My boyfriend's proposal was rushed and unplanned, and it doesn't feel right. How do I get over the disappointment?
Q. I know it's going to make me sound like a bitch but I am struggling with something and in need of advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years. A couple of weeks ago he proposed to me. And I said yes. But it didn't feel right. He we...
A. 4 April 2010: It is certainly a bummer that he did not make you feel special on the day he proposed. But is that really necessary? why is it that he has to go through all the planning and work just to make you happy with a trivial matter like how he proposed to ... (read in full...)
My g/f wants me to skip my brother's wedding for our anniversary
Q. Dear readers, I have quite the tricky situation on my hands and I would like to know what you guys would do if you were in my situation. Here it goes. Me and my girlfriend began dating on October 8th, 2008. We've been relatively okay, except we ...
A. 4 April 2010: It seems your girlfriend is a bit controlling, or is insecure about how much control she has in your relationship and she thinks she needs more. I think it is perfectly reasonable for you to celebrate the week after or the week before, your brothers ... (read in full...)
I'm a thinker and he's a doer. How can we find common ground?
Q. so my boyfriend and i are fighting my point of view- i prefer to just talk and hangout with people when we are at peoples houses to hangout instead of always running around and playing games, i feel as if though that when i want him to sit b...
A. 30 March 2010: From what im gathering, you are both right in a way, maybe if you try to do what he wants more often, he will be much more willing do what you want too. If you stay positive doing what he wants to do he will likely take notice and try much harder to ... (read in full...)
I've never even kissed a girl before. Is this normal?
Q. Help, I have recently became depressed because I have never been kissed before let alone have had a girlfriend. Is this normal? All the other males have girlfriends and it makes me sick and depressed when I can't find one of my own, hell some are ...
A. 30 March 2010: What is normal may not be important! People move at their own pace physically, if you are interested in getting a girlfriend then begin your search at school, flirt with girls you like or think you may learn to like, put yourself out there. There is ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be in the endless breaking up/dating cycle, ... but I also don't want him to move on completely.
Q. I have a question that will seem like there is a common sense answer. But I will ask it anyway. My boyfriend and I have been on and off again more times than I can count. We have only been together for about 3 months but it feels like years. I ...
A. 30 March 2010: I think you really need to address this issue pronto, this guy has you trapped and he knows it, you have the strength to push him away, you just dont think you do, and you have the ability to do it, your just afraid of being alone. It seems like a ... (read in full...)
How would you deal with your partner putting pictures of their deceased ex everywhere? Am I being insensitive?
Q. My man have his deceased ex pictures posted on everything, Am I being Insensitive? My man posts pictures of his deceased ex on his profile page. She died a year ago. The picture posted as his main photo is him and her together hugged up. At that mom...
A. 30 March 2010: It seems that you are certainly in line, that must be very difficult to deal with when you are with your man and you see pictures of his past woman everywhere, you have to be very careful about the situation though as its certainly a sensitive topic ... (read in full...)
Two Guys I REALLY Like...Help!
Q. *OP's own title* I really like these two men: Mateo and Ed (fake names of course). And I just don't know what to do, who to choose, etc. Ed is a sweet guy, 20 yrs older, good-looking, and extremely kind to me. We joke around constantly, tease ea...
A. 30 March 2010: This is a very tricky situation, especially because they are both much older than you are, you should try to be true to yourself and find out who you really could see yourself with in the long run, and maybe that will help you make a decision, ... (read in full...)
How can I get my shy guy to loosen up?
Q. I'm "dating" a guy but he's sooooooooo shy!! He barely ever starts conversations etc... How can I tell him to loosen up? Would you be offended if someone told you to loosen up? Were off to see kick ass on Thursday so advice before then would be ...
A. 30 March 2010: One way may be to tell him how comfortable you are with him, or dont tell but show how comfortable you are with him and make sure he feels secure, this could certainly help him to loosen up and open up to you. Pointing out he is really shy to him ... (read in full...)
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