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i am 19. but i have been married for over a year to my 22 year old husband. he has a daughter of two and i am now expecting (december17) i believe everyone should have some exploration in the world, but it should limit personal sexual desires when you start a family, but thats just me.

I'm pregnant and no longer want to feel like I'm in line for him!

Q.   Ok, i have been happily married for a year now. My husband is about the most wonderful thing that has ever happend in my life. But now im pregnant. Not really a shocker. We have been unprotected for about two years now. But the thing is, we have ...

A.   14 August 2008: thank you for the advice, but to make things a little more clear on the situation. first, my husband is THE ONLY ONE i have had unprotected sex with. (i dont want there kids only his) second, i quite frankly dont have any relatives, by choosing him ... (read in full...)

The first time he penetrated me I never bled, so now I'm scared he's going to think I was faking my virginity.

Q.   Hi there! I've been with this guy for about a year and everything seems right. I was with him a couple of weeks back and we were discovering each other. He didnt go inside me, but by the time we finished, i was on my way home i was bleeding...

A.   14 August 2008: umm have you ever done like gymnastics or done splits when you where younger or even recently? its perfectly possible that when you where younger and where doing those types of things your hymen had actually torn then, or stretched. that would be ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to bleed the first couple of times you have sex?

Q.   Ive had sex with my boyfriend twice.I've bled here and there both times and my vagina seems to be really tight.We both decided to lose our virginity to each other and we trust one another. What should I do about my vagina being so tight and is ...

A.   14 August 2008: hun, one thing, your tightness he probly LOVES. two the bleeding, its perfectly normal, and ky gelly works great, but if you are sinsitive skin johnsons and johnsons lotion is the best route for yall. and the secound thing. are you relaxed or alwa... (read in full...)

I am falling for a married man. I need to break away.

Q.   dear cupid? im writin to say that i have fallin for a married man who gives me the feelings of love an happyness iv never had or felt.it all started through a drivin course when he taught me how to drive, at first it was laughs an jokes then bec...

A.   13 August 2008: dear miss affair, what hes putting you and his wife through is horrible. things look great and beautiful with him. but he never lives in your bed right. he lives with another, and naps in yours. even if he did devorce his wife for you, what says he ... (read in full...)

Would it be safe for us to have sex without a condom?

Q.   my boyfriend and i are both 17 nd have only started having sex the last year or so. he's in the army and i want to finish my year 12 HSC first before i move away with him. he is totally cool with that. but he keeps asking me everytime we go to have ...

A.   13 August 2008: ok two things play in this role. you probly know by now his sexual past or atleast have the gist of it. if you feel that that may threaten you get him tested. so have him keep the condom on for now. and so he doesnt feel as if you cornered him ... (read in full...)

His sister moved in with us and strained our relationship. Can it be saved?

Q.   My boyfriend of almost 2 years and I bought a house together 4 months ago. Things were going really well for us when we decided to do it. We are both in our early 30's and we have both been married and are now divorced. The problem started when ...

A.   13 August 2008: you are your husbands wife, you should be top priorty and if the sister is causing problems. its time for you both to do something about it. you both need to sit down with the sister and give her some rules or tell her she needs to find a new place ... (read in full...)

Is it wise to be thinking of having a relationship with a man that is divorced twice?

Q.   is it wise to be thinking of having a relationship with a man that is divorced twice?...

A.   13 August 2008: depends on the situations of the dicorces. he may just have not found the right one untill now. but do know this. if they have a track record, theres usually a reason for it. ask the others if you can. if not dont get too into him, take things slow, ... (read in full...)

How can I help my girlfriend so it won't hurt her so much the next time we have sex?

Q.   My girlfriend and i had sex together for the first time. We did it twice and she bled both times. The first time she bled more than the second (the 2nd was only a little bit) She was in some pain and it was hard for me to go inside her because she's ...

A.   13 August 2008: I will let you have my advice. its one that is uncommon but its how i feel. dont plan to have sex with her next time. next time just "love" her body without actual intercourse. get naked with her. slowly explore each other. let her explore you, she ... (read in full...)

She was recently diagnosed with a disease and we've been on a break for 2 weeks. I love her and I don't know what to do.

Q.   I have been with my partner for over three years now, latley she has been very quiet and not her self, for example one day shes fine, the next shes really quiet. about 3 weeks ago we had a silly argument cuz she wudent tell me whats wrong, and she ...

A.   13 August 2008: hun, she knows you use her key and she doesnt have a problem with it? right. well let her parents know that you plan to wait for her in her room one day, and when she walks in, let her see you. wait for her to get her grip. and walk over and hold ... (read in full...)

I recently discovered my husband has been going to adult websites. How do men really feel about sex with their mate? Is it meaningless?

Q.   My hubby and I have been married almost 7 years. I recently discovered that he has been going to adult websites. Sharing myself with him means a lot to me and I almost feel betrayed. Plus, he's never told me he loves me while having sex with me. ...

A.   13 August 2008: have you told him you love him while being in bed with him? my husband does the same things, but he says what we are are very special, at times i feel like like im standing in a line with four or five other people and i want to be the "only one". ... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend tried to sabotage my new relationship. Is she just being difficult, or does she want me back?

Q.   my ex-girlfriend called this girl im talking to saying that shes still sleeping with me even tho im not. and she called her friend. saying that shes with another guy. does she still like me or is she just trying to ruin my relationship....

A.   13 August 2008: the poor girl may just not know how to "give you up" which means she doesnt know how to mentally deal with the situation. or she really is trying to ruin your life. girls can be mean and hurtful. but remember she had her chance, you choose who is r... (read in full...)

I'm like a boat with no rudder adrift on a stormy ocean. I'll never understand women. Help!

Q.   I will never understand women!!!!!! However, I would like to...... maybe First, I was a workaholic who made lots of money but she wanted me to spend time with her. Lost this one. Second I stop being a workaholic thanks in part to three accid...

A.   13 August 2008: i feel sad that the young lady cant see that your what girls like me really want. she seems like a.... toy.... almost. shes there for you but not at the same time. you CAN do as you please to her and she doesnt stop you. But she doesnt support you ... (read in full...)

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