finish" in my mouth! i was talking to my friend about it and she said that she would never ...
A. 4 October 2009: Ok firstly your friend doesn't have any right to really decide what you like.
I like it when a guy finishes in my mouth (thats a good way to put it).
It's not dirty and degrading if it gives you both pleasure.
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Am I going crazy?
Q. I was happily married with two kids when my husband got mixed up in drugs. Around this time he also began seeing a guy he worked with and going to gay clubs. We divorced and he spent the next eight years with a guy he picked up in a gay club. R...
A. 4 October 2009: No you are not crazy.
I think he's very mixed up to be honest and I doubt he's turned straight.
Sounds like he is in denial at best and playing a different game at worse.
It sounds like you still love him, or at least what you want him ... (read in full...)
Is my brother normal?
Q. Okay, you may feel like i'm interfering in this situation but realy i am just curious as to whether this is normal. My brother is now 21, i am 15... and i no for a fact that he has never had sex, not only has he not had sex but never had a first ...
A. 4 October 2009: yeah I agree with HonnigKanin
You know my friend, that it may be that he is struggling with his own sexuality. So I'd give him some space and just affirm him as a person.
When he does come out if this is the case, you'll need to support him b... (read in full...)
Is it considered rude if you don't swallow?
Q. I just recentley started having sex with my boyfriend (we've only been together 2 weeks) so, i know people say swallowing is a way of showing them you love them. but like i just .. can't.. it makes me gag, so like, at a guys point of view, what ...
A. 4 October 2009: Hello anonymous
Well - you know really your relationship needs to be based on love not on wether you swallow or not.
As a gay guy I know that there are things I won't do and don't want to do. It's not selfish it's my right to choose. It's mor... (read in full...)
How do I tell if he's losing interest?
Q. Guys help only please! What are the signs a boy shows if he is losing interest? ...
A. 4 October 2009: There are loads of reasons someone loses interest in a relationship.
1. He has someone else - in which case he needs to tell the truth to you.
2. He actually is Gay and is struggling with his sexuality
3. He has another problem, perhaps at home ... (read in full...)
My gay boyfriend and I broke up, he verbally abused and hurt me, I still love him, don't know what to do, please help?
Q. Hey guys, I have a story to tell, im a gay guy and my boyfriend dumped me like 3 weeks ago after a long and ugly fight, at the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect we both seemed to love each other, I visited him all the time mostly ...
A. 4 October 2009: Been there done that got the t-shirt.
Rabbit, the thing you have to do is move on from him, I had a guy I loved and he really betrayed me and "went straight". Anyway buddy - I hope you find someone who is more worthy of you.
PC... (read in full...)
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