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He'd been distant, so I broke up by text. But I don't understand his reply!

Q.   So my bf has been very distant towards me. Actually he straight up stopped talking to me after a fight we had about my jealousy issue. I understand he needed time to cool off. It was a week then he called me, but I was in the middle of something and ...

A.   19 May 2010: This is neither here nor there :) I guess he was asking if you'd let him keep the dog as part of the separation agreement! Don't know if he's making light of the situation or he's releived that you ended it and trying to be friends. BTW, what do y... (read in full...)

Co-Workers Flirting!

Q.   I was at my job and starting and about a year and a half ago I noticed what I think is two co-workers flirting with one another. One of them is married and I know the partner. If you were in a position to tell the married partner whether there was ...

A.   19 May 2010: I personally believe that we shouldn't poke our noses into others' problems. I don't think it matters either way - whether they are friends or lovers, how would that affect you? My dad was having an affair with a lady at work,and most of my d... (read in full...)

I hate my sister. Is this normal?

Q.   I think I hate my sister. Is this normal, or should I do something to communicate better with her? She is deaf. And she has a jealousy complex. She always wants to know what I'm doing with my time, and treats me like she thinks she is my mother...

A.   19 May 2010: Well, do you blame her for being jealous? She is deaf, and a girl. You can hear and you are a guy! I know, nosey sibs can be a pain, but believe me, they are so much better than indifferent ones. In any case, she takes an interest in what goes on i... (read in full...)

He dumped me on my birthday! Help!

Q.   Help plz!!!!!!!!! My boyfriend said he had a suprise for me on my b-day and then for the suprize he dumped me. Guess what my b-day was 3 wks ago and I still cant get ovr him what shuld ii do...

A.   19 May 2010: What kind of a guy is this? I am disgusted. He obviously doesn't deserve you. He is a sick idiot and you are lucky he's out of your life. Why should you waste your time and your life thinking about such a person? Please move on. I know it can be h... (read in full...)

Kissed another girl while I was drunk, can I ever be forgiven?

Q.   I recently moved away to college about an hour and a half away from my girlfriend. We decided to stay together since I will be able to come home and visit almost every weekend. I recently got drunk and kissed a friend of mine that lives in th...

A.   25 September 2008: Oh, that's so sad. I think you should write her a letter. In person, it might be difficult for you to convey what you mean to say, and for her to sit and listen. But if you you write, she will definitely read it. Some things you can tell her: yo... (read in full...)

I get frustrated and angry at little things he says and can't seem to control it, why am I behaving like this?

Q.   I am concerned. I have been with my man 5 years. We recently had a 7 month break as our reltionship was in a bit of a rut (my call). I am glad to be back together, and he is making such an effort, doing everything he can to make things better. I...

A.   25 September 2008: I think you need to sit down and think if you really want to be in this relationship. Maybe you need some more time on your own? Do you have any other problems? At work, with your family, or with your health? Different things can play on our minds. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months yet he doesn't agree to change his relationship status to committed on his online profiles!

Q.   Please tell me if you think I'm being paranoid. My boyfriend snapped at me becuase he said someone changed his profile on some bebo thing to show that he's in a realtionship so when I said does it really matter he said yes it does because someone ...

A.   25 September 2008: I think, any of these could be the reasons: a) he might not want some people to know that he's not single anymore. b) he is not serious about you and still flirts with other girls. c) He is telling you the truth, and doesn't really think it matt... (read in full...)

My best friend is not talking to me much since she has a boyfriend, it seems that he prefers him more than me!

Q.   me and my friend have been best friends since last year, we are like sisters or so i thought. it all started like 3 weeks ago wen she got a bf. i kno that they need time and blah blah. we used to talk everyday on the phone(most of the time i was ...

A.   23 September 2008: This is very normal. All girls go through this phase, I felt the same when my best friend got a BF. Look at it from her point of view - she is in love. Please don't mind that I am saying this - this might be bitter pill to swallow, but obviousl... (read in full...)

Married for a year and I don't understand why I am so miserable.

Q.   I am 22 years old and been married a year. My husband is a great man, the type or man that i am beyond lucky to have. i don't understand why im miserable then. I moved away from my home town, and met this man 6 months after i moved. i do love him...

A.   9 July 2008: wow. You have something everyone wants in life. Parties and hanging out etc is such transient thing. Everyone, especially women, yearn for permanence. I can understand that you feel you have missed out on some 'fun' in life, but you have the real ... (read in full...)

She's found someone else while we've ben apart. Can I get her back?

Q.   When I lived in Orlando as an intern, I met a girl that I had a relationship with. We had the time of our lives there. I practictly moved in with her a couple of days after we met. A year went by and we had to say good bye to Florida, she went ...

A.   9 July 2008: I am touched that you love this girl so much. I don't know why I get the feeling that you might not have made your intentions clear. Did you tell her that she's 'the one'? Did you tell her that you are planning a long term relationship? I am ... (read in full...)

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