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anonymous
writes: I just recentley started having sex with my boyfriend (we've only been together 2 weeks) so, i know people say swallowing is a way of showing them you love them. but like i just .. can't.. it makes me gag, so like, at a guys point of view, what would you think if your girlfreind spit, but you like it when she swallows, i've done it before and he tells me how hot it is. and stuff
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (5 October 2009):
"It usually takes me about two week to decide on a new pair of shoes, and they only go on my feet."
Blame it on the movie - "Clueless".
Which started with famous line...
"As IF!!!"....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Frankly, he can't expect you to swallow it if you are uncomfortable ! If he insists, let him kiss you and ask him to swallow it with you
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reader, pauly12345 +, writes (4 October 2009):
Hello anonymous
Well - you know really your relationship needs to be based on love not on wether you swallow or not.
As a gay guy I know that there are things I won't do and don't want to do. It's not selfish it's my right to choose. It's more loving of the other person to understand that.
I hope you have lots of happy cuddles!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): If it's a choice between spitting, or not being allowed to cum in her mouth at all, I'll take spitting every time, no question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Of course they love it! It takes some getting used to though - I recommend sucking on antiseptic throat lozenges (which help to numb your 'gag' reflex) on a night when you know you're going to swallow.
Maybe you just find it too gooey and slimy, but it's worth a try. Cum basically consists of protein and sugar - its completely harmless, and though not exactly nectar or champagne, it's not TOO bad. Just think of it as a delicious lusty expression of how much you want your man, and swallow it all in one gulp, that way it'll bypass most of your taste buds. Also, try to look and act as if you love it, or the effect might be ruined.
If you just CAN'T swallow it at all, you can still let him cum in your mouth, just hold it there and make a quick exit to spit it out, or discreetly empty it into a tissue. There's also the option of letting him shoot on your face - not for everyone, but if you're into it, he'll love it.
You can also make sure he drinks lots of water, which may produce a more bland cum. Hope this helps, have fun!
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reader, charlie p +, writes (4 October 2009):
No, I've always considered my gf swallowing as kinky, but far from necessary. If you don't want to, don't do it, he won't get offended.
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
Think throwing up is even ruder don't you?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
If you don't like doing it, then don't. If he's going to be offended by something that really is trivial, then you're with the wrong guy. Don't be afraid to tell him you just don't like doing it. If he's really a worthy guy, he'll understand and not be bothered.
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