B/f wants to know whats wrong with dating 5 years before we decide?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in our mid 30's and have no children and been dating nearly two years. We live an hour and 10 mins drive apart and meet up mid week and week ends. He says because he doesn't earn much he can't afford to commute even further ...
A. 2 May 2011: If you want children you need to be ruthlessly pragmatic. Odds are against you conceiving now and in another 5 years will be almost nil. If you never want children wait for him. If you want children issue an ultimatum and STICK to it. Sounds ... (read in full...)
Anything sexual with b/f makes me depressed!
Q. Relatively recently I've been having an issue with sex with my partner. We're on two and a half years, and still strong, but recently after every time we have sex, or anytime things have become sexual, I begin feeling depressed. I have had a histor...
A. 2 May 2011: This guy sounds alright. Your past is just spooking you.... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 1 May 2011: Attention all women: Porn is NOT cheating. Men ARE different from women. I know you've all been brainwashed by our PC society but men do completely separate love from sex. It's just physical. Get over it!... (read in full...)
Messing around with husband friend! I know I'm a bad friend, wife and mother!
Q. I have gotten myself into a huge mess and only keep digging myself deeper and deeper. my husband and i have been married for 6 yrs, we have 5 children (4 still very young) but there is no romance, i guess there has never really been. Here is the d...
A. 1 May 2011: The only reason you find his friend exciting is because it's taboo. If you fess up and get a divorce then you will ruin both your home life and your "love" life. His friend will then seem boring. Face it you have a thrill seeking personality, ... (read in full...)
I don't want to care about him any more. But how do I get over him?
Q. It has been four months since my boyfriend of a year and a half, I'll just call him "J" broke up with me. J and I met through mutual friends a year and a half ago and were instantly into each other. I felt an instant attraction with him that I ...
A. 1 May 2011: Welcome to life. God didn't promise you a bed of roses.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Or can it be as black and white as this?
Q. I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I finally have my answer. Tell me if you think I'm wrong. (or right? LOL) If a man knows that his porn viewing is hurting his girl, and he continues to do it, doesn't that mean he doesn't ...
A. 1 May 2011: What's wrong with porn? Why does his viewing it bother you. I think you are overreacting.... (read in full...)
Is it okay to hangout with a guy I recently met and know is interested in me, even though I have a boyfriend?
Q. The other day at work, I met a guy (not affiliated with my place of work) who seemed very friendly and genuinely nice (and cute, too!) After a little bit of talking, he asked me out on a date, to which I declined and stated that I had a boyfriend of ...
A. 1 May 2011: You're not married. Why women equate being a girlfriend is the moral equivalent of being a wife is beyond me.... (read in full...)
But he's a player. He loves another. I love him. How do I breakup with him?
Q. I fell in love with a guy... and he is a player.. I know that he is a player. He is my good friend. We met online. I know him from 4 months.I am 16. And He is 23. He helped me to come out from my last break-up. We do sex chat. (We don't do on cam ...
A. 1 May 2011: You've only know a guy 4 months and already you call him your good friend? Have you even met him in person?... (read in full...)
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