Should I end it or is this normal communication?
Q. I posted recently, and got one helpful response. However, I was really hoping for more than just one response. I have been hanging out with my ex for over a month now after a 5 year hiatus. Before this, she was in a 2 year relationship wit...
A. 29 September 2009: Listen; if you reversed the situation and you were in her shoes, would you be jerking her around and lying about things that she may be suspicious about, but which are completely innocent? And don't you WANT that freedom YOURSELF to have whatever ... (read in full...)
Once I've passed my driving test should I tell my instructor I have a crush on him?
Q. i'm 42 and since january I've been taking driving lessons. my instructor is a lovely man. a brilliant instructor and a wonderful person, kind, gentle, considerate etc etc. we get on very well together and my lessons feel more like time spent with ...
A. 28 September 2009: Dear Student Driver,
At 42, it's really kind of goofy to have a major crush; let's just say you're attracted to him like a mature woman would. So as a mature woman, there's no harm in ending your classes and then casually asking him if he'd like... (read in full...)
How can I trust a person without honesty?
Q. My BF and have been together for 7 months. I think he may be cheating. He still talks to his ex and doesn't see a problem with it. Some of the messages and calls between them have been very suggestive, I can feel that his ex is still loves him ...
A. 28 September 2009: The answer is a simple two words; YOU CAN'T. It's like saying, "How can I eat dinner when there's no food in sight?".....you can't; not until you can get something edible; which is a whole lot easier than going to the store and trying to buy a bag ... (read in full...)
I want revenge..how do I make this guy look stupid?
Q. Hi im gonna put it simply, i want revenge on an ex boyfriend Now i know people will say that just getting over him will be enough and that i should move on and make him realise what he's missing. And no offense but ive tried that Im far t...
A. 28 September 2009: Dear Ready for Revenge;
YOU CANNOT DO ANYTHING TO MAKE HIM LOOK STUPID; by doing all those lousy things to you, he will have to pay the piper and fear not, HE'LL MAKE HIMSELF LOOK STUPID, that's not your job.
Your job is to avoid MAKING YOU... (read in full...)
Is he bored now that the chase is over?
Q. Hi everyone sorry if this is long and confusing! Ive been seeing a guy for the last two months, in the beginning he was very keen and had been chasing me for quite a while, texting me all the time wanting to hang out and chatting on msn oft...
A. 28 September 2009: Girlfriend, I didn't find this question the least bit confusing, but I'm sure you're finding your situation extremely confusing and probably a little scary. Once I had someone who was "Now you see me, now you don't".....he did all the things y... (read in full...)
How can I trust a person without honesty?
Q. My BF and have been together for 7 months. I think he may be cheating. He still talks to his ex and doesn't see a problem with it. Some of the messages and calls between them have been very suggestive, I can feel that his ex is still loves him ...
A. 28 September 2009: Dear Dump-Him,
Sweetie; you 'overlook' things that make you a saint, and simultaneously 'stupid' (sorry). It's cool to be okay with the ex's and I've got the same thing going; but my ex and his gf; our 2 kids and my bf and me are ALL CLOSE AN... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my teacher and its ruining both of our lives!
Q. For the past 2 years i have been obsessed with a female teacher and it is really affecting BOTH are lives. I think its an obsession not love, because i dont want to kiss her or anything like that- i just want to be with her all the time. I l...
A. 28 September 2009: Dear Teacher-Obsessed, LET IT GO. DROP IT. Run, don't WALK away from the craziness of what you're doing; it's accelerating and won't go away until you get a SERIOUS GRIP on yourself. You can admire people, but you're putting 'dangerous' pres... (read in full...)
Is my penis curved because of the way I masturbate?
Q. I'm having curved penis problem.well its a different one,i have a preconception about it-i use to masturbate lying on my belly and pressing my penis up and down on the bed,so i get the feeling that it is because of this only.My dick very little ...
A. 28 September 2009: Well, Mr. Curved, I'm NOT 'some girl', but I can probably shed some light on this one.
Since I don't know your age, your 'masturbation schedule' and whether or not your penis was ever straight and at attention, my first response would be that NO,... (read in full...)
I'm finding it so hard to let her go, but if she wants to live her life like this should I just accept it and move on?
Q. I have been married for 19 years, I am 64 my wife is 48. We have a son aged 15. It has been a happy marriage, we were both in love and have a wonderful life, great house, great cars, health, great holidays. My wife also has a great stable ...
A. 28 September 2009: Dear Duly Dazed,
WHAT A SLAP IN THE FACE! Amazing how people can flip a switch and suddenly loved ones become disposable. Why? She seems to be going through that much-overused condition called, "middle aged crisis"; though 'crisis' is a misnom... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me with the Centrelink system in Australia?
Q. Getting treated unfairly by centrelink in australia and wondering what i can do about it. Im 19 and am on independant youth allowance. I have been diagnosed with major depression and am taking avanza. The doctor has said i can not work for another 3 ...
A. 28 September 2009: No, mate, wait!!!!! If anything goes upsy daisy by a 19 year old who's angry with the system, I'm worried that you'll find yourSELF in the system; and not in the way you want to be! There's ALWAYS a way to deal with the 'bureaucrats' and their... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the mother of my stepdaughter?
Q. I have a loving husband and we have been married for a year now everything have been going very well until we started taling about staying with his daughter the stepchild(6) next year.I love the child to death but i dont want to deal with the drama ...
A. 28 September 2009: Dear Drama-Free,
I don't blame you for wanting to avoid constant chaos with your husband's ex, and I also don't believe that it's necessary. Since you're the 'newest addition' to the equation, I'm not surprised that you're the one who's got to p... (read in full...)
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