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writes:Guys help only please!What are the signs a boy shows if he is losing interest? Reply to this Question
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reader, pauly12345  +, writes (4 October 2009):
There are loads of reasons someone loses interest in a relationship.
1. He has someone else - in which case he needs to tell the truth to you.
2. He actually is Gay and is struggling with his sexuality
3. He has another problem, perhaps at home or at work that he's not telling you about.
Men tend not to share their problems with women but try and sort it out themselves, so perhaps a gentle invitation and he'll open up to you.
If it's no 2, don't be surprised. You might not understand him and you may feel betrayed but it's better he sorts it out now than goes deep into a relationship that will just hurt you and him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): When you stand in front of him in your sexiest underwear - you know, the stuff he used to rave about - he asks you to stand to one side because he can't see the game on the TV.
When you ask him if he thinks your backside looks big in the figure-hugging skirt you've just bought he'll say 'Yes - but it takes attention away from your face'.
Given the choice of a romantic candle-lit meal at home or a game of pool he tell you not to wait up for him coming home.
He 'forgets' your birthday or anniversary.
If he remembers your birthday or anniversary he'll buy you a gift for his car or your kitchen.
He comes home late in a dishevelled state with lipstick on his face, slaps your arse and says 'you're next, fatty'.
The list is potentially endless.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (4 October 2009):
I agree with caring guy but also believe if you have to ask yourself this question then he is probably losing interest. that is if you are asking this question because you have a guy you think is losing interest. My advice? Do no sacrifice yourself for the sake of the relationship. Don't hold onto to him if you think he is losing interest. This will only prolong the inevitable demise. One of the things we should all learn as humans is how to simply let go when something isn't working out for outself. Good luck
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
He'll become very withdrawn, very cold toward yoou and spend less and less time with you. There will be more arguments and there will be a difference in the way he treats you. We need to know more information on how he is behaving before we can tell you what's happening in your relationship though. You need to elaborate a bit more.
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