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I am a very interesting character. I am an openly gay man with a lovely husband. I have a good judge of character but yet I still give people the benefit of the doubt. I judge people the way they present themselves during and after they meet me. I expect the good out of people but I also prepared to expect the worst. I have come off to people as blunt. I don't see the point in beating around the bush with naive people. I know I am not perfect but I tend to stick to a safety zone were I know I can make the least amount of mistakes. I respect people and will continue until you give me a reason not too. I play life smart absorbing in information regardless of the source, can't be stingy in this world. I look at situations from all perspective views with what I have learned in life. I have been told I am wiser than what may age would make people think. Other than a hundred other things I am a caring, loving, and intimate person, and I love Kirby.

Has anybody try this before?

Q.   Has anybody try this before will it really delayed my period because I have a trip on saturday I really want to go to!! Humphrey's Symptoms Of Delayed Menses #11, 32 Tablets by ClubNatural" I read couple of people use it and they said it r...

A.   18 August 2008: Messing with nature is not healthy. I wouldn't trust anything over the counter unless a doctor you trusted said it was fine. Even if it does work your body chemistry is going to go whack and you will gain/lose weight, lose hair, get bitchy, and ... (read in full...)

I can't start school like this, I need help with friends, I feel like I'm falling into a pit!!

Q.   I really need help!! This year I have gone through so much. I was best friends with this girl for atleast 5 years and then she suddenly dumped me. She would talk about me to here new friends, and also to mutual friends. It was an extremly hard ti...

A.   18 August 2008: Lets see, there is an estimated population of 6 billion people. There are plenty of people to go around. Your making a big deal out of these people. It's fine to get upset and and feel neglected, but move to better people. That is what life is ... (read in full...)

I want to move out!

Q.   I am 15 and i hate my family and i wish i could live some where else and just talk with them sometimes i hate it here, i love them but, i think i would be better off not living with them i fight with them, a little to much. but i don't want to hurt ...

A.   12 August 2008: Hate is such a harsh word. Sure we all hate things, but to hate someone means you think negativly about that person/persons. You need to sit down and look at your parents life and just imagine what they are going through and what they have to do ... (read in full...)

We're both married and both completely and utterly besotted by each other.

Q.   I have fallen in love with someone and don't know if I should ruin everyone's lives by going off with him. We're both married and both completely and utterly besotted by each other. We are not having an affair but he wants to leave his wife for us ...

A.   7 August 2008: It is dishonest to cheat on your spouse, but the fact you have feelings for this other man goes to show that you are not happy with your husband. The object of life is to be happy. I can't say for sure the most nicest way to go about your ... (read in full...)

Why is breaking up so hard even when you know it wasn't working out?

Q.   My boyfriend of 2.5 years and I just broke up. I've known for awhile that it wasn't working and we wouldn't be compatible long term. Even though I know this it is extremely painful? I don't understand why it shoudl be this painful knowing we ...

A.   27 July 2008: It`s because you still love him. Even though you knew it would not work out you still gave him love and you still fealt love. It will take time for your heart to heal. As time goes on your attachment for him will fade into the past. Best of ... (read in full...)

Do you know of any happy relationship that started off badly? Do tainted relationships work?

Q.   Can tainted relationships ever work? I was cheated on, we got back together and I'm really happy now, but does anyone know of any lasting, happy relationships that started off badly? I'm curious, as I reckon almost half of relationships have ...

A.   26 July 2008: It can work. As long as you don't hold a grudge and love him unconditional then it can work. It takes a lot and that is why you don't hear much about relationships that work after an unfaithful partner/partners. I remember a couple that had an ... (read in full...)

My fiance has lost his interest in sex, should I be worried?

Q.   My soon to be husband hasn't had sex with me in 2 weeks. Prior to that it had been 10 days before we engaged in sex. He says he isn't in the mood ever, and that he is too tired. This worries me , because we are a young couple about to marry. How ...

A.   26 July 2008: I hope he isn't on the Down low, no joke intended. Believe it or not there are some men who don't find sex that interesting. These men are usually sophisticated men, men with high demands of people, arrogant, clean, and career or job oriented. ... (read in full...)

He's away and I'm paranoid... what do I do?

Q.   I was seeing a guy 4 7mths who was a friend of a friend that i had known for ages. Before we got together he changed jobs and now is a snowboarding instructor. When we got together he was out of work but knew that eventually when he got one abroad ...

A.   26 July 2008: Are you committed to this sort of relationship. It's not like a long distance relationship but more of a come and go relationship. If you don't like it let him know how you feel and if there is no compromise then do what your heart tell you to do. ... (read in full...)

How do I know when I should end my long distance relationship?

Q.   I've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. We've been good friends since high school then I moved to the states when i was 16. Since then we've always kept in contact and told me he loves me. Long short, we start our long ...

A.   26 July 2008: Okay lets make this simple. You were never in a relationship to begin with you you moved away. There is no such thing as a long distance relationship. You have no obligation to talk about this with your distant boyfriend to let him know that it ... (read in full...)

Poll question for women: do you like oral and would you like your partner more for it?

Q.   Do girls like when a guy goes down on them? And would you like your boyfriend more if he did that?...

A.   24 July 2008: Oral sex is nice if you like it. Oral sex gives a boost to ones climax. It gets the sex hormones flowing. I think everyone should do some sort of fore-play whether it's just kissing or full blow oral sex. It would be disappointing to have ... (read in full...)

