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I really hate being shy.

Q.   [Mod note: 2 questions by same poster combined.] Q. I'm a Freshman in High School, and I feel kind of like the rock that hasn't rolled in with the tide. While all my friends are chatting during lunch about how and where they last had sex, I've nev...

A.   16 January 2011: Hey hun. So the first thing I haave to point out...WHY ARE YOUR 14 YEAR OLD FRIENDS HAVING SEX?! I don't know what state your from, but that's WAY too young to be having sex. At your age, there is no reason to do something that is for ADULTS. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend told me to move on while he sorts out his issues, but I just want to be with him!

Q.   My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years and lived together almost all of that time. He's been wonderful, supportive and caring... basically, I thought he was the one and I love him with all my heart. We are both in our thirties so we're old ...

A.   14 January 2011: Hey hun. If you really love him, you have to think about what he might be going through. It's great that he's seeking professional help. That's definitely the first step in his healing. I think the only thing you can do at this point is support him. ... (read in full...)

Lack of commitment from him, he won't put a label on our relationship!

Q.   Okay heres the thing sort of an awkward situation. So back about two years ago i met this guy online for just intercourse. I was only 18 at the time and really confused about my sexuality. It was my first time with a guy. So after that I decided I ...

A.   14 January 2011: Hey hun. I hope this helps you: Sometimes with a lot of gay or straight couples, putting a label on relationships only causes pressure and stress. Think of it this way...many couples are completely okay UNTIL they "get married" or become "girlfri... (read in full...)

I don't want to think about sex 24/7!

Q.   Oka i have a very huge sexual appetite...i mean i like it just about every hour on the hour but i cant get it like that. I dont care where we are or whos around..my girls the same way though so she keeps me pretty satisfied. Heres the problem ...

A.   13 January 2011: Play videogames.... (read in full...)

Why can't my boyfriend make me orgasm???

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times now and i was wondering Why can't he make me orgasm? We've had a lot of foreplay but he doesn't come either. I'm usually on top and we're quite rough but neither of us come! Help!...

A.   13 January 2011: Honestly, you should try masturbating so that YOU know what YOU like. Then, that gives you an idea about what he can do for you. I know it sounds very technical. But especially for girls, it's important to experiment with yourself. Plus, overall,... (read in full...)

How do I handle my friend with dignity?

Q.   Help! I have a very demanding, high maintenance friend! I am at my wits end and don't know what else to do. I really should remove myself from the friendship as I am feeling so drained but our children go to school together so I constantly have ...

A.   13 January 2011: You might need to put yourself in her shoes: does she have any underlying issues that might need some professional attention? You may need to be a bit firmer when it comes to your friendship, since it's a two way street. She can't expect you to l... (read in full...)

Is my coworker interested in me, or is it in my head?

Q.   I like this guy I work with, but I don't know if he is just friendly, or likes me back. To clarify I work part time at a grocery store. Some traits of our relationship: -He helps me whenever I need something -He always laughs at my jokes and s...

A.   13 January 2011: Chat him up on Facebook! Try to make more than small talk. If you have a blackberry, ask for his PIN! You just have to jump in with both feet and see what happens! :) Alot of girls are afraid of rejection, but my advice to all women is to just... (read in full...)

Is a condom enough?

Q.   Hi I'm a Uni student who is a virgin and I've been dating this guy for a few months, and I really want to have sex with him but I'm scared to death of getting pregnant. If he uses a condom, do I really have that much to worry about?......

A.   13 January 2011: Condoms are never 100% preventative, but there are more things you can do to prevent pregnancy on top of using a condom. 1) Try lubricant or condoms with spermicide. Spermicide kills sperm in case there is a breach in the condom. Plus, lubrican... (read in full...)

We seem too perfect together just to throw it away!

Q.   okay, so here's the deal. Me and my (now ex) were together for a year and a half. before dating, we were best friends. we are both 17 years old. we both loved eachother alot and have so much in common. he play the same sports and look at things the ...

A.   13 January 2011: Ask yourself: do you want to marry him? Can you see yourself with him in 20 years? It's definitely an immaturity issue. Speaking from experience, most guys want (at your age) is to have fun and not be tied down. Guys don't even consider settlin... (read in full...)

Masculine straight guy who likes cross dressing -- any women for whom this isn't a deal breaker?

Q.   Okay so I've posted here before but this one is too sensitive to a question so I'm going anonymous with my question. Thing is I am a strait male. I'm sure of this as men don't turn me on I've tried and nope its a turn off actually. Now here is the ...

A.   13 January 2011: I don't know if I can represent all women with my answer: I'm a very Liberal and open woman. I wouldn't find this a turn off, unless you kept it from me. The most important thing in a relationship is to be open with your partner. I wouldn't su... (read in full...)

Hearing about my boyfriends sexual past turns me on...is this common?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We have a wonderful sex life. We have occasionally watched porn together and I noticed that watching him watch porn turned me on more than actually watching it myself. Over about a six ...

A.   13 January 2011: I think that if you really like this guy, you'll want to do anything to please him, just like his past sexual encounters. I know that this could get me going as well, because I love to really pleasure my sexual partner. But if that's the ONLY ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend flirts and talks dirty with other girls!!

Q.   Heyyy! Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for over 8 months now , but he tend's to flirt with other girls! A few months back i found pictures of another girl on his phone and texts from a load more! It really hurt me and knocked my c...

A.   13 January 2011: I think being younger is a very important factor in your situation. Most 16-18 year old guys have one thing on their mind: making themselves look desirable and trying to "woo" as many girls as possible before they settle down. If you don't see yo... (read in full...)

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