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writes:Hey guys, I have a story to tell, im a gay guy and my boyfriend dumped me like 3 weeks ago after a long and ugly fight, at the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect we both seemed to love each other, I visited him all the time mostly the weekends because I work. he lives like 2 hours from me, but I didn't care because I love him and wanted to see him, a few weeks ago I noticed a lot of changes in him, he didn't answer my text messages, he talked to me on the phone very rudely, and I really felt that he didn't wanna talk to me, I was really worried so I decided to ask him what was happening all he said to me was that he didn't love me anymore since like two months ago, also he told me that he didnt wanna talk to me anymore and a lot of very bad and hurtful things, he insulted me and abused me with all the things he said to me that night, I'm really hurt for all those things, but it hurts more still loving him, I just can't get him out of my mind, I wish he contact me, but I don't know if thats going to happen, I wanna call him or message him so bad and I dunno if that would be right or wrong, I miss him so bad, i cant describe all the pain im feeling, im just asking for some help guys, some good advice, some words of wisdom, some strenght from you, because I lost it all even my own self.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): Hello there.I have experienced the same thing you have my friend. It hurts like hell, and its been 8 months now and im finally getting over it. Dont text or call him it will only make it harder for yourself. I pray you get stronger and learn to put all that love and energy you have into yourself, because you deserve it. He wasnt the one for you, because the 'one' would never hurt you like that. God bless. I hope you get better.Jake x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): rabbit... so, you posted about the breakup 3 months ago and i'm hoping that you've moved on and have found a new cutie to play with.
people move in and out of our lives all the time. it happens to everyone, not just you. it is painful, but the amount of pain you suffer is based on how you react to the situation. if he rejected you, it is his thing, not yours. if he stopped loving you, it is his thing, not yours.
it's ok to feel sad, but never let the sadness or pain rule your life.
hope you're doing fine now...
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reader, pauly12345  +, writes (4 October 2009):
Been there done that got the t-shirt.
Rabbit, the thing you have to do is move on from him, I had a guy I loved and he really betrayed me and "went straight". Anyway buddy - I hope you find someone who is more worthy of you.
PC
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reader, StevenRoss +, writes (20 July 2009):
You're better off without him, I understand it's hard but it will get easier and better, you need to try and take your mind off him surround yourself with friends and family and do thing you enjoy. Be strong do text or phone him it'll just make things worse he doesn't want you and you don't deserve to be with someone who treats you like shit. xx
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (12 July 2009):
 oh jesus..you're as bad as a beaten women who wont do the dishes.you know me and the boy can always come over and beat 10 shades of shit outta you to. you gonna gimmie some luv'in afterwards?come on. you're just playing into a stereotype. if he loved you. he wouldn't have done it.lets say you both together and adopted a child.now you "love" him right? and he abused the child.is that ok? i mean you love him right? so that makes it ok?i mean love conquers all... right? I'm sue the kid loves him too.. or he will once he regains consciousness.so. no its not right or acceptable. Why should it be any different for you?Silly Rabbit... dicks are for chicks.
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