I feel so alone and being controlled by my husband
Q. Dear cupid I have been married for past 3 years and dated my husband 3 years prior. Lately i feel so alone and being controlled by my husband. Its always his way or high way, never seem to take any of my input though we both own the house , i ea...
A. 1 January 2021: You have a choice.
Your health or your status. Both are very important. I want to scream out "LEAVE THAT TOXIC ABUSIVE ASSHOLE!" but that's not very productive. So here are a couple of websites for you to read:
1. USA: Options for Victims of A... (read in full...)
I have a small penis and premature ejaculation... Casual hookups?
Q. How can I start casually dating and hooking up? I have only had 1 sexual partner in the past and it has been a year since we broken up. I am moving on with my life, but I find it hard to get back into the dating life as I have what is a major deal ...
A. 1 January 2021: How do you communicate that you have a small penis and struggle with premature ejaculation to a girl without them immediately shutting you down?
You don't. Why in the nine cat hells would you do that?
If they want to have sex with you and you... (read in full...)
Hurt by my fwb fella sexting during lockdown
Q. Hi, So around 3 years ago I entered a friends with benefits relationship with a guy I know (let's call him Jack). We ended up becoming best friends who also had sex. Over the last 18 months, we've become very close. As both of us are still studying ...
A. 1 January 2021: I don't get how you're hurt by this.
Firstly, did you two clearly state that not sexting with other people was a part of the rule of your FWB relationship? If yes, then I can understand your hurt. If no, then I don't understand why you're hurt.
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My husband admitted to having sex with a prostitute twice earlier this year. Where do we go from here?
Q. Can any of you tell me how your husband could claim to love you when he had sex with the same prostitute twice while away on a business trip? He has always been there for me throughout our 10 year marriage. My best friend, my lover, my protec...
A. 1 January 2021: You're not going to like my answer.
LOVE =/= LIBIDO and vice versa.
Love is a very broad umbrella term. It's a gigantic whirlwind of emotional and reactionary concepts that give us a strong emotional bond with another person or thing.
Li... (read in full...)
My best friend isn't happy that I got back with my ex
Q. Hi aunt and uncles! My best friend who is like family has had me as part of her circle during the pandemic. I’ve been pretty depressed and talking about wanting to get back together with my ex with my best friend a lot. I’m not unsafe with the pand...
A. 1 January 2021: Just so you know, a "best friend" isn't a role or a position that people fill. She is your best friend because no other friend makes you feel the same way she makes you feel, no matter whether she is a good friend or not.
From the way you desc... (read in full...)
I'm struggling with my co-workers English
Q. Hello all. Thank you in advance for taking the time to help me find a solution to my problem. I have just started a job after being flogged due to Covid. I love the job and the staff I work with are great the thing is many of the staff I take ...
A. 1 January 2021: How about using flash cards to communicate major instructions?
Eg:
- Do X.
- Complete Y.
- Customer Z needs aid.
Fill in the X, Y and Z with the specifics. That way, the main instruction is understood, and what is needed is the target.
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Are women equally as shallow as men?
Q. Shallow men only go after attractive women. Would it be fair to say that shallow women only go after bad boys? I notice that bad boys tend to have more "alpha" personalities and therefore higher status in society. Perhaps men are wired to seek ...
A. 1 January 2021: Men, women, and everything in between aren't one collective hive mind. Considering there are about 7.7 billion people on this planet, I'd say the chances for finding the same kind of shallow women that you may find in shallow men is pretty high. ... (read in full...)
Do I chose between 2 men that don't have all the qualities I want or wait for the whole package?
Q. Okay, so I am knee deep into online dating right now apart from the matrimonial search my parents are on. Until now I have either fallen in love in accidental ways or intensely dated one person at a time. I don't have enough experience to ob...
A. 1 January 2021: Kenny pretty much nailed it in his first line. "All dating really is, is a learning curve." Sorry, grammar and spelling correction. ?
I used to say this a lot in one form or another...
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What do you think dating is? People often mistake dat... (read in full...)
Do I reach out to my ex when I know he's having a hard time?
Q. I recently discovered that my childhood sweetheart is having a pretty hard time due to losing his job and his relationship breaking down due to all the pressure of the pandemic. Now I’m happily engaged to be married next year, but I am worried...
A. 1 January 2021: This really depends on the dynamics of your current relationship, as well as your character.
For myself, I would have reached out to an old sweetheart without any worries whether my partner would have issues with it. Then again, my wife and I ar... (read in full...)
I don't like the choices my girlfriend made in the past getting involved with someone who was involved with someone else
Q. Hi, Need advice Bit of a tricky one. Been with my girlfriend for seven months Everything is going well. A couple of months ago my girlfriend told me about a past fling/relationship she had with her cousins brother in law she met at a fami...
A. 1 January 2021: Dear Anon...
My answer is going to be voted down to hell for going straight to the point. Times has changed since 2006. ^_^
While I appreciate the time it took for you to type out your story and the emotional energy it took for you to express t... (read in full...)
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