Is my friend helping or interfering?

Q.   Hey everyone I'm in a very puzzling situation... Okay well I recently started talking to a boy from a different school but we get along good and we know what eachother look like and things have been going real great between us. Its only been like 2...

A.   24 July 2008: Sounds like her love life is boring. Let her know it makes you feel uncomfortable when she wiggles herself in your love life. Tell her when you want to say something you will but set a guide line with her in a friendly way. If she doesn't ... (read in full...)

My ex husband hangs around a lot lately and his habit to interrupt others while they are talking has only accentuated!

Q.   Hi there. I have just a simple question. My ex-husband hangs around a lot still and lately, I can't have a conversatin AT ALL without him interrupting me. Anything I talk about and even when I'm on the phone with somebody, he interrupts me to ...

A.   24 July 2008: Sounds like he is feeling lonely and left out. He is waiting for someone to listen to him and give him attention. Assuming that he doesn't have anyone one else in is life. Do you two still live together, it sort of sound a like it. If you two ... (read in full...)

Please, could you give me advice on how to lose weight? Particularly the areas of the stomach and face worry me!

Q.   Hi can you give me some advice on how to lose weight, i dont want to loose alot, im 17 and nearly 10 stone and before i was only 9 n half at the max! I have started cutting out some foods, just trying to eat 3 meals a day because i did used to eat ...

A.   18 July 2008: The truth is that you can lose weight and eat whatever you want, of course you might not get all the nutritn if you eat what you want without overloading on calories, fat and carbs. The best option is stick to a diet that consists of three meals a ... (read in full...)

I'm so confused, what should I say to him, does he really love me?

Q.   Hey im having trouble..! cuz i realli like this guy who is 16 and im only 14 but i have been snoging him for a bit now..! he's really nice but we're not goin out together.! nd already he told me he loves me and i always say it back cause i do . and...

A.   18 July 2008: Sounds like this silver tongue is nothing more than a snake in the grass. Men and women at your age are going through the wonderful changes of becoming and adult, physically speaking. Mentally we are just thinking about sex, we aren't even wanting ... (read in full...)

He only comes to see me when I have money, why can't I leave him? Is this love?

Q.   I need to know why am I doing this repeated. My boyfriend, he fights with me over money, takes every penny I have to the last drop just to get what he wants. Realised now that he is married with a 1 year son and he claims to be married bcos of his s...

A.   18 July 2008: You shouldn't be living in this hell of a life. You know what to do but you are hoping somebody will agree with you to stay with that monster. Unfortunity honey this man is a player and he looks at women as tools and nothing more. In his eyes ... (read in full...)

What do you do if your parents don't want you to date?

Q.   i want to start dating guys but what if your parents dont want you to yet and what if they tease you about liking boys what should i do?...

A.   18 July 2008: Parents will be parents. Your parents are going to set rules for you especially if your in your mid teens like yourself. Unfortunately you will have to abide by it as it is still your parents house and rules and not to mention they will do it for ... (read in full...)

Should I really fight this hard for him?

Q.   Basically last year I went on holiday with a group of friends and relatives there were a couple of guys I didn't know that also came who were friends of my friends. Anyway I really got on well with one of these guys and we slept together a few times ...

A.   16 July 2008: Do you think there is potential love for him in the future. If you think there is then don't let him slip away. The worse that could happen is that you two don't end up marrying and having that all American dream, oh well there is a few billion ... (read in full...)

What pet names can you call a guy?

Q.   A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...

A.   15 July 2008: Nothing realy, or at least in public as men think it is degrading and ruins their ego. Call him something adorable yet masculine, pooka, tiger, burly bear are just a few.... (read in full...)

Do you think I should 'come out'?

Q.   Should I come out of the closet? I'm thirteen and live in a community that mostly hates gays. But i just feel so bottled up with no one to talk to. should I tell my best freind? I don't want our freindship to end. He's also a super Christia...

A.   15 July 2008: Trust is the key word. Timing is of the essence. Do what makes you feel comfortable. You don't necesarly have to come out and say it but if you are gay then you need to be true to yourself and not fake your life. When the time comes you can say ... (read in full...)

We used to be much closer, calling each other all the time, now I call her 10 times she answers 1 time, what has happened, am I only there for the times she is lonely, please help?

Q.   I have been with her for a year now. We were doing so great. We talked to each other a lot. Everytime, I called her, she is there waiting. It rang the most 2 times, she pick up already. Recently, she always missed my call and rarely text me. ...

A.   15 July 2008: Well if you two see each other and call each other then it would make sense that you wouldn't need to call her as much or text her as much. Don't suffocate her with calls or make her feel surrounded at all times. People need their space just give ... (read in full...)

Want to do something special for, or with my partner, on a tight budget, any suggestions?

Q.   Hi, I'm just looking for advice on special things to do for or with my partner (on a tight budget) just to suprise him. Any ideas? We're both 22 and only realy get to spend nights together as we both study and work through the day....

A.   15 July 2008: Romance costs nothing, that is if you know how. I believe deep down inside of everyone is the ability to love and show romance, some better than others. You could always get that movie to rent that you know you will never get around to. Cook a ... (read in full...)

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