How do I get this happily married man to notice me?
Q. i like this guy,but he is married and happy.i see him once every fortnight at work.what shoul i do for he notice me,please?...
A. 18 October 2009: Please dont be a homewrecker. Going after married men is one thing, but going after a HAPPILY married man?! That is just not right. How would you like it if someone did that to you and ruined your life?
I suggest you spend your efforts on a wort... (read in full...)
We had an argument, and he's threatening to go back to cutting. Help!
Q. Please help me.. My boyfriend and I have a strong relationship, and I love him to death. He is kinda half-emo, and he's cut himself before. I don't want it to happen again.. We got in an argument and he's threatening to cut himself this Fri...
A. 7 October 2009: i think this is a low attempt to get attention. He is definitely not going about it in the right way whatsoever. He shouldn't hold it over your head that every time something doesn't go his way, hes going to threaten to cut himself. The only thi... (read in full...)
Was this rape? He's acting like nothing happened....
Q. Last night me and my bf were having sex he was behind me when he stuck his finger in my anus. He has done it b4 which i dont mind as it doesnt hurt me. B4 i continue weve always had this joke bout doing it up the bum. I always said i would never do ...
A. 4 October 2009: I think anal sex is on another level than vaginal sex. My boyfriend and I have vaginal sex but I would never consider having anal sex. he has tried to but I have said no and he stopped right away. You should really talk to your boyfriend about it so ... (read in full...)
My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?
Q. so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and ...
A. 3 October 2009: if he cheated on you with her that is bad enough.. but cheating on you while you and his child are in the room sleeping is UNACCEPTABLE. It is degrading, disrespectful and disgusting. If i were you, I would DEFINITELY cut ties with both of them ... (read in full...)
I'm now no better than my cheating husband. I need your help! What should I do?
Q. I don't know what category this comes under, to say my life feels like a mess right now, would be an understatement. I'm desperate for advice or words of wisdom. Have been married fifteen years now and it all started about two years ago, when ...
A. 3 October 2009: I think you should tell your husband you know he is trying to meet for sex. Tell him you are leaving him. and tell him also that you have found someone who has potential. This should hopefully make him see what he has and what he can lose. I think ... (read in full...)
He is friends with the girl he cheated on me with. Should I just get over it?
Q. Hi so I had been with my boyfriend for a year and a half when he cheated on me with a girl i was kinda friends with, he says its not cheating coz we werent together at the time coz we had been fighting a lot but i never knew we had actually broken ...
A. 3 October 2009: no , honey, dont get over it. Its disrespectful to you that he keeps such contact with a girl he cheated on you with. Since he is with YOU, i suspect he just sees the other girl as an "easy fling" but that is still no reason to just let it go. Im ... (read in full...)
Are we together for the right reasons?
Q. we have been together for just over 3yrs now, and we have a 14 month old son. since we found out i was pregnant he changed, i went through the pregnancy alone. since birth, he doesn't offer to help with our son or when i'm ill he don't help me, and ...
A. 3 October 2009: Oh my goodness,when I read your post it definitely hit home. My boyfriend has been doing the same things. Everything has changed since we had our son. I have to wonder, was your man really honestly ready to have a child? I think sometimes men feel ... (read in full...)
How to tell my girl of 6 years that its just not there anymore
Q. Ok so i have been with a girl for six years and we have had our ups and downs like every one else, but the problem is ive sat down for a long time and asked myself do i really love her? i have feelings for her and i do like seeing her but not being ...
A. 1 October 2009: Well i personally think you should tell her right away that you have been confused and you need to think about things. if you stay with her because you know she loves you and you feel bad for her, it will only hurt her more when she starts noticing ... (read in full...)
After 3 and a half years and a child together, we hardly ever have sex, help us?
Q. Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and we have a child together. He says he loves me but we hardly ever have sex anymore ( almost never) and he used to be very, very sexual ALL the time. At one point he told me he loves me ...
A. 1 October 2009: hi, thanks so much for the replies. I am glad i am not the only one who thinks that the "sleeping in separate beds" is kind of odd. The thing is, whenever I talk about us going our separate ways, he says he loves me and that he would be devastated ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my girlfriend from hating me once she has lost her virginity to me? And is kissing her breasts a good thing or just stupid?
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] 1. Whenever i make love to 'a lady, i like giving her a kiss on her breast. Now i wanted to know or ask, is it a good thing that i am doing or is it just stupid? ...
A. 1 October 2009: First of all, if she lost her virginity to you because she wanted to , there shouldnt be any hard feelings. if she feels unsure of what she has done or guilty maybe, i think talking to her about it would help alot. Explain to her how much you care ... (read in full...)
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