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writes:No matter how hard I try, I can't ask out to any girls I like much less talk to them... My friends say the nervousness never goes away but still, I think mine is different.. Reply to this Question
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (30 August 2008):
hey, firstly i dont know a guy who doesnt have this problem! even the confident cocky ones are scared of rejection, its in all of us. you just sound like you need a bit of confidence youve been brave enough to admit you find it difficult to talk to girls so when you do get close to the one you like start of by teling her this, some girls even find it sweet that your not over confident and so it looks good for you in a way! you just have t build yourself up and once youve done it youll get much better! good luck let me know how it goes xxx
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (30 August 2008):
 That's a shame.You can alway use msn or something to ask some girl out first, or hint that you want to. Or you can to the wimpy thing (which is totally acceptable in your case) and get a mate to ask a girl for you. I find talking to boys I like embarrasing but hey? what can you do?The first guy who asked me out asked me to my face but I had plenty of hints and pretty much made up my mind by the time he got round to it. It was fun - I was asked out twice that evening, I had to say know to the latter because I was technically in a relationship, but since then I haven't said no to any one.Oh well... your time will come, young grasshopper.Jellyxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): don't worry you're making this into a big deal.you're only young and have plenty of time to find a girl who'll make you feel so relaxed when you're round her that all the nervousness will just melt away and thats when you know that shes special good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): Just be yourself.Talk to them like you would talk to a friend:comfortably.But be a gentlemen.Act yourself and not
someone you're not.That will turn girls off.You can do it.
Just believe in yourself and give it a try.
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reader, oikid11 +, writes (30 August 2008):
 Don't worry, it's nothing. My friends are around your age, and they are nervous all the time. Even the guy that all the girls fall for, barely talks.
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